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By *aughty-pair619 OP   Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

Hi, I think it would be a great idea if the site implemented something were if you have someone on your hotlist and they add you to their hotlist that it should notify you as like a match or something? Does anyone think this is a good idea? X

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex


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Hi, I think it would be a great idea if the site implemented something were if you have someone on your hotlist and they add you to their hotlist that it should notify you as like a match or something? Does anyone think this is a good idea? X"

Why doesn't one person just message the other and find out compatability ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would depend on why you have them on your hotlist as some use it as a not list

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


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Hi, I think it would be a great idea if the site implemented something were if you have someone on your hotlist and they add you to their hotlist that it should notify you as like a match or something? Does anyone think this is a good idea? X"

Would be a great feature to have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A tinder style match feature would be great

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By *oshker71Man
over a year ago

Cardiff


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Hi, I think it would be a great idea if the site implemented something were if you have someone on your hotlist and they add you to their hotlist that it should notify you as like a match or something? Does anyone think this is a good idea? X"

Cracking idea I think.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'd like to perv at people out of my league in peace

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By *aughty-pair619 OP   Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool


"I'd like to perv at people out of my league in peace "

No one is out of anyone’s league, we are all perfect in our own pay we just aren’t some people’s preference never think that anyone is better than you are

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

Our hot list is a not list, a match notification would be....awkward

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Our hot list is a not list, a match notification would be....awkward "

This

90% of my hotlist is Notlist!

I'd be mortified, if they thought I actually liked them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our hot list is a not list, a match notification would be....awkward "

Omg yes ... I have few I watch there and definitely not because they are hot!

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I'd like to perv at people out of my league in peace "

No one is out of anyone's league. No one should ever think anyone is so far above them - and absolutely NO ONE should consider themselves too good. Not fancying someone is only about personal taste, plain and simple.

I've been told I was punching above my weight many times in the real world, something that may be true in purely looks, but it's way more than that. I accept on here some would say it has to be about looks first but sometimes a connection develops that transcends that. It happens on here as well as the vanilla world. Vive la difference!

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Its poor that people think others are out of their league. I'm not exactly Zac Efron, am i arsed? Hell no! You're here for a good time not a long one, go forth and shag till you can shag no longer!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I do! But there are some I'm like... I'm not going to embarrass myself. Lol.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

bradford

I use my hotlist to see when people I think are hot post new pictures so I can perv. (not sure if they like that idea, but hey that's fab).

My friends list is for people I chat to regular and have met or will meet.

My 'not' list is called a block list and its full of people who I have no interest in, or are just plain fucking idiots on forums, in chat or both.

and in between there is 99% of fab members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to perv at people out of my league in peace "

So do I, but what happens if they have low self esteem and thinks you're out of their league?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would depend on why you have them on your hotlist as some use it as a not list"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would depend on why you have them on your hotlist as some use it as a not list

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I do

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I also use mine as a not list

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By *esires of HertsCouple
over a year ago

Herts and London Borders

or Avoid List

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

bradford


"I also use mine as a not list "

I bet I am on a lot of 'not' lists !

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I also use mine as a not list

I bet I am on a lot of 'not' lists !"

Nope, not mine

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

bradford


"I also use mine as a not list

I bet I am on a lot of 'not' lists !

Nope, not mine "

I will take that as a positive then; as long as it lasts !

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I also use mine as a not list

I bet I am on a lot of 'not' lists !

Nope, not mine

I will take that as a positive then; as long as it lasts !"

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I also use mine as a not list

I bet I am on a lot of 'not' lists !

Nope, not mine

I will take that as a positive then; as long as it lasts !"

My not list is mainly knobheads in the forums..and if they're really bad, they're on my blocklist

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

bradford


"I also use mine as a not list

I bet I am on a lot of 'not' lists !

Nope, not mine

I will take that as a positive then; as long as it lasts !

My not list is mainly knobheads in the forums..and if they're really bad, they're on my blocklist "

hmm well as yet I am not blocked, I don't think I am a nob head so I think I am safe ! (for now) I would love to know if I was on anyone 'hot' list though.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I also use mine as a not list

I bet I am on a lot of 'not' lists !

Nope, not mine

I will take that as a positive then; as long as it lasts !

My not list is mainly knobheads in the forums..and if they're really bad, they're on my blocklist

hmm well as yet I am not blocked, I don't think I am a nob head so I think I am safe ! (for now) I would love to know if I was on anyone 'hot' list though."

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Definitely a good idea OP.

For those using it as a Not list, just block them and move on ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...My 'not' list is called a block list and its full of people who I have no interest in..."

This. I’m not sure why people are using the hot list as a not list, or how that even works we without a lot of cross referencing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely a good idea OP.

For those using it as a Not list, just block them and move on ffs "

I'd rather be able to know what some people, local to me, are up to thanks ... some information is better knowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...My 'not' list is called a block list and its full of people who I have no interest in...

This. I’m not sure why people are using the hot list as a not list, or how that even works we without a lot of cross referencing. "

Rather see their statuses and veris than not know!

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By *kblokenorthMan
over a year ago

Any

Hotlist matching is a great idea. It works well on other match/dating sites, so why not on a swinging site?

For those using as a not list, we could have a separate not list, then if the “not” is also a match, you may as well block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would depend on why you have them on your hotlist as some use it as a not list"

Be easier to block them surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Hi, I think it would be a great idea if the site implemented something were if you have someone on your hotlist and they add you to their hotlist that it should notify you as like a match or something? Does anyone think this is a good idea? X"

Then every straight man on the site would have every woman hotlisted hoping for a match

(likewise with bi)

No, terrible idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get it. I don't get the point of having a hot list. It's all a bit stalker like. If you like the look of someone why not just message to see if it's mutual? That negates the need for a match. I also don't get not lists. If someone offends you then block them. Why on earth do you need to know what they add to their profile?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get it. I don't get the point of having a hot list. It's all a bit stalker like. If you like the look of someone why not just message to see if it's mutual? That negates the need for a match. I also don't get not lists. If someone offends you then block them. Why on earth do you need to know what they add to their profile?! "

A not list has nothing to do with being offended, it's more about being able to keep an eye on a person who's practices aren't the best lol can't think how to put it politely!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I don't always want to block people, but there may be reasons why some of us use it as a 'not' list. Our choice

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very good idea

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

bradford


"I don't always want to block people, but there may be reasons why some of us use it as a 'not' list. Our choice "

Like everything on fab, each to their own we are all different, and I for one am glad of that (as is everyone else because no one would want to be like me)

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