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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Myself and my wife have a profile each on here- today we noticed that we can no longer view eachothers profiles, and our verifications to each other have been deleted!

what's that all about then?

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

Verifications aren't really designed to be left for husband/wife or to/from members of a couple so it's likely it has been reported and Admin has taken action.

Admin x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But surely for a married couple who each choose to play alone and have seperate profiles a verification each way is important for other users to see? Its not like these were the only verifications we each have....

Can we please ask admin to reinstate these verifications as they show that we are happy for our partners to a- have their own profile and b- that there is no problems with us playing alone

Also- why can we not view eachothers profiles?

Basically we feel that we are being admonished for being completely honest on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a similar issue with proving we were happy playing single, but I have to agree with the policy of not verifying your own profiles - it is just too open to abuse.

We got around it by takign a picture of us both holding a handwritten sign saying we are happy for the other to play alone. You have to blank out your partner's face on the single profile, but it can be uploaded complete to your couple's profile where others can see it (put your profile names in each profile so they can track back). It's not ideal, but it does work within the rules of the site and goes some way to show your honesty.

That said, it doesn't seem to make any difference to the number of replies we get!! LOL!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your ingenuity hemelman!

S.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks - it took some working out, and there were a lot of removed photos before we worked out the exact combinations that worked within the rules. Like I said though, I don't think it makes any difference to most people!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

surely a verification is to prove that someone is real.....

both me and mrsf are verified by others- who are verified by others, so why can we not verify eachother?

i understand about fake profiles and people abusing the verification system, but logicly and fairly our verifications of eachother should be allowed. they were there for well over a month and then withdrawn without warning.....

is this just another case of 'computer says no'? (after it said yes)

we've always found that more people disbelieve us than believe us about the playing alone scenario - when they now look at our profiles and see we haven't even verified eachother they're rightly going to think that something is amiss...

ahh well, maybe fabswingers dot com would rather have just £5 every two months off us than £10 every two months..... our gain, lol

mr&mrsf

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow


"they were there for well over a month and then withdrawn without warning.....

is this just another case of 'computer says no'? (after it said yes)"

It's more likely that someone saw the fact that you had verified each other and reported it to Admin.


"we've always found that more people disbelieve us than believe us about the playing alone scenario - when they now look at our profiles and see we haven't even verified each other they're rightly going to think that something is amiss..."
Surely a note on each profile saying that the other has permission to play would suffice?

It is surprising that you were allowed to leave veris for each other, as veris from the same IP address are supposed to be blocked!

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm


"Myself and my wife have a profile each on here- today we noticed that we can no longer view eachothers profiles, and our verifications to each other have been deleted!

what's that all about then? "

not like you would be biased to each other !!!

Shouldnt be allowed to veri each other in our opinion.

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