FabSwingers.com forum: How should men dress in the evening in Cap d Agde I

By *irm Foundations OP Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I was asked this question and answered that it should be smart casual. Shirts should have a collar , no trainers , and either trousers or smart shorts .

For the more adventurous my suggestion was either a leather or pvc and lace jumpsuit.

Clubs such as Tanta will insist have a rule that no trainers are allowed and shirts must have collars . I am not sure what the ruling on wearing shorts is .

Can anyone offer better advice or add to it ?

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Not sure about Tantra but I can't remember seeing any guys wearing shorts in there.

Jeux de Mains is a no go for shorts. We got knocked back on the door a few years ago for it. I'm pretty sure that the same rule applies to Glamour

So now I never wear shorts in the evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't it only apply to a few clubs?

You can be naked or wear a mr blobby outfit in 90% of the places.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe the post should have said what to wear to get into Glamour, Tantra etc.

we wear what we like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was at Tanta last weekend and did see one or two guys wearing trainers but didn't see anyone with shorts .

Glamore on the other hand are more stricter when it comes to dress code and single guys

As for general dress code in the village, I walked around in my icebreaker everyday boxer ?? most of the time and naked when I feel brace enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No shorts in any clubs allowed . for guys trousers only if you forget trousers tantra will kindly hire you a pair for €5 euros but trust me you will look a complete twat in them ( I did ) so my advice take your own

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS

I have spent most of my time in Cap wearing smart 3/4 shorts in the evening and never had an issue, even in Le Juls.

Le glamour was smart jeans, and never been in Tantra.

I wear while leather Converse rather than trainers and have never had a problem.

Mind, they tend to look at what she is JUST ABOUT wearing, and not bother with me too much!

Hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the best way for us chaps to decide what to wear is to think about what we're trying to achieve. We want to be attractive to women so that we can seduce them. I suspect most women would prefer to be approached by someone nicely dressed who takes care of his appearance and smells nice.

The clubs we go to in France all have a no jeans, trainers or tee shirts rule but the rule isn't really needed as the French men all wear trousers, a nice shirt with a collar and town shoes.

A final thought: French men don't drink much at clubs as there isn't much point in going to all the effort of seducing someone in your best suit then to disappoint her with brewers droop.

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By *irm Foundations OP Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"Perhaps the best way for us chaps to decide what to wear is to think about what we're trying to achieve. We want to be attractive to women so that we can seduce them. I suspect most women would prefer to be approached by someone nicely dressed who takes care of his appearance and smells nice.

The clubs we go to in France all have a no jeans, trainers or tee shirts rule but the rule isn't really needed as the French men all wear trousers, a nice shirt with a collar and town shoes.

A final thought: French men don't drink much at clubs as there isn't much point in going to all the effort of seducing someone in your best suit then to disappoint her with brewers droop."
A good post . I had noticed how well most of the continental men dress .

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By *isnerdsCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

I'm very pleased that someone asked this question because as newbies, we really have no clue what we are doing. The club situation really doesn't bother us so if we don't get in hey ho. I have absolutely no intention of taking or wearing any form of long trouser/ shirt so what will be will be, I am sure it won't dampen our fun as the one thing we are looking forward to most is the foam party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex sells thats why the resort is now mostly swingers and the naturists are being pushed out .

very strange when the reason swingers came to the naturist village was to get turned on by the naked people in the first place.(please don't try and say it is not the case because we all know it's the case otherwise why come?)

there were rules but without enforcement people will make their own amendments.

why would anyone want to wear trousers and shoes on a very hot evening when there is an option to be naked or wear next to nothing.

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By *irm Foundations OP Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"I'm very pleased that someone asked this question because as newbies, we really have no clue what we are doing. The club situation really doesn't bother us so if we don't get in hey ho. I have absolutely no intention of taking or wearing any form of long trouser/ shirt so what will be will be, I am sure it won't dampen our fun as the one thing we are looking forward to most is the foam party

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However if you bring one set of long trousers and one shirt with collar it will cover you should you change your mind . Unless you are dressed to a certain standard entry to Tantra is refused .

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By *irm Foundations OP Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

For the bondage club ( Clair Obscur ) apart from wearing the relevant kinky gear , men's shoes must be black. I was dressed correctly in the correct leather and pvc plus restraints, but they insisted that I wore their shoes as mine were the wrong colour . They start were very helpful and simply pulled a spare pair from behind the desk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry for going off topic(again lol)

clubs that want to be selective have the right to ask for dress code inside their property .

It only applies when its a popular club as in a normal town .

Once the clubs become less popular they drop the rules.

I wonder if a 70 year old millionaire turns up at glamour in a ferrari with a 20 year old nearley naked woman will get turned away with shorts ?

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"Doesn't it only apply to a few clubs?

You can be naked or wear a mr blobby outfit in 90% of the places.

There are only a few clubs and with the exception of the sauna clubs I think it applies to them all.

Glamour. No shorts.

Tantra. No shorts. Since my last post I've checked up on both.

Jeux de Mains. No shorts.

Clair Obscure (fetish club) Fetish dress code so you may get away with certain kind of black shorts.

Le Juls. This is the only one I'm not 100% sure about but my feeling is that they don't allow shorts.

There is another place opposite the Bodega bar in Port Ambonne. I think it is called VIP or something similar. I can't comment on dress code because we've never actually seen anyone in the place, we are not sure if it is even a proper club.

They are the only swinger clubs in the village. Apart from the sauna clubs and sex cinema there are no others.

At night you see very few people who are actually naked and I've never seen anyone enter a club naked, although some of the ladies do get close.

Oh and those Mr Blobby's are a pain in the arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't it only apply to a few clubs?

You can be naked or wear a mr blobby outfit in 90% of the places.

There are only a few clubs and with the exception of the sauna clubs I think it applies to them all.

Glamour. No shorts.

Tantra. No shorts. Since my last post I've checked up on both.

Jeux de Mains. No shorts.

Clair Obscure (fetish club) Fetish dress code so you may get away with certain kind of black shorts.

Le Juls. This is the only one I'm not 100% sure about but my feeling is that they don't allow shorts.

They are the only swinger clubs in the village. Apart from the sauna clubs and sex cinema there are no others.

At night you see very few people who are actually naked and I've never seen anyone enter a club naked, although some of the ladies do get close.

Oh and those Mr Blobby's are a pain in the arse.

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When the mozzies are about lots look like mr blobby without the suit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sorry for going off topic(again lol)

clubs that want to be selective have the right to ask for dress code inside their property .

It only applies when its a popular club as in a normal town .

Once the clubs become less popular they drop the rules.

I wonder if a 70 year old millionaire turns up at glamour in a ferrari with a 20 year old nearley naked woman will get turned away with shorts ?"

Yea I did pmsl

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By *ibo_and_EmmyCouple
over a year ago

London

If you're accompanied by a hot young female expect to see the rules relaxed

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"If you're accompanied by a hot young female expect to see the rules relaxed"

I wouldn't bet the farm on that one.

Hot young females are not exactly in short supply at Cap.

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By *irm Foundations OP Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

"If you're accompanied by a hot young female expect to see the rules relaxed

I wouldn't bet the farm on that one.

Hot young females are not exactly in short supply at Cap.

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Apart from the supply being plentiful the doorman might refuse entry out of jealousy because of the gentleman's success .

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