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Wish trans was a seperate category.

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By *el_MtF_in_NI OP   TV/TS
40 weeks ago

Bangor, North Down

I'm fed up of being lumped together with male fetishists who dont shave and wear cheap wigs.

They parade around in stockings and hairy legs.

I'm on hormone replacement therapy.

We are not the same.

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By *el_MtF_in_NI OP   TV/TS
40 weeks ago

Bangor, North Down

fk sorry i posted this in wrong forum.

if an admin can move it to site feedback.

sorry.

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By *erys.mcWoman
40 weeks ago

v

It is very frustrating. Would you not be able to class your self as F?

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By *el_MtF_in_NI OP   TV/TS
40 weeks ago

Bangor, North Down

then i'll get all the insufferable gender critical types on here flagging my profile as lying about my sex.

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By *el_MtF_in_NI OP   TV/TS
40 weeks ago

Bangor, North Down

the other reason i don't list myself as female is there's now a legal precedent of a man having a trans woman prosecuted for 'sexual assault' for failing to disclose her birth sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

Should be.

Pref for ts . Tv/cd does nothing for me

We all have preferences it's just so unclear and it doesn't need to be like that.

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By *luffy_cookieMan
40 weeks ago

Packmoor


"then i'll get all the insufferable gender critical types on here flagging my profile as lying about my sex."

I agree and think there should be distinction as like you have mentioned going though therapy/hormone treatment is not easy and certainly not the same as chucking a wig and makeup on for a few hours

There should be "trans" category where it would encompass...

MTG

FTM

People going through or in transition/therapy

And then obviously post and pre-op

Obviously there is always going to be CD/TVs who will choose that category

No hate to CD/TV's as I have been with and lots fun with them

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By *ocial DarlingTV/TS
39 weeks ago

Selby

Yes there should be, we are not the same

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
39 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire


"I'm fed up of being lumped together with male fetishists who dont shave and wear cheap wigs.

They parade around in stockings and hairy legs.

I'm on hormone replacement therapy.

We are not the same."

Wow, that's a lot of hatred...

If you don't find Fabswingers suitable for your needs, then you have a perfect right to go elsewhere. There are other sites that provide the sort of fine distinctions that you're looking for.

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
39 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire


"the other reason i don't list myself as female is there's now a legal precedent of a man having a trans woman prosecuted for 'sexual assault' for failing to disclose her birth sex."

There seems to be a lot of this sort of thing recently - unless you can guess everything a potential partner might object to, and pre-warn them, then it's sexual assault. I mean, should my profile disclose that I snore occasionally?

I think it should be up to us to ask the things that matter to us. If I care whether you're a trans woman, then it's my responsibility to ask, not yours. (Though obviously things like HIV don't come under that category).

Though as individuals we may all choose to disclose things on our profiles to avoid wasting time.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago


"Should be.

Pref for ts . Tv/cd does nothing for me

We all have preferences it's just so unclear and it doesn't need to be like that. "

100% this.

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