FabSwingers.com forum: Admin changed from woman to TS/TV

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Admins changed my profile from woman to TS/TV. I did not reuqest such change, and such change wasn't communicated to me. I'm a woman according to British law, and this behavior is clearly discriminatory. Another example of this site beeing hostile to queer folk. I am waiting to hear back from them, but I have little hope. I find the whole thing oretty denigrating.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Are you transitioning?

I believe someone else on here was and admin changed her profile back to female.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Admins changed my profile from woman to TS/TV. I did not reuqest such change, and such change wasn't communicated to me. I'm a woman according to British law, and this behavior is clearly discriminatory. Another example of this site beeing hostile to queer folk. I am waiting to hear back from them, but I have little hope. I find the whole thing oretty denigrating."

Totally lost with this, are you physically a woman?

If so then you have a point.

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By *teve_it_aloneMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Totally lost with this, are you physically a woman?

If so then you have a point."

She is a woman. That’s all they or anyone else need to know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am transitioning and every oiece of paper inclusing passport and birth certificate says I am a woman. This behavior is clearly unlawful, regardless of my genitals. I am open about it so I am not "tricking" anyone into anything. What they did is just plain wrong.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I am transitioning and every oiece of paper inclusing passport and birth certificate says I am a woman. This behavior is clearly unlawful, regardless of my genitals. I am open about it so I am not "tricking" anyone into anything. What they did is just plain wrong."

Contact admin and explain.

Someone probably reported you.

Rachel who uses the forums had a similar problem.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Contact admin and explain.

Someone probably reported you.

Rachel who uses the forums had a similar problem. "

Was going to say quite a number of people have had issues with their profiles being changed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nit gonna lie, is kinda shakes me how easily somehow feels entitled to take your womanhood away as soon as you are open about your transness. The admins should undertake a 21st century 101 course.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Contact admin and explain.

Someone probably reported you.

Rachel who uses the forums had a similar problem.

Was going to say quite a number of people have had issues with their profiles being changed "

It's probably because people report them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Contact admin and explain.

Someone probably reported you.

Rachel who uses the forums had a similar problem.

Was going to say quite a number of people have had issues with their profiles being changed

It's probably because people report them.

Yeah, though the way I ser it it's still admin's decision to act on the (clearly bigoted) reports.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Contact admin and explain.

Someone probably reported you.

Rachel who uses the forums had a similar problem.

Was going to say quite a number of people have had issues with their profiles being changed

It's probably because people report them.

Yeah, though the way I ser it it's still admin's decision to act on the (clearly bigoted) reports."

A mod would probably be able to answer any questions about reports etc. Admin re_iew reports and act on any evidence I believe.

Would be nice to be contacted before they change it though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Contact admin and explain.

Someone probably reported you.

Rachel who uses the forums had a similar problem.

Was going to say quite a number of people have had issues with their profiles being changed

It's probably because people report them.

Yeah, though the way I ser it it's still admin's decision to act on the (clearly bigoted) reports.

A mod would probably be able to answer any questions about reports etc. Admin re_iew reports and act on any evidence I believe.

Would be nice to be contacted before they change it though."

I guess I should just not mention I'm trans on ny profile and onky mention it 1:1 on messages. 2022 and it's still a taboo.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Contact admin and explain.

Someone probably reported you.

Rachel who uses the forums had a similar problem.

Was going to say quite a number of people have had issues with their profiles being changed

It's probably because people report them.

Yeah, though the way I ser it it's still admin's decision to act on the (clearly bigoted) reports.

A mod would probably be able to answer any questions about reports etc. Admin re_iew reports and act on any evidence I believe.

Would be nice to be contacted before they change it though.

I guess I should just not mention I'm trans on ny profile and onky mention it 1:1 on messages. 2022 and it's still a taboo."

You should be open about who you are, or you might be reported still. If you contact Admin and explain they may change it back.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Totally lost with this, are you physically a woman?

If so then you have a point.

She is a woman. That’s all they or anyone else need to know. "

No, we all have choice, and lack of honestly is what makes a mockery of LGBT+ for me.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm so sorry this has happened OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Totally lost with this, are you physically a woman?

If so then you have a point.

She is a woman. That’s all they or anyone else need to know.

No, we all have choice, and lack of honestly is what makes a mockery of LGBT+ for me."

I don't agree with your point, but regardless: at no point was I dishonest. I am open abiut my transness, I said I am trans in my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm so sorry this has happened OP. "

Tbh I was waiting for it to happen.

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Contact admin and explain.

Someone probably reported you.

Rachel who uses the forums had a similar problem.

Was going to say quite a number of people have had issues with their profiles being changed

It's probably because people report them.

Yeah, though the way I ser it it's still admin's decision to act on the (clearly bigoted) reports.

A mod would probably be able to answer any questions about reports etc. Admin re_iew reports and act on any evidence I believe.

Would be nice to be contacted before they change it though.

I guess I should just not mention I'm trans on ny profile and onky mention it 1:1 on messages. 2022 and it's still a taboo."
its not a taboo its your profile you should be allowed describe yourself the way you want and not have anyone change it without your permission

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I'm so sorry this has happened OP.

Tbh I was waiting for it to happen."

Sending hugs.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Totally lost with this, are you physically a woman?

If so then you have a point.

She is a woman. That’s all they or anyone else need to know.

No, we all have choice, and lack of honestly is what makes a mockery of LGBT+ for me.

I don't agree with your point, but regardless: at no point was I dishonest. I am open abiut my transness, I said I am trans in my profile."

Have you a woman’s body?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Totally lost with this, are you physically a woman?

If so then you have a point.

She is a woman. That’s all they or anyone else need to know.

No, we all have choice, and lack of honestly is what makes a mockery of LGBT+ for me.

I don't agree with your point, but regardless: at no point was I dishonest. I am open abiut my transness, I said I am trans in my profile.

Have you a woman’s body?

Again, my body is irrelevant and I owe you no response. Gender reassignment is a protected characteristic in the equality act of 2010. The behavior is unlawful.

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By *teve_it_aloneMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Totally lost with this, are you physically a woman?

If so then you have a point.

She is a woman. That’s all they or anyone else need to know.

No, we all have choice, and lack of honestly is what makes a mockery of LGBT+ for me.

I don't agree with your point, but regardless: at no point was I dishonest. I am open abiut my transness, I said I am trans in my profile.

Have you a woman’s body?

That’s the second post you’ve made harassing someone about their body (with a strong implication that it’s their genitals you’re curious about).

That’s harassment. It’s also really creepy to be so obsessed about a stranger’s genitals.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

You have said your trans in profile - admin changes profile and you scream!!!!

Sorry but admin is correct!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You have said your trans in profile - admin changes profile and you scream!!!!

Sorry but admin is correct!!!!

I am trans, and I am a woman, I am both. I did not request such change and I do not feel that the label TV/TS applies to me. i am a woman under British law.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I’m very sorry to read this with you having to experience this ordeal. Hoping it’ll get resolved soon, in your favour. Best wishes.

A real shame some real ugly women on here (& by that, I mean the type that cannot let others live and let live, they know who they are).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope admin sort this out for you OP, it’s out of order that they changed it in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have said your trans in profile - admin changes profile and you scream!!!!

Sorry but admin is correct!!!!

You look like you're screaming.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

That is totally wrong op! U are 100% woman! So sad this has happened to u! Dont let it knock your confidence! Hugs sweetheart x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is showing as women for me OP.

Hope that means admin has solved the issue.

Shocking that it happened

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

They’ll have acted from someone reporting you if your profile says you are trans.

Admin changing your profile and you contacting them to explain is probably the quickest way for admin to resolve things.

It’s showing you now as a woman so it looks like it’s been sorted quickly.

Admin are just volunteers and will only have the evidence they read on your profile, so if you said yourself you were trans in your profile, then it’s not difficult to see why they’d see you as trans.

Not saying anyone is right or wrong but admin will base it on the evidence available to them. You now proving further evidence has resulted in them changing it back to you being a woman

Best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally lost with this, are you physically a woman?

If so then you have a point.

She is a woman. That’s all they or anyone else need to know. "

This!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Please use the contact option and ask Admin to re_iew.

thanks

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