FabSwingers.com forum: Banned words in messages

By *heDesiCandi OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Vancouver

I have just been blocked from sending messages for using a word that is banned - except my message was fairly clean. I had typed “what are your kinks and perversions and are any of them taboo role plays”

Is there a list of words that are banned from use in private messages ?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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There is but Admin have never published the list...at a guess it is the taboo word

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

will be the taboo resend using tab** or similar

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By *heDesiCandi OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Vancouver

The message said click on the back button, edit the message and then send. I closed the tab, opened fabs again, and tried to reply - it had just blocked me without the actual opportunity to change the message

So clearly a flaw in the system - and a list of bad words should be made public.

And if it’s the word taboo, it’s not illegal to use. What if I was writing a message about societal stigma and taboos of being an asian crossdresser in a conversation?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If you published the words, you'd just get people who wanted to write sick messages get around the bans by using similar words or just making $mall changes which wouldn't automatically be picked up.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've been caught out myself and it's annoying, but I'd rather be caught out complaining about disgusting messages (in my case) than further empower those who send them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s funny, I copied above what you put and sent that to myself as a test and it sent!aha.

Unless filter doesn’t apply if you messaged yourself, but who really does?

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By *heDesiCandi OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Vancouver

I hear what you are saying however it isn’t about empowering someone - its about making sure I play as per the rules. The site has rules and I agree to them to use it. I would just like to know the full extent of the rules - the small print - so that I am not blocked again and the person who I am chatting with thinks I have gone off him.

There are other channels to communicate such as kik, WhatsApp if one wanted to take things away from the site - I don’t like to do that. It’s best to keep things that belong here, here.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

On balance I'd still rather receive less sickening illegal immoral crap because the fuckwits get caught out, and get caught out occasionally myself.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"On balance I'd still rather receive less sickening illegal immoral crap because the fuckwits get caught out, and get caught out occasionally myself. "

agree 100% i accidently used a nawty word in a message once but it did allow me to click back and amend! perhaps there is another reason why the OP get blocked for messaging said person

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By *heDesiCandi OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Vancouver

No one likes to receive sickening messages and there are measures to stop that - apart from blocking someone, there are the reporting mechanisms. As you say, sick people will find a way regardless by using punctuation, spaces or numbers. I can’t speak for them but I can from me.

And FYI the block is still on 2hrs later...

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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As the pop up says it normally lasts about two hours.

We have all fallen foul of the rule, I don't know if it is the word tabboo but if you try taking it out when you are allowed to mail it will give you your answer

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