FabSwingers.com forum: Verification

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have recently met someone (from this site) but neither of us are verified by others from this site, so how can we verify each other?

FABS RULE IS !!!

One of you needs to be verified in order to verify the other person. Your best bet is for the female to get verified by another member e.g. on cam or by phonecall.

So if I understand this,

If we contact a female stranger who we have never met,, but agrees to talk on the phone ,,, she can then verify us,,,,,

and this is ok,,?????????????????????

Yet the mature proffesional adult couple that we actually did meet with,,,,

cannot !!!!!

Pathetic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you'd rather everyone could verify anyone? if that was the case all people would have to do is create another fake account to verify themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think your missing the point as has already been said it would be far too easy for more fake profiles on here, it can be very frustrating getting your first verification but please bear in mind they are not the be all and end all of swinging. You know your genuine that should be all that matters

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes we fully agree with the points you have raised, and can see how you could create another profile and then verify yourself,,,

But the point is,

In this case both couples are photo verified, and we clearly are 2 different couples with different faces,,

So it undermines the point or value of being photo verified in the first place,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure why you see it as pathetic though, you yourselves have it clearly written on your profile that you expect a phone chat early on, which in effect is the exact same thing your being asked to do by the site, only with someone who’s already verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would agree with you about photo verification but to us all photo verification proves is that you exist as a couple or a single and not that your a genuine swinger the meet/webcam/phone verification is the next step from there. Im surprised that in the time you have been on here you haven't had a phone or webcam verification you do have a great profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A phone chat with someone who we have talked with online, like the look of, and are arranging to meet with,,

not a complete stranger !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A phone chat with someone who we have talked with online, like the look of, and are arranging to meet with,,

not a complete stranger !!!!!

Not sure what your point is there. You do have people in your friends list that are contact verified they would be your best bet in getting verified yourself. But as I have already said verifications are not that big a thing im sure it will happen eventually

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By *andcCouple
over a year ago

London and Cheshire

"We have recently met someone (from this site) but neither of us are verified by others from this site, so how can we verify each other?

FABS RULE IS !!!

One of you needs to be verified in order to verify the other person. Your best bet is for the female to get verified by another member e.g. on cam or by phonecall.

So if I understand this,

If we contact a female stranger who we have never met,, but agrees to talk on the phone ,,, she can then verify us,,,,,

and this is ok,,?????????????????????

Yet the mature proffesional adult couple that we actually did meet with,,,,

cannot !!!!!

Pathetic

Agree that phone and cam verification meen nothing, other than you are a couple,single female or male, but doe not mean your a swinger at all.

But the not been able to verify people until you are verified is a great idea, if this was not in place you could just setup two accounts and verify yourself!!!

We only verify people we have actually played with, not just met.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Agree that phone and cam verification meen nothing, other than you are a couple,single female or male, but doe not mean your a swinger at all.

But the not been able to verify people until you are verified is a great idea, if this was not in place you could just setup two accounts and verify yourself!!!

We only verify people we have actually played with, not just met.

Exactly the point we are making, we 'met' so that verification would be 100% , a phone call to a stranger is not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree that phone and cam verification meen nothing, other than you are a couple,single female or male, but doe not mean your a swinger at all.

But the not been able to verify people until you are verified is a great idea, if this was not in place you could just setup two accounts and verify yourself!!!

We only verify people we have actually played with, not just met.

Exactly the point we are making, we 'met' so that verification would be 100% , a phone call to a stranger is not."

your still missing the point just because you have said you have met someone we are supposed to believe you (no offence meant here) but that what half the fakes on here say. You have people in your friends list that are verified as they are your friends you must know them in some way (unless you just randomly add people) so they wouldnt be strangers if you have a quick phone call or pop on webcam for a min. At the end of the day the site rules are here to protect us from the fakes and unfortunately thats not going to change so i dont think anyone here will be able to help you. Most Fabbers are very happy with the verification rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We see your verified now problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have recently met someone (from this site) but neither of us are verified by others from this site, so how can we verify each other?

FABS RULE IS !!!

One of you needs to be verified in order to verify the other person. Your best bet is for the female to get verified by another member e.g. on cam

or by phonecall.

So if I understand this,

If we contact a female stranger who we have never met,, but agrees to talk on the phone ,,, she can then verify us,,,,,

and this is ok,,?????????????????????

Yet the mature proffesional adult couple that we actually did meet with,,,,

cannot !!!!!

Pathetic

Agree that phone and cam verification meen nothing, other than you are a couple,single female or male, but doe not mean your a swinger at all.

But the not been able to verify people until you are verified is a great idea, if this was not in place you could just setup two accounts and verify yourself!!!

We only verify people we have actually played with, not just met."

well i must admit I verify ppl I meet at social functions and vice versa cos most of em meet a lot, not all of us put our sex verifications up for all to see, always more fun finding out what a person is like sexually anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have recently met someone (from this site) but neither of us are verified by others from this site, so how can we verify each other?

FABS RULE IS !!!

One of you needs to be verified in order to verify the other person. Your best bet is for the female to get verified by another member e.g. on cam

or by phonecall.

So if I understand this,

If we contact a female stranger who we have never met,, but agrees to talk on the phone ,,, she can then verify us,,,,,

and this is ok,,?????????????????????

Yet the mature proffesional adult couple that we actually did meet with,,,,

cannot !!!!!

Pathetic

Agree that phone and cam verification meen nothing, other than you are a couple,single female or male, but doe not mean your a swinger at all.

But the not been able to verify people until you are verified is a great idea, if this was not in place you could just setup two accounts and verify yourself!!!

We only verify people we have actually played with, not just met.

I quite agree!! I prefer finding things out for myself not rely on the words of others: people I don't know either!!

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By *illynmintCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

To us it is simple and one which he site admin should look at..

For a verification to appear, it has to be done by both parties.

One verifction (ie by one party) , to us is pointless and useless without it being backed up by the other.

If you accept someone as a friend, its a click of a button..Verificatons involve trust, which should require more than a click of a button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have recently met someone (from this site) but neither of us are verified by others from this site, so how can we verify each other?

FABS RULE IS !!!

One of you needs to be verified in order to verify the other person. Your best bet is for the female to get verified by another member e.g. on cam or by phonecall.

So if I understand this,

If we contact a female stranger who we have never met,, but agrees to talk on the phone ,,, she can then verify us,,,,,

and this is ok,,?????????????????????

Yet the mature proffesional adult couple that we actually did meet with,,,,

cannot !!!!!

Pathetic

We could help you get verified, but we only verify through meeting.

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