FabSwingers.com forum: Size filter

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you think there should be a size filter when looking for couples and singles ? Like for women size 8-10 12-14 14-6 etc.. and for guys medium build and size and cock size etc? Just an observation

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By *ants cockWoman
over a year ago

lincoln

"Do you think there should be a size filter when looking for couples and singles ? Like for women size 8-10 12-14 14-6 etc.. and for guys medium build and size and cock size etc? Just an observation "

Yes I do. As I’m a size 16 I don’t see it as curvy though as I’m not hour class. But have been told I’m not ample. So putting size down would help everyone. As you can’t help what you like.

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

Gets our vote. Would certainly simplify things however it normally gets shot down as some form as body shaming or some other bullshit by the PC brigade.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No definitely not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who could you trust to be truthful,and as size is subjective,one person's curvy will be another person's fat.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Nah, everyone would just lie, like they do now about age, height, marital status etc. Look at the pictures, it's the best way to judge.

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

Not sure how putting your dress size could be subjective, your dress size is your dress size. Of course people will lie but for those that don't it will give a more accurate perspective rather than an emperors new clothes scenario.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just add info to your profile.

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

"Just add info to your profile. "

We have, but obviously no one bothers to read it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just add info to your profile.

We have, but obviously no one bothers to read it!"

Am I the only one that reads them then? Lol

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

"Just add info to your profile.

We have, but obviously no one bothers to read it!

Am I the only one that reads them then? Lol"

Judging by the messages we get, yes lol

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

"Not sure how putting your dress size could be subjective, your dress size is your dress size. Of course people will lie but for those that don't it will give a more accurate perspective rather than an emperors new clothes scenario."

Imagine size 16 on someone who is 5.0 and 5.8

Same dress size looks different depends on your height.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had so many experiences with meeting guys who claimed to be 5’10”+ and turned out to be 5’5-6” generously...

I think people would fib, just like they always do...

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Then guys should all put their cock size..

Some people would just lie anyway...and isnt that what pictures are for..so you can see the person before hand?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dress size is really not an indicator of body type. A size 20 could either be a very curvy 5"2 lady or an average build 5"11 one. Sizes also differ so much from shop to shop; my wardrobe ranges through about 4 different sizes and women these days tend to shop by fit rather than size anyway as it varies so much between brands. I reckon fab should stick with body types but again this is subjective. Best way to know is from photos.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

What else do we add? I personally would add intelligence (intellectual and emotional) and political views... but maybe I could/ should broaden out from just going out with socialists!

To answer OPs question no, it’s a meaningless criteria for me.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

"Then guys should all put their cock size..

Some people would just lie anyway...and isnt that what pictures are for..so you can see the person before hand? "

I don’t want to have both my face and cock pictures public. And most men would lie.

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

Maybe Tripadvisor style body reviews??And if you lie it gets noted?

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By *ants cockWoman
over a year ago

lincoln

"Dress size is really not an indicator of body type. A size 20 could either be a very curvy 5"2 lady or an average build 5"11 one. Sizes also differ so much from shop to shop; my wardrobe ranges through about 4 different sizes and women these days tend to shop by fit rather than size anyway as it varies so much between brands. I reckon fab should stick with body types but again this is subjective. Best way to know is from photos. "

That is soo true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 5ft11 and an average size 12 but this will vary 10 - 14 dependent on make, how will that compare, in size, to a 5ft lady? Size 12 is totally different if you're 5ft to 5ft11!!

Plus people on here lie about most of their choice details ie height, age, smoking

It's all been said above ^^^

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By * New YorkieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Pictures speak a thousand words. Pictures coupled with verifications should paint a good enough picture for at least a chat or social...

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

"Pictures speak a thousand words. Pictures coupled with verifications should paint a good enough picture for at least a chat or social... "

Pictures as in photos which are ten years old and show a person who is two stone lighter.

Paying members should have the option of using extra filters if they have specific preferences.

E.g I like shorter women with a preference of 5'2"-5'6".

Having a height filter also solves the debate of a 5'2" size 16 being totally different looking to a 5'11" size 16 woman

Having extra filters saves a lot of time.

It's a yes from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pictures speak a thousand words. Pictures coupled with verifications should paint a good enough picture for at least a chat or social...

Pictures as in photos which are ten years old and show a person who is two stone lighter.

Paying members should have the option of using extra filters if they have specific preferences.

E.g I like shorter women with a preference of 5'2"-5'6".

Having a height filter also solves the debate of a 5'2" size 16 being totally different looking to a 5'11" size 16 woman

Having extra filters saves a lot of time.

It's a yes from me

Still not foolproof. Dress size is an indicator of the garment's measurements, not the person's. It all depends on your actual physical build i.e some people are just naturally big boned. People don't usually believe me when I tell them my average dress size because they think I don't look "big enough". In reality most of the time I buy even bigger than that because I prefer a looser fit, so items which are meant to be skin tight I'll buy 2 or 3 sizes bigger. Dress size is totally not the same for women as it is for men and to be honest is mostly just a social construct. If you're scared of being led on by photos just bite the bullet and meet the person ASAP for a no obligations social. Or ask them to send a live pic of themselves on snapchat or kik so you know it's up to date.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Have as many filters as you like but some people will still put what they like if they think they will have more chance of meeting. You can’t go wrong with an up to date pic to see if there’s attraction for you, words and numbers don’t give you the true picture of anybody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem stating sizes but if men are giving cock sizes shouldn't women be giving pussy sizes? Like you know tight as fuck. Bit busted. And then last but certainly not least. Bucket size? Would help us guys to know if we should strap a plank to our ass. I mean fair is fair right? I'm all for equality me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People would still lie. Seen so many 'athletic' dad bods and VWE 5 inch dicks

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"No problem stating sizes but if men are giving cock sizes shouldn't women be giving pussy sizes? Like you know tight as fuck. Bit busted. And then last but certainly not least. Bucket size? Would help us guys to know if we should strap a plank to our ass. I mean fair is fair right? I'm all for equality me

Wowser can’t wait to see the response on this one lol, I’m sure it will go down a storm, can I put myself down for mouses ear in this filter haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People would still lie. Seen so many 'athletic' dad bods and VWE 5 inch dicks"

So a verification pic with your lad next to a ruler then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wowser can’t wait to see the response on this one lol, I’m sure it will go down a storm, can I put myself down for mouses ear in this filter haha "

I know I'm expecting it. But just wanted to see the double standards is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People would still lie. Seen so many 'athletic' dad bods and VWE 5 inch dicks

So a verification pic with your lad next to a ruler then lol"

I don't have a lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People would still lie. Seen so many 'athletic' dad bods and VWE 5 inch dicks

So a verification pic with your lad next to a ruler then lol

I don't have a lad

Let me guess yours is a MAN! LMAO

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

If you're going to search someone, a lady based on size then you need to combine height

I'm a 16, but I'm just over 6'

No comparison to another lady the same size but 5'2

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Unfortunately yes i have as i experienced different sizes before and now I know exactly what size really turns me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wowser can’t wait to see the response on this one lol, I’m sure it will go down a storm, can I put myself down for mouses ear in this filter haha

I know I'm expecting it. But just wanted to see the double standards is all

Except no one insulted different dick sizes on here so not sure where you're getting your double standards from. Calling for a vagina size filter is one thing but calling them "busted" and "bucket" sized is quite another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wowser can’t wait to see the response on this one lol, I’m sure it will go down a storm, can I put myself down for mouses ear in this filter haha

I know I'm expecting it. But just wanted to see the double standards is all

Oh well sorry I was just using similar words that women use to describe what they won't accept lol it's just funny how it's acceptable for women to put in their profiles bold as you like that only bulls need apply but if a guy said in his profile only tight pussy.s accepted he be called alot of things lol am I not correct?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wowser can’t wait to see the response on this one lol, I’m sure it will go down a storm, can I put myself down for mouses ear in this filter haha

I know I'm expecting it. But just wanted to see the double standards is all

Except "bull" refers to a type of aggressive behaviour in bed and not penis size. Penises are appendages, like arms and legs are, and stating a preference for size is no different to men saying they like big boobs or bums on their profiles. Besides, dick size is down to genetics. Vaginas go through all manner of experiences in life that can also affect tightness. Remind me, when was the last time you birthed a full human baby through your dick?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wowser can’t wait to see the response on this one lol, I’m sure it will go down a storm, can I put myself down for mouses ear in this filter haha

I know I'm expecting it. But just wanted to see the double standards is all

And there we go. Double standards. I don't agree with any body shaming male or female but it seems to be acceptable for women to preference big dicks while any man who made a profile comment about only wanting tight pussys would be considered a pig. Just making an observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure where you're getting the double standards from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am 5'1" tall. I'm also curvy not skinny. If I were taller I would look very different. I honestly don't mind being short but I realize not every guy likes that. I don't see the point in lying about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wowser can’t wait to see the response on this one lol, I’m sure it will go down a storm, can I put myself down for mouses ear in this filter haha

I know I'm expecting it. But just wanted to see the double standards is all

Wow well done for completely disregarding everything I've just said. Your argument would make more sense if you'd actually read my post. The only double standards here are yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wowser can’t wait to see the response on this one lol, I’m sure it will go down a storm, can I put myself down for mouses ear in this filter haha

I know I'm expecting it. But just wanted to see the double standards is all

Wow well done for completely disregarding everything I've just said. Your argument would make more sense if you'd actually read my post. The only double standards here are yours. "

I did read your excuses. Sorry wasnt an argument. You don't get to be saying your preferences regarding size and expect that to be ok if your going to judge a guy for doing exactly the same thing. It's that simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ToneCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Imagine size 16 on someone who is 5.0 and 5.8

Same dress size looks different depends on your height.

I totally agree. I'm 5 10 and a 16. But people was just see 16 and be put off (or turned on lol) i think. They wouldn't take height into consideration. It's just another thing to judge. Just get a photo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wowser can’t wait to see the response on this one lol, I’m sure it will go down a storm, can I put myself down for mouses ear in this filter haha

I know I'm expecting it. But just wanted to see the double standards is all

Wow well done for completely disregarding everything I've just said. Your argument would make more sense if you'd actually read my post. The only double standards here are yours.

Oh I see what's happened here. You read my post, you just didn't understand it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wowser can’t wait to see the response on this one lol, I’m sure it will go down a storm, can I put myself down for mouses ear in this filter haha

I know I'm expecting it. But just wanted to see the double standards is all

Wow well done for completely disregarding everything I've just said. Your argument would make more sense if you'd actually read my post. The only double standards here are yours.

Oh I see what's happened here. You read my post, you just didn't understand it. "

Ok but the fact this even has us disagreeing tells me all I need to know. One rule for you girls and a different rule for us. I respect your opinion but I have my own.

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By *weet Delight2016Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere nice

Be nice to have height as an option while on this subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah, everyone would just lie, like they do now about age, height, marital status etc. Look at the pictures, it's the best way to judge. "

By this logic we shouldn't be able to filter by age, gender, location etc because "everyone would just lie".

Instead we should read all 2 million profiles at random to find what we're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could do the same filter for penises lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nah, everyone would just lie, like they do now about age, height, marital status etc. Look at the pictures, it's the best way to judge.

By this logic we shouldn't be able to filter by age, gender, location etc because "everyone would just lie".

Instead we should read all 2 million profiles at random to find what we're looking for.

One of the other big kink sites omits filters and that's exactly how you have to navigate users on their site, pretty much at random.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wowser can’t wait to see the response on this one lol, I’m sure it will go down a storm, can I put myself down for mouses ear in this filter haha

I know I'm expecting it. But just wanted to see the double standards is all

Wow well done for completely disregarding everything I've just said. Your argument would make more sense if you'd actually read my post. The only double standards here are yours.

Oh I see what's happened here. You read my post, you just didn't understand it.

Ok but the fact this even has us disagreeing tells me all I need to know. One rule for you girls and a different rule for us. I respect your opinion but I have my own.

Except my opinion is based on actual facts and yours is based on some imaginary double standards you've pulled out of thin air. Not sure you even know the meaning of the term tbh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No definitely not"

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bullshit Meter software required would be the option I’d like

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

"Bullshit Meter software required would be the option I’d like"

I developed a Bullshit Meter app but it imploded within 1 minute of starting up on Fab and can’t be fixed!

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By *_brushMan
over a year ago

All over

"Nah, everyone would just lie, like they do now about age, height, marital status etc. Look at the pictures, it's the best way to judge. "

This. Even pictures aren't that reliable. I've had meets where they could be someone completely different

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Then guys should all put their cock size..

Some people would just lie anyway...and isnt that what pictures are for..so you can see the person before hand?

I don’t want to have both my face and cock pictures public. And most men would lie. "

Oh I know that ...just as some women may lie about their size. It was ment as a joke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't think they should ass it I know I don't want people knowing what size I am

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It peoples pictures where a true representation of what they actually look like, there would be no need for the "slim" or "bbw" comments on profile.

After all, we are all here for sex and need to be physically attracted to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pointless people would just lie about size as they already do on height and age.

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

"Nah, everyone would just lie, like they do now about age, height, marital status etc. Look at the pictures, it's the best way to judge.

By this logic we shouldn't be able to filter by age, gender, location etc because "everyone would just lie".

Instead we should read all 2 million profiles at random to find what we're looking for.

Exactly, very time consuming. Even though I'd get filtered out by lots of people wanting six foot or over, I'd still like a height filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women show their pussy pictures on their public pictures section. Why don’t you decide on those ‘classy’ pictures and figure it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It peoples pictures where a true representation of what they actually look like, there would be no need for the "slim" or "bbw" comments on profile.

After all, we are all here for sex and need to be physically attracted to someone."

I agree!

Plus alot of people are not confident with their body image so some do pictures that they feel good in and make them feel sexy no matter what gender/size/age you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because a woman who is 4’10” and a size 16 is not the same size as a woman who is 6’0” and a size 16.

And size is subjective hence the descriptors not always being what you expect.

also I personally don’t pick people based on clothing or cock size.

I do think a height filter would be good as some people want to meet men taller than they are and are quite tall. But height isn’t a subjective or variable measurement.

Also, most women have clothes in at least 3 sizes that all fit in their wardrobes! - Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What else do we add? I personally would add intelligence (intellectual and emotional) and political views... but maybe I could/ should broaden out from just going out with socialists!

To answer OPs question no, it’s a meaningless criteria for me. "
i like these options better

. - Mrs

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

"Do you think there should be a size filter when looking for couples and singles ? Like for women size 8-10 12-14 14-6 etc.. and for guys medium build and size and cock size etc? Just an observation

No because a woman who is 4’10” and a size 16 is not the same size as a woman who is 6’0” and a size 16.

And size is subjective hence the descriptors not always being what you expect.

also I personally don’t pick people based on clothing or cock size.

I do think a height filter would be good as some people want to meet men taller than they are and are quite tall. But height isn’t a subjective or variable measurement.

Also, most women have clothes in at least 3 sizes that all fit in their wardrobes! - Mrs "

Quite a few on this thread agree about there being a height filter. Extra filters saves time in the long run. People who don't like them don't have to use them. I think it would be a great added feature for site supporters.

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By *heCrowAndButterflyCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Anything like this is only a good as the data put in, if you add an extra field like that then you either have to enforce populating it, or let people populate it as they want either way until enough populate it you data will be complete and therefore your searches will be also, plus this kind of info is open to either not being filled in accurately, or not at all as for some people it's deemed private info, what is more likely and easier to do is search filters on body type, mostly people are more objective about this, and although again its down to opinions this data is already captured

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Pointless people would just lie about size as they already do on height and age. "

this

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

"Pointless people would just lie about size as they already do on height and age. "

People lie on their profile on the forums etc but most get found out,

When you buy clothes online some sites show body shapes to help you choose your size, All you would have to do is pick the one that looks similar to your own body/breast/height etc, Most people don't meet until they have seen pictures so they would be able to work out if they are not telling the truth about what they look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think there should be a size filter when looking for couples and singles ? Like for women size 8-10 12-14 14-6 etc.. and for guys medium build and size and cock size etc? Just an observation

No because a woman who is 4’10” and a size 16 is not the same size as a woman who is 6’0” and a size 16.

And size is subjective hence the descriptors not always being what you expect.

also I personally don’t pick people based on clothing or cock size.

I do think a height filter would be good as some people want to meet men taller than they are and are quite tall. But height isn’t a subjective or variable measurement.

Also, most women have clothes in at least 3 sizes that all fit in their wardrobes! - Mrs

Height as a filter wouldn't work any better than the age filter, I've met guys on here (yes more than 2) who have put 6ft2 yet when I've met them I'm actually taller (I'm 5ft11)!! I could change my height to 5ft10 to get around filters ... it's unpoliceable so people would just lie, like about too many thkings on here

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By *s2andthemCouple
over a year ago

Liskeard

Every single guy would fit the size of big or huge lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every single guy would fit the size of big or huge lol"

Exactly. They already do this with the new photo categories - every single category you click on is just full of dick pics as people choose the tags themselves when uploading a pic. So there is absolutely nothing to stop someone lying about their size; wouldn't make a very effective filter method.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I'm torn on this one, had a message from a couple who only wanted slim women. So I politely said I didn't meet their criteria as I'm a size 16/18 (didn't want to waste anybody's time). To be told I didn't look that size as if it was a compliment. Know it's personal preference but can be a bit harsh for those of us with body issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Then guys should all put their cock size..

Some people would just lie anyway...and isnt that what pictures are for..so you can see the person before hand? "

this all day, best to leave as little option to over/under exaggerate things as possible.

Plus if you can’t tell how someone looks from a picture then you’ve yourself to blame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of sexy and pretty and beautiful bigger women, could be missing out?

but that's your choice

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I like the idea as it could be a big improvement from the vague categories we currently have and then being able to search more specifically for the type of people you'd like.

I've used sites before that have managed this very well. Obviously it relies on users both understanding the system and category criteria to add as well as honesty in entering accurate data. People do misuse many of the personal details bits now, not always to deceive others.

As men are in such high numbers here, this successful change would make it so much easier and quicker to find the narrowed down group of men that match your tastes, which improves the potential satisfaction for all.

I've seen sites where waist, chest and other measurements are input in inches/cms. People could still add a descriptive term for their build too.

It's especially good as a high volume of people - especially men - include photos of a very restricted amount of their body, making it really difficult to determine their physical form (especially if it's not just a cock that's of interest

to viewers).

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

"I like the idea as it could be a big improvement from the vague categories we currently have and then being able to search more specifically for the type of people you'd like.

I've seen sites where waist, chest and other measurements are input in inches/cms. People could still add a descriptive term for their build too.

to viewers). "

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I state my dress size on my profile however a size 16 looks different depending on height, proportions and the way you carry yourself. Therefore it's unlikely that a room of all size 16 women would look the same!

Also as a woman mostly seeking men, how many guys actually know what the numbers mean ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm torn on this one, had a message from a couple who only wanted slim women. So I politely said I didn't meet their criteria as I'm a size 16/18 (didn't want to waste anybody's time). To be told I didn't look that size as if it was a compliment. Know it's personal preference but can be a bit harsh for those of us with body issues. "

That’s awful. we had a couple who messaged us and I saw on their profile that they didn’t meet bigger people over a size 14/16. I am 14/16. I just deleted, but I bet they thought the same. It’s so offensive when people think they know what a size looks like and label it as “big” when there are multiple factors. You’re lovely. - Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think there should be a size filter when looking for couples and singles ? Like for women size 8-10 12-14 14-6 etc.. and for guys medium build and size and cock size etc? Just an observation

No because a woman who is 4’10” and a size 16 is not the same size as a woman who is 6’0” and a size 16.

And size is subjective hence the descriptors not always being what you expect.

also I personally don’t pick people based on clothing or cock size.

I do think a height filter would be good as some people want to meet men taller than they are and are quite tall. But height isn’t a subjective or variable measurement.

Also, most women have clothes in at least 3 sizes that all fit in their wardrobes! - Mrs

I didn’t argue against a height filter I said height is a measurable thing which is different to clothing size.

I think a height filter is a good idea. I think a clothing size filter is stupid.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Thank you, totally agree with you, they clearly see size as such a high priority something I do not - f x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Nah, everyone would just lie, like they do now about age, height, marital status etc. Look at the pictures, it's the best way to judge.

By this logic we shouldn't be able to filter by age, gender, location etc because "everyone would just lie".

Instead we should read all 2 million profiles at random to find what we're looking for.

God forbid we should have to put some effort into finding and getting to know if we're attracted to someone.

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

Oh I see what's happened here. You read my post, you just didn't understand it. "

Sorry but this made me LOL

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Would have to change it on a "fat day" " time of the month " " after a big meal" " if o got a bug and lost some weight" " over xmas when ive been pigging out"

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"Pictures speak a thousand words. Pictures coupled with verifications should paint a good enough picture for at least a chat or social...

Pictures as in photos which are ten years old and show a person who is two stone lighter.

Paying members should have the option of using extra filters if they have specific preferences.

E.g I like shorter women with a preference of 5'2"-5'6".

Having a height filter also solves the debate of a 5'2" size 16 being totally different looking to a 5'11" size 16 woman

Having extra filters saves a lot of time.

It's a yes from me

Ask for an up to date pic...problem solved

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By *KCxWoman
over a year ago

skegness

"Just add info to your profile. "
I've had my size on my profile since joining. My experience is guys love something to grab hold of, well definitely the ones I've met have lol

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"I state my dress size on my profile however a size 16 looks different depending on height, proportions and the way you carry yourself. Therefore it's unlikely that a room of all size 16 women would look the same!

Also as a woman mostly seeking men, how many guys actually know what the numbers mean ??"

I offer body statistics to resolve that issue as i come from a tailoring background

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

I already have my size on my profile...

I have No reason to lie!

I’ve gone from a size 22 to a size 12 and I’m very proud of myself for doing it......

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By *KCxWoman
over a year ago

skegness

"I already have my size on my profile...

I have No reason to lie!

I’ve gone from a size 22 to a size 12 and I’m very proud of myself for doing it......

"
WOW well done you, looking hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would have to change it on a "fat day" " time of the month " " after a big meal" " if o got a bug and lost some weight" " over xmas when ive been pigging out" "

Lol time of the month my bra size changes too and that apparently is important according to another thread -Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I already have my size on my profile...

I have No reason to lie!

I’ve gone from a size 22 to a size 12 and I’m very proud of myself for doing it......

You should be proud of yourself! You’ve worked hard and should share it if it makes you feel great

Mrs

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By *isssexysensualityCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

Filters for metrics would be pretty good.

These are the filters we are most keen on:

cock size - (with pic verification, people lie more about their cock size than their height, which is funny since we usually lay down when doing it) To some women, the size of the dick can be make or break in terms of cumming vaginally.

stamina - (if only this could be verified lol). Again it would help to massively filter between the masses who can only last 1-2 minutes and are really just looking to pump & go, vs those who can last more than a few minutes, and possibly have repeatability)

There’s definitely more of a requirement for men to meet a particular criteria than women (but this is down to science of the mating/dating game), but for women I’d say what I would really like is:

Ass size/shape/firmness

Boob size/shape/firmness

If we can only get one category, make it the Ass size one.

The interests section should be updated too.

Interested in: oral? Means what exactly? The amount of guys who have wrote interested in: oral, but really mean getting their dick sucked and uninterested in eating pussy. Same for rimjob, and I guess same for anal too.

So oral should be replaced with four things:

Enjoy eating pussy

Enjoy sucking dick

Enjoy having your pussy eaten

Enjoy having your dick sucked.

We all have an ass, so you only need Enjoy giving a rim job, and Enjoy receiving one. & enjoy pounding an ass/receiving an anal-pounding. - since I believe there is a slight

difference between receiving a Rimmie and getting a pounding.

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By *moothman2000Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I'm a bloke - I have absolutely no idea what dress sizes relate to so a pointless exercise for me.

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By *en5ual KissesMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

We all have preferences, size filter would be good, best my vote

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

That is soo true

Agreed. My dress size is anything from 18 to 24 and boobs anything from D to GG depending on where i shop. And tell me, which males are gonna get a true sense of size from a number.

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By *rummiePartyManMan
over a year ago

birmingham

How do you define size?

I think that Rachel Riley has a fabulous figure.

On the other hand, Bulgarian Womens Shot-Putters are athletes, are they not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If most comments are to go by, seems filters are not for choices but more about restricting access.

Maybe most filters should be just removed with a simple restricted access button that allows one to view but not message

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By *heHotwifePairCouple
over a year ago

South

Good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you think there should be a size filter when looking for couples and singles ? Like for women size 8-10 12-14 14-6 etc.. and for guys medium build and size and cock size etc? Just an observation

Good idea

What's to stop people from lying on their profile?

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