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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Strange that 90% of my messages never get read!

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By *odomyMan
over a year ago

Barry

A lot of people won’t bother looking at mail if there is no profile picture or no attachments.

Since most females and couples get inundated with mail, this makes it an easy way to filter out who they read before even opening it.

Your profile is a bit sparse too, so if they did look at it before reading your message, not much there to stand out to make them interested.

As a male you have to put in a lot more effort or go to socials to get noticed.

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham

If you were to message us I would look at your profile, see the negative statement about couples being fake and delete your message without a reply.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

Did you know that they could've been read then put as unread. 90% or lost among the pile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry OP but having looked at your profile I don’t think it’s strange at all.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Most women will follow a few steps before they even read your message.

1 They will check to see if you have a profile picture. If you don't they'll delete without reading.

2 They will look at your photos. (At least you have some but you've probably been deleted at step 1)

3 They will read your bio. If nothing in that appeals they will delete without reading. (Your negative comments won't help there)

If they find you interesting after these 3 points you might get your message read and be lucky enough to get a reply.

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By *iggerMan
over a year ago

Blaydon

How can i change my mail back to the old style from the new just cannot get away with it cheers B

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"How can i change my mail back to the old style from the new just cannot get away with it cheers B"

Hiya

Here's a link to switch between old/new

https://m.fabswingers.com/oldmailbox

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