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Thought directing rooms were ok for asking politely for things like sound? Ffs

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By *ommo27 OP   Man
2 weeks ago

Southampton

It wasn’t like I pestered 😂

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By *ucka39Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

I normally go in and if it appeals to me stay or try another room

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By *nsertWittyNameCouple
2 weeks ago

Near Hull


"It wasn’t like I pestered 😂 "

I think the problem is that, too often, the watchers in the directing rooms don't take even a second to consider their requests from the point of view of the performer. We used to fuck on cam in the directing rooms quite frequently - because we like being watched and that's where the biggest audience is. But people would always be lobbing requests at us - and sometimes getting pissy about being 'ignored' - when a moment's intelligent thought would have led them to the conclusion, 'Oh! This couple are busy fucking! They're not even looking at the screen. They don't have a clue what I'm saying to them.'

And, look, even if I do happen to glance over and see the messages do you really think - when I'm balls deep - I'm going to stop what I'm doing to move the cam just so Pervy McPervface, the 23 stone incel from Barnsley, can see the soles of her feet? That's something you might expect when you're paying... but it's not something you can demand from a real-life couple just doing it for fun.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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2 weeks ago

O o O oo

You can ask what you want to in the directing room ( within rules of course ) but you can't in the non directing rooms.

If you are positive you were in a directing room then you can ask Admin to review for you from the contact links.

https://www.fabswingers.com/contact/owners

https://m.fabswingers.com/contact/owners

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By *une_Bug999Couple
4 days ago

Aberdeen


"It wasn’t like I pestered 😂

I think the problem is that, too often, the watchers in the directing rooms don't take even a second to consider their requests from the point of view of the performer. We used to fuck on cam in the directing rooms quite frequently - because we like being watched and that's where the biggest audience is. But people would always be lobbing requests at us - and sometimes getting pissy about being 'ignored' - when a moment's intelligent thought would have led them to the conclusion, 'Oh! This couple are busy fucking! They're not even looking at the screen. They don't have a clue what I'm saying to them.'

And, look, even if I do happen to glance over and see the messages do you really think - when I'm balls deep - I'm going to stop what I'm doing to move the cam just so Pervy McPervface, the 23 stone incel from Barnsley, can see the soles of her feet? That's something you might expect when you're paying... but it's not something you can demand from a real-life couple just doing it for fun."

Yes. This. I've recently started visiting the directing room and there are definitely plenty of men who think they can bark orders at people and then take it personally when you don't respond. I'm there to have a wank and some fun. Satisfy the exhibitionist in me. But, its very difficult to keep the flow, as it were if you have to stop every 20 seconds to accommodate Pervy McPervface's (love it) incredibly specific requests, which I may not find a turn on. If they were paying, that's different but we're there for fun. I get in my own zone when on cam and constantly checking the chat isn't something that's first and foremost in my mind.

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By *lexi_and_MattCouple
3 days ago

Glasgow

Have we missed something?

People can show anything permitted, in any room. The directing rooms are there specifically for those who are open to/looking to be...well...directed.

If I am not looking to interact with anyone I use one of the other chat rooms.

One thing I will say is that I salute anyone who can keep up with the chat in the directing rooms...

If I'm feeling cruel, I will put the cam on when in the bi-directing room and watch cam partners squirm trying to remain focused when they know gay guys are watching them!

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