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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone feel theres a case for a dedicated Hotwife/ Stag forum?

There are many variations to polyamory but this seems to be becoming more and more popular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% agree

It is the fastest growing kink for couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, definitely xx

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I need a cold shower just thinking about Hot wives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be in there all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make it happen

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By *ornycouple44Couple
over a year ago

St austell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any hotwifes fancy some chocolate

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham

Most definitely a good idea, we love this particular kink.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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There are loads of requests for new forum rooms or chat rooms, Instead of waiting for fab to do this why not start a thread like "Hotwife/stag" "couples looking for couples" etc,

If people fill the room start a part 2 part 3 part 4, Maybe fab will then add a dedicated room,

The same with chat rooms, Just go into a empty room like site supporters room or the Canada room, Word will spread that Hotwife/stag or couples looking for couples over 50s etc etc are always in there

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By *ess n BenCouple
over a year ago

Didcot

Jess would most definitely be up for that idea

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

I would spend a lot of time there hoping to find a potential cuckoldress

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By *uncan LynnCouple
over a year ago

Kilmarnock

It's always been popular just perhaps more so now. A few years of us having this preference.

We would use it often.

What the single guys, like the person above need to remember, hot wife and stag has NOTHING whatso ever to do with the Cuck scene.

Different play altogether

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’d be interested in this. Unfortunately, you cannot police the people who join so would it be any different to other threads?

We’re keen, though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would spend a lot of time there hoping to find a potential cuckoldress "

You would be in the wrong place to find them then as we are all talking about stag/vixens. No mention of any type of cuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’d be interested in this. Unfortunately, you cannot police the people who join so would it be any different to other threads?

We’re keen, though xx"

Just reread the original post and our reply made no sense. Please ignore.

It sounds a great idea and it would definitely be made use off.

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

South London

It’s in our name! so we’d be very interested & frequent visitors to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh but seems like these days people forget the 'hot' part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeh but seems like these days people forget the 'hot' part "

What do you mean by that?

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By *lknhungMan
over a year ago

Luton

This forum definitely needs to get made, it would help so much finding the right couples to play with.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Why not just start a long running thread like the fat one?

"Hotwifing and cuckoldry thread number 456" for example..

Just don't make it as banal as the fat one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just start a long running thread like the fat one?

"Hotwifing and cuckoldry thread number 456" for example..

Just don't make it as banal as the fat one!"

I think hotwife and cuckold need to stay in separate threads they are totally different things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeh but seems like these days people forget the 'hot' part

What do you mean by that?"

Reads pretty obvious, to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeh but seems like these days people forget the 'hot' part

What do you mean by that?

Reads pretty obvious, to us. "

It does but think he has the wrong impression of what the hot in hot wife means.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Why not just start a long running thread like the fat one?

"Hotwifing and cuckoldry thread number 456" for example..

Just don't make it as banal as the fat one!

I think hotwife and cuckold need to stay in separate threads they are totally different things "

In your opinion they're totally different. In my opinion they cross over significantly enough to include both interests. I would also suggest that the number of people interested in cuckolding is greater than that just interested in stag/vixen.

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By *oyo58Man
over a year ago

wales

Love having a "hotwife fwb" love the fact that I'm being trusted with another mans wife and it's all about sharing experiences.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

A vixen and stag arrangement is exactly what I’d like to try with a FWB. I like the idea of being shared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeh but seems like these days people forget the 'hot' part

What do you mean by that?

Reads pretty obvious, to us.

It does but think he has the wrong impression of what the hot in hot wife means. "

I just meant that there's a difference between a hotwife/stag couple and a couple that likes single men joining...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeh but seems like these days people forget the 'hot' part

What do you mean by that?

Reads pretty obvious, to us.

It does but think he has the wrong impression of what the hot in hot wife means.

I just meant that there's a difference between a hotwife/stag couple and a couple that likes single men joining..."

That’s exactly what it is. The stag is happy allowing the hot wife to ply alone and is comfortable taking a step back. Unlike a cuck relationship where it’s more about humiliation of the cuck.

Lots of people like has been said above confuse the 2 separate kinks and think they are the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But the wife has gotta be hot...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is my point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But the wife has gotta be hot..."

So in your opinion you can’t participate in a kik no unless you look a certain way? That’s what you are saying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But the wife has gotta be hot...

So in your opinion you can’t participate in a kik no unless you look a certain way? That’s what you are saying?"

Hotwifing imo is for the couples where the women is desired by lots of men (because she's 'hot') and the stag/bloke likes showing her off/seeing her with other men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But the wife has gotta be hot...

So in your opinion you can’t participate in a kik no unless you look a certain way? That’s what you are saying?

Hotwifing imo is for the couples where the women is desired by lots of men (because she's 'hot') and the stag/bloke likes showing her off/seeing her with other men. "

So you are saying hot wiring should be left to the couples that are desirable and look a certain way?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"But the wife has gotta be hot...

So in your opinion you can’t participate in a kik no unless you look a certain way? That’s what you are saying?

Hotwifing imo is for the couples where the women is desired by lots of men (because she's 'hot') and the stag/bloke likes showing her off/seeing her with other men. "

Yeah, that's not it. That's like saying only beautiful women can be labelled as BBW.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But the wife has gotta be hot...

So in your opinion you can’t participate in a kik no unless you look a certain way? That’s what you are saying?

Hotwifing imo is for the couples where the women is desired by lots of men (because she's 'hot') and the stag/bloke likes showing her off/seeing her with other men.

So you are saying hot wiring should be left to the couples that are desirable and look a certain way?"

Hot wiring is what you do to cars when you've lost your keys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But the wife has gotta be hot...

So in your opinion you can’t participate in a kik no unless you look a certain way? That’s what you are saying?

Hotwifing imo is for the couples where the women is desired by lots of men (because she's 'hot') and the stag/bloke likes showing her off/seeing her with other men.

So you are saying hot wiring should be left to the couples that are desirable and look a certain way?

Hot wiring is what you do to cars when you've lost your keys "

Auto correct I do apologise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just start a long running thread like the fat one?

"Hotwifing and cuckoldry thread number 456" for example..

Just don't make it as banal as the fat one!

I think hotwife and cuckold need to stay in separate threads they are totally different things

In your opinion they're totally different. In my opinion they cross over significantly enough to include both interests. I would also suggest that the number of people interested in cuckolding is greater than that just interested in stag/vixen. "

Sorry where do they cross over??

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Why not just start a long running thread like the fat one?

"Hotwifing and cuckoldry thread number 456" for example..

Just don't make it as banal as the fat one!

I think hotwife and cuckold need to stay in separate threads they are totally different things

In your opinion they're totally different. In my opinion they cross over significantly enough to include both interests. I would also suggest that the number of people interested in cuckolding is greater than that just interested in stag/vixen.

Sorry where do they cross over?? "

For some cuckolding is simply their wife going out on her own to play with other guys. For some, hotwifing is exactly the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just start a long running thread like the fat one?

"Hotwifing and cuckoldry thread number 456" for example..

Just don't make it as banal as the fat one!

I think hotwife and cuckold need to stay in separate threads they are totally different things

In your opinion they're totally different. In my opinion they cross over significantly enough to include both interests. I would also suggest that the number of people interested in cuckolding is greater than that just interested in stag/vixen.

Sorry where do they cross over??

For some cuckolding is simply their wife going out on her own to play with other guys. For some, hotwifing is exactly the same. "

I think you will struggle to find cucks who simply want their wife to play with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just start a long running thread like the fat one?

"Hotwifing and cuckoldry thread number 456" for example..

Just don't make it as banal as the fat one!

I think hotwife and cuckold need to stay in separate threads they are totally different things

In your opinion they're totally different. In my opinion they cross over significantly enough to include both interests. I would also suggest that the number of people interested in cuckolding is greater than that just interested in stag/vixen.

Sorry where do they cross over??

For some cuckolding is simply their wife going out on her own to play with other guys. For some, hotwifing is exactly the same. "

Both of them things are the same.

Cuckolding involves humiliation of the man.

Hot wifing has no humiliation involved.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Why not just start a long running thread like the fat one?

"Hotwifing and cuckoldry thread number 456" for example..

Just don't make it as banal as the fat one!

I think hotwife and cuckold need to stay in separate threads they are totally different things

In your opinion they're totally different. In my opinion they cross over significantly enough to include both interests. I would also suggest that the number of people interested in cuckolding is greater than that just interested in stag/vixen.

Sorry where do they cross over??

For some cuckolding is simply their wife going out on her own to play with other guys. For some, hotwifing is exactly the same.

Both of them things are the same.

Cuckolding involves humiliation of the man.

Hot wifing has no humiliation involved. "

In your opinion it does...

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Maybe if you knew what a cuckold was you'd have a better understanding of the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not just start a long running thread like the fat one?

"Hotwifing and cuckoldry thread number 456" for example..

Just don't make it as banal as the fat one!

I think hotwife and cuckold need to stay in separate threads they are totally different things

In your opinion they're totally different. In my opinion they cross over significantly enough to include both interests. I would also suggest that the number of people interested in cuckolding is greater than that just interested in stag/vixen.

Sorry where do they cross over??

For some cuckolding is simply their wife going out on her own to play with other guys. For some, hotwifing is exactly the same.

Both of them things are the same.

Cuckolding involves humiliation of the man.

Hot wifing has no humiliation involved.

In your opinion it does..."

As soon as you start adding humiliation it’s a cuckold scenario.

You love that sentence “in your opinion”

Think most vixen/stag relationships won’t involve humiliation so no it’s not just our opinion.

Think you should go and do some research or if your not interested in the hotwife kink you should just leave this thread alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if you knew what a cuckold was you'd have a better understanding of the scene. "

Please enlighten everyone

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Maybe if you knew what a cuckold was you'd have a better understanding of the scene.

Please enlighten everyone "

Just use your dictionary.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Why not just start a long running thread like the fat one?

"Hotwifing and cuckoldry thread number 456" for example..

Just don't make it as banal as the fat one!

I think hotwife and cuckold need to stay in separate threads they are totally different things

In your opinion they're totally different. In my opinion they cross over significantly enough to include both interests. I would also suggest that the number of people interested in cuckolding is greater than that just interested in stag/vixen.

Sorry where do they cross over??

For some cuckolding is simply their wife going out on her own to play with other guys. For some, hotwifing is exactly the same.

Both of them things are the same.

Cuckolding involves humiliation of the man.

Hot wifing has no humiliation involved.

In your opinion it does...

As soon as you start adding humiliation it’s a cuckold scenario.

You love that sentence “in your opinion”

Think most vixen/stag relationships won’t involve humiliation so no it’s not just our opinion.

Think you should go and do some research or if your not interested in the hotwife kink you should just leave this thread alone. "

In your opinion a cuckolding situation/relationship involves a degree of humiliation. This is not the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if you knew what a cuckold was you'd have a better understanding of the scene.

Please enlighten everyone

Just use your dictionary. "

Just a snippet from wiki

the cuckold deriving pleasure from being humiliated.

The complete opposite of a stag. I can send you the full link if you want?

Your not even a couple and I think this thread being a hot wife/stag thread is more aimed at couples than single men

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Maybe if you knew what a cuckold was you'd have a better understanding of the scene.

Please enlighten everyone

Just use your dictionary.

Just a snippet from wiki

the cuckold deriving pleasure from being humiliated.

The complete opposite of a stag. I can send you the full link if you want?

Your not even a couple and I think this thread being a hot wife/stag thread is more aimed at couples than single men"

Try a dictionary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe if you knew what a cuckold was you'd have a better understanding of the scene.

Please enlighten everyone

Just use your dictionary.

Just a snippet from wiki

the cuckold deriving pleasure from being humiliated.

The complete opposite of a stag. I can send you the full link if you want?

Your not even a couple and I think this thread being a hot wife/stag thread is more aimed at couples than single men

Try a dictionary. "

Wikipedia is good enough for me has plenty of information

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you just realised your a cuckold is that why your getting upset?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Maybe if you knew what a cuckold was you'd have a better understanding of the scene.

Please enlighten everyone

Just use your dictionary.

Just a snippet from wiki

the cuckold deriving pleasure from being humiliated.

The complete opposite of a stag. I can send you the full link if you want?

Your not even a couple and I think this thread being a hot wife/stag thread is more aimed at couples than single men

Try a dictionary.

Wikipedia is good enough for me has plenty of information "

Yes, i thought it might be.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Have you just realised your a cuckold is that why your getting upset?"

Surely I'd have realised before, what with all the humiliation etc?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"

Your not even a couple and I think this thread being a hot wife/stag thread is more aimed at couples than single men"

Oh... embarrassing...

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"

Your not even a couple and I think this thread being a hot wife/stag thread is more aimed at couples than single men

Oh... embarrassing..."

I know right?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"

Your not even a couple and I think this thread being a hot wife/stag thread is more aimed at couples than single men

Oh... embarrassing..."

Also, don't hot wife couples kind of need single guys by their very definition? If Clem were a single guy of course.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"

Your not even a couple and I think this thread being a hot wife/stag thread is more aimed at couples than single men

Oh... embarrassing...

Also, don't hot wife couples kind of need single guys by their very definition? If Clem were a single guy of course. "

Where's that "applauds" emoji when I need it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Your not even a couple and I think this thread being a hot wife/stag thread is more aimed at couples than single men

Oh... embarrassing...

Also, don't hot wife couples kind of need single guys by their very definition? If Clem were a single guy of course. "

It was written to clem because in my opinion “he likes that word” he trying to justify that a stag and cuck are the same thing and it reads like it’s coming from a couples perspective and he’s not a couple. Unless he is a couple

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"

Your not even a couple and I think this thread being a hot wife/stag thread is more aimed at couples than single men

Oh... embarrassing...

Also, don't hot wife couples kind of need single guys by their very definition? If Clem were a single guy of course.

It was written to clem because in my opinion “he likes that word” he trying to justify that a stag and cuck are the same thing and it reads like it’s coming from a couples perspective and he’s not a couple. Unless he is a couple "

So only couples get to have a view on a practice that has to involve single guys? And Clem can only have a voice if he's part of a couple.

What about me - as a single woman, do I get a voice? Or should I get back in my box too until the couples pronounce their decisions?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"

Your not even a couple and I think this thread being a hot wife/stag thread is more aimed at couples than single men

Oh... embarrassing...

Also, don't hot wife couples kind of need single guys by their very definition? If Clem were a single guy of course.

It was written to clem because in my opinion “he likes that word” he trying to justify that a stag and cuck are the same thing and it reads like it’s coming from a couples perspective and he’s not a couple. Unless he is a couple "

Sounds more to me that "Stags" are desperate to not be labelled cuckold, when in fact they are. Whether there's humiliation involved or not.

Just accept the fact that there is a cross over between cuckolding and hotwifing. It's as simple as that.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"

Your not even a couple and I think this thread being a hot wife/stag thread is more aimed at couples than single men

Oh... embarrassing...

Also, don't hot wife couples kind of need single guys by their very definition? If Clem were a single guy of course.

It was written to clem because in my opinion “he likes that word” he trying to justify that a stag and cuck are the same thing and it reads like it’s coming from a couples perspective and he’s not a couple. Unless he is a couple

So only couples get to have a view on a practice that has to involve single guys? And Clem can only have a voice if he's part of a couple.

What about me - as a single woman, do I get a voice? Or should I get back in my box too until the couples pronounce their decisions? "

It does seem to be a rather exclusive "club". And i don't mean in a good way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Your not even a couple and I think this thread being a hot wife/stag thread is more aimed at couples than single men

Oh... embarrassing...

Also, don't hot wife couples kind of need single guys by their very definition? If Clem were a single guy of course.

It was written to clem because in my opinion “he likes that word” he trying to justify that a stag and cuck are the same thing and it reads like it’s coming from a couples perspective and he’s not a couple. Unless he is a couple

Sounds more to me that "Stags" are desperate to not be labelled cuckold, when in fact they are. Whether there's humiliation involved or not.

Just accept the fact that there is a cross over between cuckolding and hotwifing. It's as simple as that. "

Stags aren’t cuckolds it’s a separate kink.

On that note I’m going to leave you both to enjoy fab and enjoy your chosen lifestyle whatever it is.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"

Your not even a couple and I think this thread being a hot wife/stag thread is more aimed at couples than single men

Oh... embarrassing...

Also, don't hot wife couples kind of need single guys by their very definition? If Clem were a single guy of course.

It was written to clem because in my opinion “he likes that word” he trying to justify that a stag and cuck are the same thing and it reads like it’s coming from a couples perspective and he’s not a couple. Unless he is a couple

Sounds more to me that "Stags" are desperate to not be labelled cuckold, when in fact they are. Whether there's humiliation involved or not.

Just accept the fact that there is a cross over between cuckolding and hotwifing. It's as simple as that.

Stags aren’t cuckolds it’s a separate kink.

On that note I’m going to leave you both to enjoy fab and enjoy your chosen lifestyle whatever it is. "

They sound "delicate". Be careful...

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

So bringing it back on topic and being a bit cheeky - I'm looking for someone to join me and a friend at the moment, get in touch if you might be interested I'm not technically a hot wife but it's still fun...

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"So bringing it back on topic and being a bit cheeky - I'm looking for someone to join me and a friend at the moment, get in touch if you might be interested I'm not technically a hot wife but it's still fun..."
I'd love to chat, if you fancy it do message me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us too. If there’s anyone experienced in the lifestyle, let us know. The wife is an extremely sexy ( I know I’m biased ) and we’ve played in the dynamic for a few years.

Be interested to find somebody local to the East Midlands with a few to arrange something long term.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"

Sounds more to me that "Stags" are desperate to not be labelled cuckold, when in fact they are. Whether there's humiliation involved or not.

Just accept the fact that there is a cross over between cuckolding and hotwifing. It's as simple as that. "

Agree to a point. Every other stag I've spoken with/listened to wants the cuckold tag to be as far away from them as possible, it's something 'we' don't identify with. Primarily we are the decision makers and male led, to what extent it's male led will differ with each couple, in our case I (he) decide when we play and with whom, it's what works for us.

Some hotwife setups of course overlaps into cuckolding and always will. By definition the woman leads/decides, just because there's no humiliation involved doesn't solely make it a hotwife scenario, a couple can identify as cuckold without the humiliation. As in the stag/vixen some couples will be very close to a hotwife set up hence a crossover in the same way as hotwife to cuckold.

Did I mention the stag and vixen couple who switch to cuckold to vary it up a little.....

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By *lirtingentMan
over a year ago

Stroud


"Anyone feel theres a case for a dedicated Hotwife/ Stag forum?

There are many variations to polyamory but this seems to be becoming more and more popular. "

Agree, would be very useful. I am very much into hotwives and think this would be great.

Thanks OP for proposing the idea

M

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

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By *adlyDeeplyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"

Sounds more to me that "Stags" are desperate to not be labelled cuckold, when in fact they are. Whether there's humiliation involved or not.

Just accept the fact that there is a cross over between cuckolding and hotwifing. It's as simple as that.

Agree to a point. Every other stag I've spoken with/listened to wants the cuckold tag to be as far away from them as possible, it's something 'we' don't identify with. Primarily we are the decision makers and male led, to what extent it's male led will differ with each couple, in our case I (he) decide when we play and with whom, it's what works for us.

Some hotwife setups of course overlaps into cuckolding and always will. By definition the woman leads/decides, just because there's no humiliation involved doesn't solely make it a hotwife scenario, a couple can identify as cuckold without the humiliation. As in the stag/vixen some couples will be very close to a hotwife set up hence a crossover in the same way as hotwife to cuckold.

Did I mention the stag and vixen couple who switch to cuckold to vary it up a little..... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stag and cuckolds are a different thing. How hard is that to understand?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Stag and cuckolds are a different thing. How hard is that to understand?"

And sometimes they cross over, it ain't rocket science.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stag and cuckolds are a different thing. How hard is that to understand?

And sometimes they cross over, it ain't rocket science. "

When it crosses over it’s no longer stag/vixen it becomes cuckold!!!

A separate thing.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Stag and cuckolds are a different thing. How hard is that to understand?

And sometimes they cross over, it ain't rocket science.

When it crosses over it’s no longer stag/vixen it becomes cuckold!!!

A separate thing. "

So you've learnt that couples who swing sometimes cross between hotwifing, and cuckolding. Progress at last!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You two need a room?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"You two need a room? "

2 separate rooms clearly...

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By *avesalldaysMan
over a year ago

Reading

Separate forum for that is a great idea. It definitely would make it easier to arrange meets with between people looking for that particular kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree.

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By *rs spicyCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield near centre

That sounds like an excellent idea. Hubby and I would definitely use it. X

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By *s2andthemCouple
over a year ago

Liskeard


"We would be in there all the time "

And us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd enjoy it there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a yes from us something we love x

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By *linkyMalinkyWoman
over a year ago

South Somerset

Yes please! It’s the only thing we’re on here for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A hotwife forum would be great

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By *rnmrs_nottsCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Sounds good to us

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By *tuartsCelloCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Bring it on we love it x

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By *heHotWifeClubWoman
over a year ago

leicester

I already host a party for this

It’s mainly aimed at stag and vixen

I see myself as a Hotwife but no humiliation for my husband at all...... i just like MMF too much and he enjoys watching and joining in

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By *ackieSteveCouple
over a year ago

Newbridge

Make this happen!!!

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By *raleebiMan
over a year ago

tralee

Make it happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love this room to be started. I would never be off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make this happen we would love this x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"

Your not even a couple and I think this thread being a hot wife/stag thread is more aimed at couples than single men

Oh... embarrassing..."

But don't they need single men for stag and vixen? Isn't that the point?? Surely if this is the case it's also aimed at single men too? Sorry if I've added to the confusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,I'm near you and love to have a chat about involving my wife in some cuckold fun and games

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"I already host a party for this

It’s mainly aimed at stag and vixen

I see myself as a Hotwife but no humiliation for my husband at all...... i just like MMF too much and he enjoys watching and joining in "

We would love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count us in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone feel theres a case for a dedicated Hotwife/ Stag forum?

There are many variations to polyamory but this seems to be becoming more and more popular. "

Definately. Theres a huge demand in this area of kink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would like to see a Hotwife / Stag forum. Sounds a great idea!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely! Love this idea - and a chat room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any updates on this happening?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be interested in joining this forum This is more and more the type of fun we enjoy

Hotwife yes. Cuckold no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being deeply involved in the BDSM and kink scene for a long time and speaking to actual stags they are in no way cucks! It's common for the stag to be a Dominant partner and his hot wife is shared by him with other men for pleasure and not humiliation on the Stags end! They normally watch or are involved in the choice of male players and the scene as it plays out. Cucks are specifically in it for the humiliation of seeing a bull fuck their wife/partner better than they can as it gives them pleasure. Neither is a form of polyamoury! Poly involves actual multiple romantic relationships, whereas cucks/stags/hot wives are only normally involved in open sexual activities. And women can be any type to be a hot wife, lots of us bbw are! It's not just the traditionally "hot" girls

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Any updates on this happening? "

Any day now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being deeply involved in the BDSM and kink scene for a long time and speaking to actual stags they are in no way cucks! It's common for the stag to be a Dominant partner and his hot wife is shared by him with other men for pleasure and not humiliation on the Stags end! They normally watch or are involved in the choice of male players and the scene as it plays out. Cucks are specifically in it for the humiliation of seeing a bull fuck their wife/partner better than they can as it gives them pleasure. Neither is a form of polyamoury! Poly involves actual multiple romantic relationships, whereas cucks/stags/hot wives are only normally involved in open sexual activities. And women can be any type to be a hot wife, lots of us bbw are! It's not just the traditionally "hot" girls"

People don’t like being told that cucks are in it for the humiliation on this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being deeply involved in the BDSM and kink scene for a long time and speaking to actual stags they are in no way cucks! It's common for the stag to be a Dominant partner and his hot wife is shared by him with other men for pleasure and not humiliation on the Stags end! They normally watch or are involved in the choice of male players and the scene as it plays out. Cucks are specifically in it for the humiliation of seeing a bull fuck their wife/partner better than they can as it gives them pleasure. Neither is a form of polyamoury! Poly involves actual multiple romantic relationships, whereas cucks/stags/hot wives are only normally involved in open sexual activities. And women can be any type to be a hot wife, lots of us bbw are! It's not just the traditionally "hot" girls"

Refreshing to see someone know what they are talking about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Refreshing to see someone know what they are talking about! "

Thank you! I've learned a lot over the years I've been into BDSM and i research! I have recently had a period of uncertainty re my status. I'm single, have been in monogamous relationships and never cheated. I know that's not who I am any more but I'm not polyamourous. I know I definitely need an open sexual life and that of a submissive hot wife to a Dominant Stag partner when it happens is what I need and crave. I feel deeply for my close sexual partners but I can only truly love one man hense not being poly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would be in there all the time "

Same

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By *uck01Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Anyone feel theres a case for a dedicated Hotwife/ Stag forum?

There are many variations to polyamory but this seems to be becoming more and more popular. "

Definitely, but I would open up to potential "hotewives / cuckolds" theres no real place for likeminded folks, women/men who would like the lifestyle.

Ive tried vanilla dating sites and been vilified for being up front about personal interests,

the so called cuckold sites you pay for are just part of a mass chain of dating sites with fake profiles, baiters and profiles from vanilla sites that have no interest in the lifestyles.

so yes dedicated place for the lifestyle would be useful

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By *nique_GymMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

For me it’s not about labels, I find it incredibly erotic that any woman I am with still wants and desires other men. If I am involved that’s great, watching listening at the door or told about it afterwards. It’s just erotic to me, in threads like this you will always get the ‘label police’ but in my humble opinion any couples who enjoy this are bloody marvellous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed

Fx

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By *ewtoswinging077Couple
over a year ago

by the river

Love to hear of any developments on this thread

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By *oinMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I’ll keep a eye on this one

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

After having 3somes with my wife and best friend - on/off - for nearly 20 yrs we have recently met our 1st 'bull'. In this situation I am currently playing a cuckold role which I find just as exciting as my stag one.

Early days but progressing well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotwife stagnvixenx couple not cuckold..we love the lifestyle x

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Being deeply involved in the BDSM and kink scene for a long time and speaking to actual stags they are in no way cucks! It's common for the stag to be a Dominant partner and his hot wife is shared by him with other men for pleasure and not humiliation on the Stags end! They normally watch or are involved in the choice of male players and the scene as it plays out. Cucks are specifically in it for the humiliation of seeing a bull fuck their wife/partner better than they can as it gives them pleasure. Neither is a form of polyamoury! Poly involves actual multiple romantic relationships, whereas cucks/stags/hot wives are only normally involved in open sexual activities. And women can be any type to be a hot wife, lots of us bbw are! It's not just the traditionally "hot" girls

Refreshing to see someone know what they are talking about! "

2nd that

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