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Why doesn’t messaging become a premium feature?

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By *eldarb15 OP   Man
over a year ago

watford

For a new guy that lives near London, there’s not a chance I’m going to get verified, every message I have sent is unread. You can join for free and just bombard the locals with messages and leave all of the paying fabbers amongst the hundred of messages. What am I missing?

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

Markfield

A can of lynx and a red bull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A can of lynx and a red bull "

Haha and the words discrete and professional

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)


"For a new guy that lives near London, there’s not a chance I’m going to get verified, every message I have sent is unread. You can join for free and just bombard the locals with messages and leave all of the paying fabbers amongst the hundred of messages. What am I missing?"

Do you want feedback on your profile?

Messaging should always be free.

It makes it more welcoming and open to the new and curious.

If someone is getting too many messages they can filter them.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If someone is a site supporter, they have the option to only receive messages from site supporters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not all about messaging

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By *erlins5Man
over a year ago

South Fife

You say there is not a chance you are going to get verified.... Is that what you are looking for? Am I missing something here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a new guy that lives near London, there’s not a chance I’m going to get verified, every message I have sent is unread. You can join for free and just bombard the locals with messages and leave all of the paying fabbers amongst the hundred of messages. What am I missing?"

People look at profiles before replying.

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

The difference would be you paying to have your messages ignored, deleted.

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Don't you think that your grumble is giving off a sense of entitlement?

Do you really think that the only reason why your messages aren't being read is because of the likelyhood that those you are messaging are being inundated with messages from non site-supporters?

You do realise that pretty much everybody checks out a profile before even thinking about opening any messages - just because they don't show up in your 'who's looked at me' doesn't mean they haven't as most of those you're interested in will be viewing in mode.

I'm afriad your post is coming across very much as 'I'm paying to use the site so I expect people to read my messages'

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By *amrodallnighterMan
over a year ago

local

There was a thread a few months back regarding messaging, and it was mostly females but some males had the same issue.

Topic was something like “Don’t double message, as my inbox is full”

There was a thread something like….The profile would state “no one liners, I’m fine thanks, put thought in the message”, plus all these other conditions, I. put thought into it, and sent a face pic, and it was still left unread, so i followed it up and the their status then read sorry for mass delete to many messages….

that is rude in my book and actually felt bad for them.

I’ve been on here a year and reply to everyone who messages me. Even if it’s “sorry you’re just not my type” goes a long way!!

“Having 150/300 a day” is no excuse, set your contact only ages to something reasonable and that alone will end that problem.

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By *otcomplicatedMan
over a year ago

near to you


"There was a thread a few months back regarding messaging, and it was mostly females but some males had the same issue.

Topic was something like “Don’t double message, as my inbox is full”

There was a thread something like….The profile would state “no one liners, I’m fine thanks, put thought in the message”, plus all these other conditions, I. put thought into it, and sent a face pic, and it was still left unread, so i followed it up and the their status then read sorry for mass delete to many messages….

that is rude in my book and actually felt bad for them.

I’ve been on here a year and reply to everyone who messages me. Even if it’s “sorry you’re just not my type” goes a long way!!

“Having 150/300 a day” is no excuse, set your contact only ages to something reasonable and that alone will end that problem.

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I completely agree with this set your message only age limits and give guys a fighting chance of a reply…

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