FabSwingers.com forum: Verifying someone

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

this site is saying I cannot verify someone until I have cammed or met them ???? I met someone and want to verify them !!!!! But it won't let me . HELP anyone ?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

You can't verify until you have been verified by cam or meet.

It can be easier for ladies to get verified than men - all they have to do is lurk in the cam rooms till they find a likely verified person who is happy to decide if they're like their pics and real. Clothes can stay on!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Are they verified?? If so get them to verify you then you will be able to verify them back.

If not then as TBL says getting cam verified might be the quickest way to get verified x

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

From FAQ:

How do I get verified by other members?

You need to find someone who is already verified and ask them to verify you. If you are a couple or a woman then you can get verified by webcam or phone. An easy way to do this is to go into the chatroom while you are both there, switch your webcam on and ask someone to verify you. If you are a single guy then you need to meet someone.

I've met someone but neither of us are verified so how can we verify each other?

One of you needs to be verified in order to verify the other person. Your best bet is for the female to get verified by another member e.g. on cam or by phonecall.

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By *oodlepipMan
over a year ago

London

I'm having problems getting verified?

I've asked in cam rooms, but no response.

I also have a person on here I meet regularly, they're verified, but it won't let them verify me.

Don't really know how to proceed?

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"I'm having problems getting verified?

I've asked in cam rooms, but no response.

I also have a person on here I meet regularly, they're verified, but it won't let them verify me.

Don't really know how to proceed?"

You won't be able to verify them until you are verified either by them, in cam, at a social or a club.

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By *oodlepipMan
over a year ago

London

But they're verified already and they're the ones trying to verify me, but it won't work?

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow

"but it won't work?

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A more in-depth explanation would be helpful!

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By *oodlepipMan
over a year ago

London

"but it won't work?

A more in-depth explanation would be helpful!"

It keeps saying he can't verify me, even tho he's already verified. He's tried several times with no luck.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"but it won't work?

A more in-depth explanation would be helpful!

It keeps saying he can't verify me, even tho he's already verified. He's tried several times with no luck."

Have you both used the same internet connection to access the site? If heused your wifi to try to write you a veri the site won't let it go through as a precaution against fake veris.

If he is outside your filters that can cause a hiccup too.

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By *oodlepipMan
over a year ago

London

"but it won't work?

A more in-depth explanation would be helpful!

It keeps saying he can't verify me, even tho he's already verified. He's tried several times with no luck.

Have you both used the same internet connection to access the site? If heused your wifi to try to write you a veri the site won't let it go through as a precaution against fake veris.

If he is outside your filters that can cause a hiccup too."

Nope ... he lives 15 miles away and was trying to verify me from his home and I was in mine.

And he's within my filter preferences. It's a little confusing (& irritating).

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"but it won't work?

A more in-depth explanation would be helpful!

It keeps saying he can't verify me, even tho he's already verified. He's tried several times with no luck.

Have you both used the same internet connection to access the site? If heused your wifi to try to write you a veri the site won't let it go through as a precaution against fake veris.

If he is outside your filters that can cause a hiccup too.

Nope ... he lives 15 miles away and was trying to verify me from his home and I was in mine.

And he's within my filter preferences. It's a little confusing (& irritating)."

Are you friends on here? Have you communicated on here? Is he down as straight or had a warning from admin re veris left or received?

Did you ask him to contact admin?

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By *oodlepipMan
over a year ago

London

We are friends on here and have communicated on here.

The other questions regarding what he may or may not have been told by Admins, I can't answer as it's none of my business.

But it does seem a bit tedious when all he's trying to do is verify me and he's already verified himself. The system does not make it easy, and doesn't seem to follow any fixed rules.

Which means it's impossible for me to get verified until I randomly pick a verified person that "the system" has no problem with, but there's no way to know that in advance.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"We are friends on here and have communicated on here.

The other questions regarding what he may or may not have been told by Admins, I can't answer as it's none of my business.

But it does seem a bit tedious when all he's trying to do is verify me and he's already verified himself. The system does not make it easy, and doesn't seem to follow any fixed rules.

Which means it's impossible for me to get verified until I randomly pick a verified person that "the system" has no problem with, but there's no way to know that in advance."

I disagree; it is a very simple system.

Like a circle of trust; once verified you are trusted to verify others.

Getting verified may take a little effort but if it is important, you should invest the effort.

Go to a social, ask someone to meet you just for a coffee and a verification (meet requests section)male or female. Attend a party/club. Meet with someone verified or at worst case go into chat and ask someone verified to check your cam and do you a webcam veri. (nakedness not required) Or keep plumbing away until you meet with someone verified and prepared to verify you

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By *oodlepipMan
over a year ago

London

Thanks for the feedback.

However, I have met someone whose verified, and they trust me and have met up with me more than once, and now wish to verify me. However, the 'trusted' system won't allow that. From all the explanations in this discussion, I can see no reason for that, as we both meet all the criteria described. And yet, it just won't allow it.

Don't get me wrong ... I'm not against a system of verification ... I think it's a great thing. I just don't think it's working in this instance.

I repeat ... we are friends, we are within each other's age ranges, we both allow contact from each other's genders, and we have both met in person. He is verified. I don't really understand why "the system" won't let him verify me.

I went into one of the cam chat rooms, and another of the verified users opened a private chat with me, and suggested that I start taking my clothing off in order to get him to verify me.

I can't see how that's fair, considering I already have a verified person who I have met; who I trust and who trusts me.

I repeat the parameters above ...

* we are friends,

* we are within each other's age ranges,

* we both allow contact from each other's genders,

* we have both met in person,

* He is verified.

I don't really understand why "the system" won't let him verify me.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Thanks for the feedback.

Don't get me wrong ... I'm not against a system of verification ... I think it's a great thing. I just don't think it's working in this instance.

I went into one of the cam chat rooms, and another of the verified users opened a private chat with me, and suggested that I start taking my clothing off in order to get him to verify me.

I can't see how that's fair, considering I already have a verified person who I have met; who I trust and who trusts me.

I repeat the parameters above ...

* we are friends,

* we are within each other's age ranges,

* we both allow contact from each other's genders,

* we have both met in person,

* He is verified.

I don't really understand why "the system" won't let him verify me.

If you contact Admin using the CONTACT link at the bottom of the page they will have a look at it for you.

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By *oodlepipMan
over a year ago

London

Thanks @Jezebel. Nice to have some advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it was easy. I cammed with a couple and the verification was very easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From FAQ:

How do I get verified by other members?

You need to find someone who is already verified and ask them to verify you. If you are a couple or a woman then you can get verified by webcam. An easy way to do this is to go into the chatroom while you are both there, switch your webcam on and ask someone to verify you.

If you are a single guy then you need to meet someone."

I know this is from the FAQ page and I know the poster of the quote isn't saying this herself (and is not meant as an attack or nowt to the poster and doesn't apply to me either way

But why the hell does a single guy need to meet someone to be verified? Can they too not just be verified via webcam? Lol

I think that Fab need to update the answer to this FAQ esp as it mentions phone veris which aren't used anymore!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From FAQ:

How do I get verified by other members?

If you are a single guy then you need to meet someone.

I know this is from the FAQ page and I know the poster of the quote isn't saying this herself (and is not meant as an attack or nowt to the poster and doesn't apply to me either way

But why the hell does a single guy need to meet someone to be verified? Can they too not just be verified via webcam? Lol

I think that Fab need to update the answer to this FAQ esp as it mentions phone veris which aren't used anymore!! Lol"
Single guys dont need to meet to get verified, when veryfying just select the cam option

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow

"From FAQ:

How do I get verified by other members?

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If you are a single guy then you need to meet someone.

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Lol Single guys dont need to meet to get verified, when veryfying just select the cam option

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I think that what the FAQ is saying is that a cam veri for a single guy is worthless! How many single ladies or couples are pretending to be single guys? For a couple or a single fem, a cam veri proves that they are what they claim to be! However, most people will be looking for meet veris when looking to arrange meets!

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