FabSwingers.com forum: how do i change my profile back to single fem

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

My profile was changed to couple but not by me

I am married but I'm not on here as a couple we are both on here separately for fun alone

Some situations and meets may include both of us but mainly alone so that's why I joined as a single fem but the powers that be have changed me to a couple and this is effectively making my footfall drop considerably which is very frustrating

The guys aren't being misled if the meet is to include my husband I tell them upfront but mostly it's to send me home to him fucked sohhaving a single profile is all part of the play it turns him on to give me the freedom to play as a single fem

I would just delete and rejoin but I've got verifications and site supporter status that has over 100 days on it so reluctant to and don't see why I should

Please can anyone hell me, is there a way I can change it back

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Have you changed the text of your profile since the change was made? If the text said something different that might have been the reason why it was changed.

People get really annoyed if they think they are contacting someone as a single female to then be told that a husband/partner/another will be there if they meet.

Youll need to contact Admin directly and ask them to have a look at it for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually read your profile from another thread and it did say your husband would be tied up in same room , it has now changed but being honest you haven't made a good job of taking the word husband out.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

If your other half is going to be part of the meet then you should be listed as a couple.

If this profile is only for single meets and your other half is not going to be part of those meets then contact admin to get it changed.

If however, you do change it and then meet with your other half involved don't be surprised if you get reported.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes it did say husband on there but changed when I sent in a feedback form asking them to change it back but nothing has happened and they don't open dialogue with you so things can get sorted it's very frustrating

I'm not deceiving anyone it's all honest the guys know the score but part of the play is for me to have a single profile

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Yes it did say husband on there but changed when I sent in a feedback form asking them to change it back but nothing has happened and they don't open dialogue with you so things can get sorted it's very frustrating

I'm not deceiving anyone it's all honest the guys know the score but part of the play is for me to have a single profile"

That may be part of your fantasy but single profiles are for people who meet as singles not for cuckold couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not deceiving anyone it's all honest the guys know the score but part of the play is for me to have a single profile"

But it's not a single profile if you have another guy involved be it your husband or anyone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If your other half is going to be part of the meet then you should be listed as a couple.

If this profile is only for single meets and your other half is not going to be part of those meets then contact admin to get it changed.

If however, you do change it and then meet with your other half involved don't be surprised if you get reported. "

Why would they report me if they knew upfront he was going to be involved?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your other half is going to be part of the meet then you should be listed as a couple.

If this profile is only for single meets and your other half is not going to be part of those meets then contact admin to get it changed.

If however, you do change it and then meet with your other half involved don't be surprised if you get reported.

Why would they report me if they knew upfront he was going to be involved? "

Because you are lying about your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So for me to have a single profile and meet as a single female I've got to lie and pretend to be single then?

So all the women that are on here cheating on their husbands but are honest enough to say that on their profiles do they get changed to a couples profile? He isn't there at the meet but she isn't really single is she so should be a couple by the sites reasoning then surely?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"If your other half is going to be part of the meet then you should be listed as a couple.

If this profile is only for single meets and your other half is not going to be part of those meets then contact admin to get it changed.

If however, you do change it and then meet with your other half involved don't be surprised if you get reported.

Why would they report me if they knew upfront he was going to be involved? "

Because Im guessing that if he's going to be involved that makes you a couple?

Anyway, if youve already contacted Admin they will have had a look at it (assuming that youve given them enough time) and if they havent changed it then it looks like they think you have the correct profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So for me to have a single profile and meet as a single female I've got to lie and pretend to be single then?

You are not meeting as a single though , your profile clearly states you want to meet another guy while another is tied up in same room , and that bit changed from husband

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not deceiving anyone it's all honest the guys know the score but part of the play is for me to have a single profile

That may be part of your fantasy but single profiles are for people who meet as singles not for cuckold couples. "

But yet there have been quite a few singles over the years that have hooked up but kept their single profiles and quite openly chat on forums about being together but no one changed their profiles, surely mine is the same, I'm here as both a couple and a single what's the issue if I'm honest about what's going on

Of all the guys that contacted me not one has had any issue with it so why should the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you here as both a couple and a single female...make a single profile up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If your other half is going to be part of the meet then you should be listed as a couple.

If this profile is only for single meets and your other half is not going to be part of those meets then contact admin to get it changed.

If however, you do change it and then meet with your other half involved don't be surprised if you get reported.

Why would they report me if they knew upfront he was going to be involved?

Because Im guessing that if he's going to be involved that makes you a couple?

In that instance but there will be many more where I will meet alone,that was just one scenario that I was looking to try that's all, if I put all the scenarios on there guys would get bored reading, they struggle to make it all the way through what's there already

I contacted them last night I have no idea what is a suitable amount of time to wait for them to respond

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"So for me to have a single profile and meet as a single female I've got to lie and pretend to be single then?

If they are meeting as singles and not with another person involved then they are single for the purposes of the site. The moral and ethical situation is up to the individual.

I know some couples where both have single profile as they sometimes meet as singles. By that I mean that they arrange the meet on their single profile and when it takes place only that person and whoever they have arranged to meet is present. And present means not only in the room, but in the house (so listening at the door or tied up in another room means someone is present) or even on a webcam or on the end of a phone line.

Honesty is always the best policy but using a single profile to arrange couple meets is not exactly honest even if you state the details in the text.

You will find that you get repeatedly reported if you persist in doing this. Not out of malice, just because it's not an accurate description. There are lots of people looking for cuckold couples but they will be searching for couples, just as people searching for singles will not be expecting a third party to be part of it.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"If you here as both a couple and a single female...make a single profile up

Use the couples profile for cuckold meets and the single one for the meets where he is only part of it in that he gets the details when you get home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you here as both a couple and a single female...make a single profile up

Use the couples profile for cuckold meets and the single one for the meets where he is only part of it in that he gets the details when you get home. "

But the issue with that is if I make this our couple profile then open a single profile which I will be honest on and say I have a husband that knows what I'm doing then that will just be changed to a couple profile too surely

And I would never deceive anyone by not informing them he was participating via listening of watching via cam or phone or anyother way iit's all about honesty for me which I guess is why it's pissed me off so much being fiddled with in this manner secretly they should open dialogue and discuss issues with members when there are any

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Stating you have a husband who knows what's going on will not mean you have to change a singles profile. It's the fact that he is involved in the meets. Two people involved in meeting someone else makes them a couple, even if he's in the next room.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Stating you have a husband who knows what's going on will not mean you have to change a singles profile. It's the fact that he is involved in the meets. Two people involved in meeting someone else makes them a couple, even if he's in the next room. "

Omg seriously have you not read, I have said that I also meet alone with no involvement from him other than he knows I'm meeting someone else and he likes it

He isn't even in the building never mind another room, the text on the profile is just 1 of many scenarios that turn me on that's all ok so I picked the wrong one to write about but I thought it the better one as it is an honest portrayal of what makes me horny

I do not understand the need to change anything, you say so I don't deceive people into thinking I'm a single female but when I'm honest on my profile how can I deceive anyone, surely having a couple profile and then meeting as a single is also deceptive so what profile should I have?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ok well the only people that can sort this are Admin so if you think a mistake has been made then you need to contact them directly.

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