FabSwingers.com forum: Are there rules?

By *.L.0460. OP Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

So, I politely rejected a bloke a year or so back- we live locally & occasionally used to see each other in the street, but we never spoke.

When he continued to beg me to change my mind, I blocked him. He's since approached me on a further 3 new profiles, still asking me to change my mind.

Are there actually Fab rules about this kind of behaviour, or do I just keep telling him firmly to leave me alone & block him each time?

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town

The only thing I can see you doing is block all men.

Or start another profile, and don't disclose your location.

Either way it's shit for you thanks to his inability to take no for an answer.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Don't reply.

But maybe block newbies as well, to at least slow him down?

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By *rancois Du BoisMan
over a year ago

Down the back of the sofa.

Block and report each time. It’s utterly scummy behaviour but unfortunately not something easily stopped by fab.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

It depends, is it four active profiles contacted you with the same message or people leaving and rejoining and then messaging you at a later date? If it is the first then I would report.

You can also limit the amount of mails you get and who from from this page

https://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, I politely rejected a bloke a year or so back- we live locally & occasionally used to see each other in the street, but we never spoke.

When he continued to beg me to change my mind, I blocked him. He's since approached me on a further 3 new profiles, still asking me to change my mind.

Are there actually Fab rules about this kind of behaviour, or do I just keep telling him firmly to leave me alone & block him each time?"

It appears there's lots of flaws in the site tbh iv found a massive dangerous one to single woman just waiting for a admin to confirm they can do what I suspect

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I had a similar thing happen a while back unaware that the guy had 3 profiles active, I blocked the one I knew which was a TV/cd profile, then the next one he contacted me from single male profile, after a few months he contacted me from yet another single male profile but in such a way I didn't know who he was and he was coming out with personal details which was really quite scary.

when I found out who it was I reported him naming all 3 profiles as he admitted they were all active, I don't know if anything was done but do now use more filters aswell as the block button more than before, so far I've had no more issues with the same person

I hope op that this stops for you

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"I had a similar thing happen a while back unaware that the guy had 3 profiles active, I blocked the one I knew which was a TV/cd profile, then the next one he contacted me from single male profile, after a few months he contacted me from yet another single male profile but in such a way I didn't know who he was and he was coming out with personal details which was really quite scary.

I hope op that this stops for you "

Wow that is very uncomfortable to read it's folk like this who needs to be reported to the police as it's not normal behaviour same goes for anyone else who maybe going through similar

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