FabSwingers.com forum: Caning and Spanking Photos

By *rMardyMsGrimm OP Couple
over a year ago

near yonder

A recent incredibly exciting session involved Ms G being caned reasonably hard, leaving some red marks behind. No blood or anything severe and it was built up over some time and culminated in some incredible sex!

This is a very big part of our sexual play and something that excites us both (giving and receiving). There is also an option on Fab to list SM (sadomasochism) as well as spanking as an interest.

The picture rules say that pictures should not show someone being 'hurt' but who decides what that is? We are a consenting, loving couple, who adore impact play and want to share that with others, both in our meets and in our pictures.

How does an interest in SM get reflected in profile photos?

Needle play, blood letting and so forth probably belong on Fetlife, but this is pretty gentle sex play from our perspective. What do others think and where is the line? Is this being decided by someone who does not share or enjoy this type of play? If so, perhaps these decisions should be referred to someone who does or who understands consenting kink. Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless you were tapping lightly the caning isn't gentle sex play.

Its a very particular area of bdsm and isn't for the fainthearted or for everyone, its a specialised field.

I do know what I am talking about as I used to be a ProDomme whose specialist subject was caning.....the number of people that came to me after a break for years because someone had caned far to hard was quite a few.

Caning can hurt alot, thats why they use it as a judicial punishment.

So I can see Fabs point of view. I can also understand that you would want to share this, but its fabs rules here and there is some reasoning and understanding gone into this I think.

Maybe you would be better on fet as well?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Check the pic rules before uploading. If pics break them they won't be passed.

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By *rMardyMsGrimm OP Couple
over a year ago

near yonder

The pic rules state that they should not show someone 'being hurt.' This is a pretty subjective and broad statement. Does having a 9 inch cock in your anus hurt? Well it would hurt me for sure! As a moderator I would therefore decide that this should not be allowed.

A specific rule of no punishment or marks on a bottom from an implement would be clearer. Alternatively have these pictures passed on to someone who plays in this way.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Is this being decided by someone who does not share or enjoy this type of play? "

It is decided by Admin themselves ( the owners ). They have decided what pics should be allowed and tell their pic mods what to approve or reject

If you want to query a pic rejected , leave the pic in your gallery and ask Admin from the CONTACT button to review for you

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

PS caning marks are not allowed. Mods stick to the instructions of what to approve or reject and has nothing to do with what they like or not like sexually

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