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By *omerlady OP   Woman
over a year ago

Taunton

Can someone clarify where this stands with regards rules?

I have my filters set so that single men can't message me, so that I can select those I would like to talk to. I do this because I can't keep up with the volume of rubbish and demeaning messages I get.

I am finding, more so lately, many couples messaging me asking if I would play with the male half. I have even found some of these profiles are not even looking for women. This to me feels like men are just circumventing the filters.

Should I be reporting as well as blocking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are getting this more often..a lot of women just suddenly go off swinging but their partners seem available 24/7.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do both if you feel the need. I feel if a guy is wanting to meet on his own then he should have his own single male profile as well as their couples one as this is allowed. It could be a one off if the partner is not well or taking a break for example but always worth reporting as there may not be a partner at all.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

How about couples where only the women play and the men dont? I think they should also be reported.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's to say that the female ever was into swinging? Sounds dodgy to me.

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By *omerlady OP   Woman
over a year ago

Taunton

I guess I don't want to be reporting anyone unless there is a valid reason and that's the reason I felt the need to ask. The admins have a lot to do and the last thing I want to do is to be adding unnecessarily to their workload.

I am in a same sex marriage and we have an FF profile on here but when my other half decided to take a break, I created my single profile because it didn't seem right to be using our couples one.

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

Please report so we can review and correct their account type when needed

Admin x

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By *omerlady OP   Woman
over a year ago

Taunton


"Please report so we can review and correct their account type when needed

Admin x"

Thank you for this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are getting this more often..a lot of women just suddenly go off swinging but their partners seem available 24/7. "
is it because I guy has got a fuck buddy to set up a account with him and they aren't talking anymore and he's only here himself fishing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are getting this more often..a lot of women just suddenly go off swinging but their partners seem available 24/7. is it because I guy has got a fuck buddy to set up a account with him and they aren't talking anymore and he's only here himself fishing? "
* a guy

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By *penJackMan
over a year ago

Northampton

We have seen this soooooo much!

There were even two profiles that both presented as if it was the F more into it than the M. One of them was apparently all about the M arranging things for the F.

When it came to it, both "couples" were not yet ready to play as couples so suggested the M plays alone at first.

Um, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had this quite a lot on previous profiles, I usually just say no or ignore and block. I have a couple profile with a FWB but he doesn't have access to it so he can't play solo from it, as it's solely for us to play as a couple XXX

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Burnley


"How about couples where only the women play and the men dont? I think they should also be reported."

There is no filter to block messages off single females so not worth their while trying to deceive, but there is the 'not looking for single guys' filter which blocks single guys.

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