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"And we dont want to, never have and hope we never do have a reason. But surely there would be a benefit for these rare cases? It must be easy to be normal for a meet then show true colours on the 2nd after its too late? Assholes arnt stupid! Is there really no way to warn our peers? Hopefully we never need to but that sounds like a gap that other communities have addressed 😕 Though now we say it we see how that could be abused for deformation so probably only have ourselves to blame 🤦♂️ Just seems odd to us 🤷♂️" As already stated there is no way to warn anyone about anything. You can report the serious stuff to admin but telling other members on a status, on your profile or via the forum will get you a ban. | |||
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"Admin absolutely would be the way to go if anything serious happened, or police for that matter but we are not necessarily talking about reportable offences just the idea that someone could sell an amazing version of themselves get the verification and default back only to move on. All while the profile looks immaculate " So what would stop someone leaving a negative veri, just because someone refused to get physical with them, or meet them for a second time? The best approach to take with veris I've found over the years is to simply look for consistency. Profiles with hidden veris tell you nothing. Those with one or two from years ago given the impression of inactivity. Some stick out like a sore thumb as suspicious. Others show a clear positive pattern of behaviour and attitude. At the end of the day though, they're just peoples opinions. | |||
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"Admin absolutely would be the way to go if anything serious happened, or police for that matter but we are not necessarily talking about reportable offences just the idea that someone could sell an amazing version of themselves get the verification and default back only to move on. All while the profile looks immaculate So what would stop someone leaving a negative veri, just because someone refused to get physical with them, or meet them for a second time? The best approach to take with veris I've found over the years is to simply look for consistency. Profiles with hidden veris tell you nothing. Those with one or two from years ago given the impression of inactivity. Some stick out like a sore thumb as suspicious. Others show a clear positive pattern of behaviour and attitude. At the end of the day though, they're just peoples opinions. " Totally agree. For us, it shows that people actually take the time and effort to meet, not dreamers or timewasters. Look for a consistency in verification. We always meet for a social first so no pressure on any side to take it any further, if that doesn't suit someone, tough, don't meet us.  | |||
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"Admin absolutely would be the way to go if anything serious happened, or police for that matter but we are not necessarily talking about reportable offences just the idea that someone could sell an amazing version of themselves get the verification and default back only to move on. All while the profile looks immaculate So what would stop someone leaving a negative veri, just because someone refused to get physical with them, or meet them for a second time? The best approach to take with veris I've found over the years is to simply look for consistency. Profiles with hidden veris tell you nothing. Those with one or two from years ago given the impression of inactivity. Some stick out like a sore thumb as suspicious. Others show a clear positive pattern of behaviour and attitude. At the end of the day though, they're just peoples opinions. Totally agree. For us, it shows that people actually take the time and effort to meet, not dreamers or timewasters. Look for a consistency in verification. We always meet for a social first so no pressure on any side to take it any further, if that doesn't suit someone, tough, don't meet us. "Both, very well put! To be clear we have never had a negative experience on here (quite the opposite) and hope that continues! We do our own vetting much like mentioned above and agree that works well! Really we were just curious of what if? Thanks for taking the time to respond | |||
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