FabSwingers.com forum: Appear Offline

By *ilmiss75 OP Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Admin can you please consider letting us have a 'Appear offline' option.

It's getting beyond a joke now the amount of silly messages received and abusive 2nd mails from members who simply cannot take a NO.

I use the forum quite a lot and would like to do so without the silly meet now requests at stupid o'clock.

Yes, I use my block button but the list is getting longer and longer and there is no confirmation of how many people it holds!

I'm sure I'm not alone on this request.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know that feeling I have put on my profile that I won't meet after one e mail late at night or in a remote place but sadly some men chose not to read profiles or ignore it. I have had abusive messages too just because I said thanks but no thanks some people do need to realise that they are not going to appeal to everyone. If everyone liked the same kind of person there would be a lot more lonelier people out there.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know that feeling I have put on my profile that I won't meet after one e mail late at night or in a remote place but sadly some men chose not to read profiles or ignore it. I have had abusive messages too just because I said thanks but no thanks some people do need to realise that they are not going to appeal to everyone. If everyone liked the same kind of person there would be a lot more lonelier people out there. "

I have had similar, some get really quite abusive, others think that if they keep pleading with you to give them a chance & meet with them that you're suddenly going to find them attractive !! Some of them need to lest some self respect, & accept that if you don't find them attractive to be your type then that isn't going to change overnight or in the space of 20 seconds