FabSwingers.com forum: Telling ppl no

By *rippy gushy me OP Woman
over a year ago

north london

Seems that a lot of folk have a hard time hearing no

.il say "sorry not interested then it message after message I block them they report me I get a warning my profile clearRd yet been supporting fab for 10 yes

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Don't even engage with them.

Fab faq's state "no answer=not interested".

Just automatically block to avoid any communication.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems that a lot of folk have a hard time hearing no

.il say "sorry not interested then it message after message I block them they report me I get a warning my profile clearRd yet been supporting fab for 10 yes

They report you for blocking them, and, fab send You a warning? Really??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems that a lot of folk have a hard time hearing no

.il say "sorry not interested then it message after message I block them they report me I get a warning my profile clearRd yet been supporting fab for 10 yes

If you are abusive in your messages they are right to report you. Maybe they have sent screen shots of your messages. If you aren't interested in people just block them.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Seems that a lot of folk have a hard time hearing no

.il say "sorry not interested then it message after message I block them they report me I get a warning my profile clearRd yet been supporting fab for 10 yes

You only get a warning if you break the site rules, ie are abusive when saying no.

So if you say your 'polite' no thanks then block, they won't be able to keep mailing and irritating you.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I can count on one hand the amount of times I've had abuse for saying no. The vast majority wish me well and move on.

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By *rippy gushy me OP Woman
over a year ago

north london

When I'm called a monkey

And I say ur fucking blocked your saying I should be getting a warning ?

So it's OK to be abused by racist on fab and I must not say anything

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By *rippy gushy me OP Woman
over a year ago

north london

Yes they do it can be very one sided on fab

I been online for 10yrs with fab still have to deal with this problem

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By *rippy gushy me OP Woman
over a year ago

north london

So when I'm being attacked about my skin colour it's OK and I shold just keep taking it that's what your saying

All because I'm black

Well well well need I say more whit ppl like you that assume I should take that kind of abuse and not say anything .

I ain't a slave it 2020

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

To be fair, people gave you comments and advice BEFORE you mentioned the racist abuse you have endured.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Always report abuse, admin always take action

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