FabSwingers.com forum: Profile being changed

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anyone else experienced their profile being changed?

Being a female I have my profile and also a couples profile. Mainly meeting through my couples profile however like numerous others I have seen I also have a female profile, for those rare occasions I male want to meet alone but also allows me my own identity on the site for chat and forums as myself without the confusion of people thinking it may be my husband!

Problem is I evidently have some people that don't read my profile correctly and then can't handle rejection when I am not interested and so report my profile!

Has anyone else experienced this? Perhaps I need to be more concise in my profile?

Grumpy Angel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says you only meet with your other half there so you are a couple presumably?

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The profile you're posting with now states very clearly that you only meet with your partner. It's right to be a couples profile. If you want to meet as a single then have a profile that doesn't specify that you only meet with your partner.

If you want to take it up with Admin then use the contact link at the bottom of the page.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

have done that. I do meet alone at my choosing. I have in the past met with the female partner of a couple we have met so I don't always meet with my husband but he is fully aware.

However.... is a female not allowed her own separate profile? I know of numerous profile of girls who meet as couples and have both a single female and couples profile!

I am just trying to be upfront about what I seek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have done that. I do meet alone at my choosing. I have in the past met with the female partner of a couple we have met so I don't always meet with my husband but he is fully aware.

However.... is a female not allowed her own separate profile? I know of numerous profile of girls who meet as couples and have both a single female and couples profile!

I am just trying to be upfront about what I seek"

Yes you are allowed a single profile however, you state in this profile that you only meet with your partner.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"have done that. I do meet alone at my choosing. I have in the past met with the female partner of a couple we have met so I don't always meet with my husband but he is fully aware.

However.... is a female not allowed her own separate profile? I know of numerous profile of girls who meet as couples and have both a single female and couples profile!

I am just trying to be upfront about what I seek"

Yup... it's totally fine to have a singles profile.

However, the wording on this profile, which I assume is the one you mean, begins by stating you only meet with your partner.

I'm not really sure what it is that you don't understand... I think you need to rethink the text.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"have done that. I do meet alone at my choosing. I have in the past met with the female partner of a couple we have met so I don't always meet with my husband but he is fully aware.

However.... is a female not allowed her own separate profile? I know of numerous profile of girls who meet as couples and have both a single female and couples profile!

I am just trying to be upfront about what I seek

Yes you are allowed a single profile however, you state in this profile that you only meet with your partner."

perhaps that part is not clear as I only meet COUPLES with my partner not alone. However I would meet the female from another couple alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"have done that. I do meet alone at my choosing. I have in the past met with the female partner of a couple we have met so I don't always meet with my husband but he is fully aware.

However.... is a female not allowed her own separate profile? I know of numerous profile of girls who meet as couples and have both a single female and couples profile!

I am just trying to be upfront about what I seek

Yes you are allowed a single profile however, you state in this profile that you only meet with your partner.

perhaps that part is not clear as I only meet COUPLES with my partner not alone. However I would meet the female from another couple alone "

Then surely use your couples profile to meet other couples, block couples on this one as you don't meet them alone and remove the text that says you meet with your partner, sorted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I thank you both for the input.

I think part of the problem is a male from a couple asked to meet me earlier and I rejected stating its not what I am seeking then I become a couple

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"have done that. I do meet alone at my choosing. I have in the past met with the female partner of a couple we have met so I don't always meet with my husband but he is fully aware.

However.... is a female not allowed her own separate profile? I know of numerous profile of girls who meet as couples and have both a single female and couples profile!

I am just trying to be upfront about what I seek

Yes you are allowed a single profile however, you state in this profile that you only meet with your partner.

perhaps that part is not clear as I only meet COUPLES with my partner not alone. However I would meet the female from another couple alone

Then surely use your couples profile to meet other couples, block couples on this one as you don't meet them alone and remove the text that says you meet with your partner, sorted

I may have to do that, was just trying to put it out there in the entirety of what I seek

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I thank you both for the input.

I think part of the problem is a male from a couple asked to meet me earlier and I rejected stating its not what I am seeking then I become a couple

No problem.

It's probably worth amending your filters, it currently says you don't want to meet single males but you do want to meet couples. That's confusing if you're looking to meet singles but not couples.

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!

for those rare occasions I male want to meet alone "

Freudian slip?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

the reason I had left it that way is that similarly to what I have done before I would meet with a female from a couple on my own so didn't want to rule that out if that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

for those rare occasions I male want to meet alone

Freudian slip?! "

typo mid rant

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!

for those rare occasions I male want to meet alone

Freudian slip?!

typo mid rant"

That's what a Freudian slip is. Saying what you really mean when you didn't mean to say it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

for those rare occasions I male want to meet alone

Freudian slip?!

typo mid rant

That's what a Freudian slip is. Saying what you really mean when you didn't mean to say it. "

and a typo is something different which is a mistake whilst typing but thanks for you input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone else experienced their profile being changed?

Problem is I evidently have some people that don't read my profile correctly and then can't handle rejection when I am not interested and so report my profile!

Has anyone else experienced this? Perhaps I need to be more concise in my profile?

Grumpy Angel!

view a profile (any profile) on a mobile phone. the details are right at the bottom where few people dare to look. That is why people do not 'read' profiles. I highlighted this ages ago and they deleted my message for drawing attention to it....

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"the reason I had left it that way is that similarly to what I have done before I would meet with a female from a couple on my own so didn't want to rule that out if that makes sense"

Makes perfect sense if that's what you're after.

There's nothing wrong with mentioning that you also have a couples profile with your husband on your single profile.

The problem is that your text doesn't say what you want as a single. Remove mention of your partner and state what you want when you're playing alone and then contact Admin and ask them to review your profile.

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!

for those rare occasions I male want to meet alone

Freudian slip?!

typo mid rant

That's what a Freudian slip is. Saying what you really mean when you didn't mean to say it.

and a typo is something different which is a mistake whilst typing but thanks for you input"

Lol... Clearly the point of "Freudian SLIP" has gone way over your head.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

for those rare occasions I male want to meet alone

Freudian slip?!

typo mid rant

That's what a Freudian slip is. Saying what you really mean when you didn't mean to say it.

and a typo is something different which is a mistake whilst typing but thanks for you input

Lol... Clearly the point of "Freudian SLIP" has gone way over your head. "

Not at all but you are stating a typo and Freudian slip are the same thing which is not the case

Freudian slip by definition is an unintentional error regarded as revealing subconscious feelings.

Typo by definition is a mistake made in the typing process (such as a spelling mistake) of printed material.

so not the same thing.

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You started a conversation in a public forum. I am the public. I am responding to your post.

By being a twat? Op asked a fair question. To many police spoil the discussion.

I'm thinking of a singles profile so I can have my own individual identity on here not for meeting and I would be pissed off if an admin changed it without my permission. "

Problem is people use the search function to search for what they want. If they're looking for single females and a couple turn up in that result then the search function is useless.

It's fine to be a couple on here, it's fine for each person in a couple to make a profile as a single so long as that profile is used as a single person and not as a couple.

You can even mention your couples profile on that single profile but it's not ok to mislead people into thinking you're meeting as a single person when you aren't meeting as one.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed the bickering posts as people need to keep their personal disputes off the forums.

OP as advised, any queries like this about profiles, contact Admin and they will review it for you

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