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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi admin

Is there any way we can have a filter at the top of ‘who looked at me’ to filter out the sex/ couples we are looking for eg females/ MF etc.

Sometimes we like to take the first step and give them a wink after they’ve initially taken a peek....

Helps break the ice

Mrs P x

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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I think if you adjust your message filters and block every sex your not looking for from messaging you then only those you are looking for will show on your "who's looked" list

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I think if you adjust your message filters and block every sex your not looking for from messaging you then only those you are looking for will show on your "who's looked" list"

I think you're right

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow

As far as I know, the only group who won't show on your "who's looked" list, other than those in stealth mode, are single males, if you have them blocked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But we don’t want to block males...

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

Message filters play no part in showing, or not showing, who looked at me. As said above the only ones who don't show are stealthy peekers

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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Just done a test, yes looks like it only applies for male profiles, sorry can't help, sure it would be an easy enough filter for admin to apply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not just go out and make the initial contact its the best option as long as you have the self confidence to do so.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Message filters play no part in showing, or not showing, who looked at me. As said above the only ones who don't show are stealthy peekers "

Not quite.

If you block single men from mailing you they will no longer appear on your who looked list. This doesn't work for all other genders.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"Message filters play no part in showing, or not showing, who looked at me. As said above the only ones who don't show are stealthy peekers

Not quite.

If you block single men from mailing you they will no longer appear on your who looked list. This doesn't work for all other genders."

Learn something new every day! That's a little unfair really seeing as I have single woman blocked on filters yet they constantly appear on who's looked at me, it's not just single guys that can be a nuisance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why not just go out and make the initial contact its the best option as long as you have the self confidence to do so. "

Oh we do!

But sometimes when you’ve had 1000s look at you in a day- it’s nice to narrow it down to who may be of interest at that specific time and desire.....

X

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By *icebuttnaughty4uMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I block single males but still get perved and fabbed and appear in looked at me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Please, pretty please admin...

We were blown away with 3000 viewings Yesterday - we need to just whittle it down to what we’re searching for.

I can only imagine what it’s like for those in the top hot lists...

Surely this is what the ‘looked at feature’ is for?

Mrs P X

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex


"Please, pretty please admin...

We were blown away with 3000 viewings Yesterday - we need to just whittle it down to what we’re searching for.

I can only imagine what it’s like for those in the top hot lists...

Surely this is what the ‘looked at feature’ is for?

Mrs P X

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The people that show on your "whose looked at me" are only those who are not using stealth mode so the actual number would be greater.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"As far as I know, the only group who won't show on your "who's looked" list, other than those in stealth mode, are single males, if you have them blocked."

This is correct. MF, TV/CD, MM & FF still show in mine.

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds


"Please, pretty please admin...

We were blown away with 3000 viewings Yesterday - we need to just whittle it down to what we’re searching for.

I can only imagine what it’s like for those in the top hot lists...

Surely this is what the ‘looked at feature’ is for?

Mrs P X

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Looking at and being interested are vastly different, how can they know their interest without looking.

If they were interested (filters allowing) they'd contact you.. no ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it matter who looked at you? If they were interested thayd had have got in touch?

Surely it makes more sense to use the search function and find people who fit what you're looking for and haven't already rejected you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*they'd

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"Hi admin

Is there any way we can have a filter at the top of ‘who looked at me’ to filter out the sex/ couples we are looking for eg females/ MF etc.

Sometimes we like to take the first step and give them a wink after they’ve initially taken a peek....

Helps break the ice

Mrs P x"

And this is why I stealth look.

I'm not sure what the reason for 'looked at me' is but as said above if I look and don't get in touch then the very last thing I want is a wink or message from them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aha you see m this is why we all have different choices.

Some go stealth, some like to be shown.

Some have a quick peek, some wink, some like to message.

Let people have choice to use what they want, how they want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not necessarily

Some may not have had time. Some may be shy, some may think you wouldn’t be interested.

If we notice someone has looked a few times, but not messaged... or have liked pics and not messaged, does that mean we shouldn’t contact them.

What you do. Is YOUR choice. Not ours, or even the next person.

Just similar to how some people use the hotlist as people who they find hot, some as not etc.

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