FabSwingers.com forum: Blocking men from messaging

By *ornycouga OP Woman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat - Portugal

Trying a new approach ahead and have blocked all single guys from messaging me. Out of curiosity I looked at the 'last people to view your profile' and not one guy has appeared since I blocked messages which has never happened in the 2 years I've been on here!

So wondering is my profile visible to guys? Or am I just not seeing if a guy has viewed my profile?

Confused and weighing up the pros and cons of blocking!

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I can see your profile.

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By *r FunFrolicks86Man
over a year ago

close to Peterborough

Yep I can still see it

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

When you block all men they don't show on the who's looked list. If you remove the block for a minute and look then they will all be back.

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By *ornycouga OP Woman
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat - Portugal

Thanks guys - that's really helpful. I appreciate your replies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah can still view your profile luckily

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Sorry, you can't send private mail to this user

Why? User has blocked everyone of your sex

That's why. But may still show in viewing.so does work

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By *exleypeteMan
over a year ago

bexleyheath

I can see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn’t going to anyway

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

Men can still see your profile but will not show on your who's viewed while you have the block in place, if you remove the block you I'll see who has viewed unless the are in ninja mode

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By *rnmrsrk1Couple
43 weeks ago

Cheshire

If we block single guys from messaging us can we still message them to start a conversation so they can reply once we have messaged them first

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By *ucka39Man
43 weeks ago

Newcastle

"If we block single guys from messaging us can we still message them to start a conversation so they can reply once we have messaged them first "

I believe so

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
43 weeks ago

My Own Little World

"If we block single guys from messaging us can we still message them to start a conversation so they can reply once we have messaged them first "

Yes.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
42 weeks ago

South West London

How come when you message a woman they ask you to attached a picture?

Is there a reason they cant check a profile?

Or even still cant they see a profile picture when someone messages them?

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By *r FunFrolicks86Man
42 weeks ago

close to Peterborough

"How come when you message a woman they ask you to attached a picture?

Is there a reason they cant check a profile?

Or even still cant they see a profile picture when someone messages them?"

It's more for people like me that don't have our face pics on show for everyone to see

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By *issmorganWoman
42 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

It only seems to work with single men. We have them blocked on our couple account as we aren't looking for them.

On this account I have couples blocked and they still show up in who has looked at me.

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
42 weeks ago

Brizzle

The number of Unicorns we hear on Fab complaining about the messages & general interaction from some single males beggars belief.

The two options are block or allow single males to message (or come up in who’s looked list). Whatever you do it’s not fail safe & one’s will slip in or out of the net over time. In our opinion as a couple is to block & if we ever choose to be looking for single males we’d do our own searching. The same would apply if we had single profiles.

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By *otSimon69Man
42 weeks ago

Suffolk

I can see it you're incredibly sexy

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
40 weeks ago

South West London

Its weird that a couple messaged me to then block me for no apparant reason

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By *icecouple561Couple
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40 weeks ago

East Sussex

"Its weird that a couple messaged me to then block me for no apparant reason"

One of them might have messaged and the other wasn't happy about it

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
40 weeks ago

South West London

Yeah that could be the reason because it was the wife that messaged me

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Central

You can block whole gender groups from messaging but only individual users from viewing you

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