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Letchworth

I understand that the ladies receive many messages, and I have read that often the same man can message multiple times.

For me, having a message deleted is a clear response of 'I'm not interested'. However, read but no reply.... what does it mean?

It suggests a 'maybe' do I send one more message?

Can I suggest using the Delete option and reducing unwanted messages from the same person.

Save the Block for when Delete doesn't work.

If this is already a thing, I appologies for this unwanted post

By *uliette500Woman
27 weeks ago

Hull

"I understand that the ladies receive many messages, and I have read that often the same man can message multiple times.

For me, having a message deleted is a clear response of 'I'm not interested'. However, read but no reply.... what does it mean?

It suggests a 'maybe' do I send one more message?

Can I suggest using the Delete option and reducing unwanted messages from the same person.

Save the Block for when Delete doesn't work.

If this is already a thing, I appologies for this unwanted post

It doesn't suggest or mean anything apart from the fact they have not replied.

It definitely doesn't mean send another message. If they were interested they would have replied or they might do later.

My suggestion is don't even look at your sent messages. Just send your message and forget it, if you get a reply its a bonus if not leave it be.

By *obertpunchardon OP Man
27 weeks ago

Letchworth

That makes a lot of sense.

Thank you

By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Best to leave it, sometimes they come back around, even if it is days after lol...otherwise they're simply not interested

By *obertpunchardon OP Man
27 weeks ago

Letchworth

Yep... I've already moved on :D