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By *s2andthem OP   Couple
over a year ago

Liskeard

How about some sort of notification if someone on your hot list then adds you to theirs

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've posted in threads about hotlists and messaged those on mine only to discover we are on each others x

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By *utonguy2023Man
over a year ago

luton

I agree on that subject

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Hotlists aren't always used for a hotlist, they are sometimes used as a not list x

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By *s2andthem OP   Couple
over a year ago

Liskeard


"Hotlists aren't always used for a hotlist, they are sometimes used as a not list x"

I know alot of people use the hot list a a not list but for alot of people the not list is the block list

For us the not list is the block list

I guess it's one of them things no one will ever agree on as we all have different way of doing things unless they add a not list

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By *s2andthem OP   Couple
over a year ago

Liskeard


"Hotlists aren't always used for a hotlist, they are sometimes used as a not list x

I know alot of people use the hot list a a not list but for alot of people the not list is the block list

For us the not list is the block list

I guess it's one of them things no one will ever agree on as we all have different way of doing things unless they add a not list "

Well saying that we started off using the notes section on their profile as a not list

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By *utton SimonMan
over a year ago

Sutton

For me, a friends list for those I’ve met,,the hot list from those where there are regular message exchanges or phone chats, the No list is the Block Button for those that cannot accept no or simply far far to pushy.. simple really.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Bad idea. I wouldn't want to meet the majority of our hot list, which is really a not list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it used to show if you were on each other's hot lists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is definitely a not list/won't go near them cause they've been on the local Fab bike list haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be shocked if I was on anyone’s anyway

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By *tsJustJackMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"I’d be shocked if I was on anyone’s anyway "

Behave! Your profile is hot!!

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By *akes handymanMan
over a year ago

In the Lakes


"I’d be shocked if I was on anyone’s anyway "

Your now on mine xx

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex


"I’d be shocked if I was on anyone’s anyway

Your now on mine xx"

Mine too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would only work if there was another list that was self named. There's far too many variables in the way people use it to do it that way. I certainly wouldn't want people currently on my hotlist knowing they are on there.

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow


"I think it used to show if you were on each other's hot lists"

I've only been on the site for 10 years, but I don't remember that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotlists aren't always used for a hotlist, they are sometimes used as a not list x

I know alot of people use the hot list a a not list but for alot of people the not list is the block list

For us the not list is the block list

I guess it's one of them things no one will ever agree on as we all have different way of doing things unless they add a not list "

So keep the block list for abusive types and other personal reasons etc. Now create a not list for those that don't deserve blocking but are not of interest or whatever... the hot list can then be used for what its meant for and if its mutual a notification can be sent.

Simple 3 tier system so admins/developers.... Get on it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d be shocked if I was on anyone’s anyway

Your now on mine xx"

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

bristol


"I’d be shocked if I was on anyone’s anyway "

You're on mine now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmmm

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester


"How about some sort of notification if someone on your hot list then adds you to theirs"

There is no point if they want you to know they just need to wink.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Hardly any on ours, we tend not to browse so just put people on who message us that we would be looking to meet

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By *akes handymanMan
over a year ago

In the Lakes

Ohh Windermere!! Added xx

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By *ust cheerfulMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Hotlists aren't always used for a hotlist, they are sometimes used as a not list x

I know alot of people use the hot list a a not list but for alot of people the not list is the block list

For us the not list is the block list

I guess it's one of them things no one will ever agree on as we all have different way of doing things unless they add a not list

So keep the block list for abusive types and other personal reasons etc. Now create a not list for those that don't deserve blocking but are not of interest or whatever... the hot list can then be used for what its meant for and if its mutual a notification can be sent.

Simple 3 tier system so admins/developers.... Get on it!

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Genius idea! I think it would work then as desired. Also considering fabs moving on technologically that would be great to get notifications of being added to hot list. Obviously not everyone is each others cup of tea so that solution would vastly save everybody's time finding meets even if it would be miss chances for those who click are increasing.

Wonder what admin thinks of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be useful, always good to know who likes you, maybe there could be an option to say why they find you hot. eg Pictures, profile text, things you like doing and having done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotlists aren't always used for a hotlist, they are sometimes used as a not list x"

I know a few people that do this

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By *teelcitycouple85Couple
over a year ago

sheffield


"How about some sort of notification if someone on your hot list then adds you to theirs"

Fantastic idea!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Hotlists aren't always used for a hotlist, they are sometimes used as a not list x

I know a few people that do this "

Me!

Reckon 95% of my Hotlist, is a NOT

Absolutely no way I'd want them notified I'd added them, & think I actually liked them, they're there so I can keep tabs & avoid them!

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By *teelcitycouple85Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Why not just block instead of turning a hot list into a not list?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Why not just block instead of turning a hot list into a not list? "

Sometimes you want to keep an eye on them.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Why not just block instead of turning a hot list into a not list? "

There are some people you may not want to be at the same place they are, if you block them you have no idea where they will be and when.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Why not just block instead of turning a hot list into a not list? "

As already mentioned above

There are certain people I'd rather avoid, there's events I've been considering attending til I see they're going.

Also when you know information about someone, keeping tabs on who they've met with can be quite useful.

I'm not following where some people have been, I'm quite fussy about my health!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be disappointing for us unloved

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By *nt1Man
over a year ago

Allington


"Hotlists aren't always used for a hotlist, they are sometimes used as a not list x"

Perhaps they should add a not list too

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