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By *ristie_K OP   Woman
over a year ago

london

You should be able to select what races you’re interested in Message filters and be able to Put it in you’re ‘Looking for’ section. So you can block those not relevant to you from messaging you

And if you’re bi-sexual sometimes you may have different requirements which apply to men and women. For example you may like your men in older age range and women in younger. But age filters apply to all.

(P.s. having a preference isn’t racism)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use 'advanced search' function, you can choose type of person (Caucasian, Hispanic, etc) and save your search do next time you just click and the search runs. Make several to cover different moods/choices, then it's all there in a click.

Voila!

Mrs

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"You should be able to select what races you’re interested in Message filters and be able to Put it in you’re ‘Looking for’ section. So you can block those not relevant to you from messaging you

And if you’re bi-sexual sometimes you may have different requirements which apply to men and women. For example you may like your men in older age range and women in younger. But age filters apply to all.

(P.s. having a preference isn’t racism)"

Even though the narrative on your profile clearly says black guys only, I bet you still get lots of messages from guys who aren't.

Do you ever get told you're racist because of it? I know a couple who were accused of this because they said no Asian males.

Personal preference is all it is.

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By *ristie_K OP   Woman
over a year ago

london

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By *ristie_K OP   Woman
over a year ago

london


"Use 'advanced search' function, you can choose type of person (Caucasian, Hispanic, etc) and save your search do next time you just click and the search runs. Make several to cover different moods/choices, then it's all there in a click.

Voila!

Mrs"

Thanks for your message x

But I know about this. I mean to physically block people that aren’t your preference on the message filters so you don’t get loads of messages from people your not interested in clogging your inbox x

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By *ristie_K OP   Woman
over a year ago

london


" Even though the narrative on your profile clearly says black guys only, I bet you still get lots of messages from guys who aren't.

Do you ever get told you're racist because of it? I know a couple who were accused of this because they said no Asian males.

Personal preference is all it is.

"

Hi, quite often unfortunately and I’ve had to block numerous of people for attacking me/being outrageously rude because of this. And this was part of the reason I took a break and deleted my old account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You already can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You already can "

You definitely can’t do what they are suggesting

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


" Even though the narrative on your profile clearly says black guys only, I bet you still get lots of messages from guys who aren't.

Do you ever get told you're racist because of it? I know a couple who were accused of this because they said no Asian males.

Personal preference is all it is.

Hi, quite often unfortunately and I’ve had to block numerous of people for attacking me/being outrageously rude because of this. And this was part of the reason I took a break and deleted my old account. "

Well I'm glad you've been able to return. There'll still be lots of sad acts. Nothing we can do about them.

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By *oxy BBWWoman
over a year ago

Home Counties

I agree with you. I state very clearly ‘black men only’ as that is my preference. I get so many abusive messages from white men. Calling me a white slut, that I’ll get aids from sleeping with black men etc etc I would love to be able to filter out white/Asian men contacting me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with you. I state very clearly ‘black men only’ as that is my preference. I get so many abusive messages from white men. Calling me a white slut, that I’ll get aids from sleeping with black men etc etc I would love to be able to filter out white/Asian men contacting me "

With you on this. Just awful. Even has a couple they dismiss my man and send messages to me . So rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with you. I state very clearly ‘black men only’ as that is my preference. I get so many abusive messages from white men. Calling me a white slut, that I’ll get aids from sleeping with black men etc etc I would love to be able to filter out white/Asian men contacting me

With you on this. Just awful. Even has a couple they dismiss my man and send messages to me . So rude "

Don't some couples do that anyway? That's what I experienced on my previous couples profile. I assume they pointed his race out though?

It's not an option I would want personally but then I don't really use fab to meet. Can't really block people in clubs can you ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should be able to select what races you’re interested in Message filters and be able to Put it in you’re ‘Looking for’ section. So you can block those not relevant to you from messaging you

And if you’re bi-sexual sometimes you may have different requirements which apply to men and women. For example you may like your men in older age range and women in younger. But age filters apply to all.

(P.s. having a preference isn’t racism)"

Having a preference can be either prejudicial or not. It can be a matter of racism in general or in race play or not. Each to their own therefore letting people decide who they wish to be contacted by so I'm agreeing with the OP.

Would I miss the list of reasons why I should go with red apples over green apples? No. Just give me what I ask for, avoiding the need for people to be purposefully unpleasant or for me having to be rude by blocking. It's tiresome.

Anyway, here's some of my chucklesome examples:

My step-dad was black

I'm everything you are looking for, just not black.

I wish I was black

Black men don't eat pussy

My dick is just as big

Can I stick this in your black a**?

I've never been with a black woman

I've only slept with black women since the age of 14.

I'll paint myself black, twice.

Those men don't treat you with respect.

Angry black woman

I can come and clean you both up, nothing more.

My nan was from south Africa, does that count?

I can cover my dick in Chocolate

The struggle is real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with you. I state very clearly ‘black men only’ as that is my preference. I get so many abusive messages from white men. Calling me a white slut, that I’ll get aids from sleeping with black men etc etc I would love to be able to filter out white/Asian men contacting me "

Wow what delightful people!!

Hope you report and block.

No-one deserves to be spoken to like that!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should be able to select what races you’re interested in Message filters and be able to Put it in you’re ‘Looking for’ section. So you can block those not relevant to you from messaging you

And if you’re bi-sexual sometimes you may have different requirements which apply to men and women. For example you may like your men in older age range and women in younger. But age filters apply to all.

(P.s. having a preference isn’t racism)

Having a preference can be either prejudicial or not. It can be a matter of racism in general or in race play or not. Each to their own therefore letting people decide who they wish to be contacted by so I'm agreeing with the OP.

Would I miss the list of reasons why I should go with red apples over green apples? No. Just give me what I ask for, avoiding the need for people to be purposefully unpleasant or for me having to be rude by blocking. It's tiresome.

Anyway, here's some of my chucklesome examples:

My step-dad was black

I'm everything you are looking for, just not black.

I wish I was black

Black men don't eat pussy

My dick is just as big

Can I stick this in your black a**?

I've never been with a black woman

I've only slept with black women since the age of 14.

I'll paint myself black, twice.

Those men don't treat you with respect.

Angry black woman

I can come and clean you both up, nothing more.

My nan was from south Africa, does that count?

I can cover my dick in Chocolate

The struggle is real "

Seriously!?!

What the actual f*ck

Some people are just ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean OP. It doesnt help either putting it on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My step dad was black this made me laugh.

Personally I prefer black women and it makes me feel abit sad when I see some are only searching for black men, but there are plenty more fish in the sea and I don't see it being racist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Law of averages applies here as well as in real life as there are far fewer black women on fab then any other combination of colour and sex. I had a great affair with a black woman about 20 years ago and she was wonderful but wouldn't take me home to mum. I wasn’t offended just a bit disappointed that she felt under such pressure not to be with me. I dont think much has changed since then for the age group I am interested in so I have no illusions that its ever likely to happen again but it would be nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Use 'advanced search' function, you can choose type of person (Caucasian, Hispanic, etc) and save your search do next time you just click and the search runs. Make several to cover different moods/choices, then it's all there in a click.

Voila!

Mrs

Thanks for your message x

But I know about this. I mean to physically block people that aren’t your preference on the message filters so you don’t get loads of messages from people your not interested in clogging your inbox x

"

Oh I see, a way of filtering unwanted incoming messages, I misunderstood.

Don't think there is a way other than block, and report when they're abusive.

You don't have to let yourself be messaged by all though, if the abuse or 'pick me' stuff is always single men, exclude them from messaging. You then do the search and approach yourself and you know something of the people you are inviting to respond. More work for you, but will hopefully stop the stuff you don't like.

Hope it improves for you and you get some nice replies.

Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. We do state on our profile the ideal sexual partner for me is BBC. And whenever we write a status, it's always 'BBC only'. Yet the amount of white men messaging telling I'll have just as much of a good time with them is

Especially when the messages are always directed to Stevo about me and never directed to me about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FAB needs a lot of updates in regards to preferences, we've always wondered why we couldn't state the age range for women and men separately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can under the options are in the browse section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank You. That's what I suggested too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You should be able to select what races you’re interested in Message filters and be able to Put it in you’re ‘Looking for’ section. So you can block those not relevant to you from messaging you

And if you’re bi-sexual sometimes you may have different requirements which apply to men and women. For example you may like your men in older age range and women in younger. But age filters apply to all.

(P.s. having a preference isn’t racism)

Having a preference can be either prejudicial or not. It can be a matter of racism in general or in race play or not. Each to their own therefore letting people decide who they wish to be contacted by so I'm agreeing with the OP.

Would I miss the list of reasons why I should go with red apples over green apples? No. Just give me what I ask for, avoiding the need for people to be purposefully unpleasant or for me having to be rude by blocking. It's tiresome.

Anyway, here's some of my chucklesome examples:

My step-dad was black

I'm everything you are looking for, just not black.

I wish I was black

Black men don't eat pussy

My dick is just as big

Can I stick this in your black a**?

I've never been with a black woman

I've only slept with black women since the age of 14.

I'll paint myself black, twice.

Those men don't treat you with respect.

Angry black woman

I can come and clean you both up, nothing more.

My nan was from south Africa, does that count?

I can cover my dick in Chocolate

The struggle is real "

The feels I get this crap but my preference is white males and I always get asked

Why don’t you like black males

Did your daddy hurt you when you were younger

You’re my first ever black girl

Can we do slave role play in which I can call you a n*****

Which puts me off big time. Pretty sure my block list is almost full

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