FabSwingers.com forum: URGENT! "unsolicited" party invites?

By *hlovers OP Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside & Isle of Man

We have been on Fab a couple of years now and have made a great deal of friends / acquaintances in that time and maybe around 200 couples & singles that we message from time to time to keep in touch with but just can't find time to meet.

We have organised a private party for those people but seem to have fallen foul of the moderators who have threatened to suspend our account by this time tomorrow for reasons we don't fully understand.

We have tried responding through various channels but can't get a reply....and the clock is ticking!

The message from the moderators says

"You can't send unsolicited messages to other users about your club/events or your account will be suspended. The only time you can send messages about your club/events is if people specifically message you about them first"

"You CAN post them in the events page, update your status or include them in your profile only.

If we receive further complaints your account will be suspended. Can you reply to this and confirm you understand, within 24hrs."

We have not sent any party invites out to anyone who we have not previously messaged as we do not want any complete strangers at our party. Surely our invite to these people is therefore NOT "unsolicited"?

If we follow the moderators advice and only post them on the events page or on our status update or include it in our profile surely we would simply be bombarded with unwanted enquiries?

We simply want to meet up with people we have had prior contact with. We're not sure why this is wrong. Given the time limit imposed on us by the moderators we need this resolved urgently.

Can anyone help?

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