FabSwingers.com forum: Confusing mail filters/looked at me

By *ohnjones3210 OP Man
1 week ago

Chester

Hi everyone,

If I block males, they can't message me. They don't show up in the "looked at me" list either. Is that because they also can't see me?

If I block TV, they can't message me but they DO show up in "looked at me". Obviously, they can view my profile.

If I block MM, they can't message me but they DO show up in "looked at me".

What's going on with this? Can they all see me, but it just doesn't show? Can I hide my profile from them? How does this work?

By *lan157Man
1 week ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

I can see your profile OP so all single males can see your profile just not message you.

By *uliette500Woman
1 week ago

Hull

Everyone can see everyone else's profile. Filters only stop them messaging. For some reason though if you block single males they stop showing on looked at me but as far as I am aware that is the only group that stops showing.

By *uliette500Woman
1 week ago

Hull

"Hi everyone,

If I block males, they can't message me. They don't show up in the "looked at me" list either. Is that because they also can't see me?

If I block TV, they can't message me but they DO show up in "looked at me". Obviously, they can view my profile.

If I block MM, they can't message me but they DO show up in "looked at me".

What's going on with this? Can they all see me, but it just doesn't show? Can I hide my profile from them? How does this work?"

Basically you can't stop anyone from looking unless you choose to hide your profile from everyone.

By *ohnjones3210 OP Man
1 week ago

Chester

Thanks for your help everyone. It's some sort of glitch isn't it?

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
1 week ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Thanks for your help everyone. It's some sort of glitch isn't it?"

Not a glitch. Just the way it's always been. The only group that appears as 'not looking for' on a profile is single males, even if you have others excluded from your preferences. There's never been a 'not looking for couples/single women/TV's' sentence displayed.