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By *hlovers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside & Isle of Man

We fully appreciate that the option to send pics on an auto-delete basis offers people some degree of extra security and assurance that their faces are only visible for a limited amount of time to the recipient (unless they take a screen shot of course which kind of defeats the object) but...............

Can there not be some sort of indicator used to let the recipient know when the sender has sent pics using the auto delete facility?

The issue we have with this as a couple is that if one of us opens the message while the other is at work or out then quite often the pics have gone by the time the other gets an opportunity to look.

This leads to having to request the sender to resend the pics which can feel awkward and leads to doubt on the part of the sender as to whether they are communicating with a genuine committed couple.

With an indicator next to any such pics the recipient would have the option of not opening the message until an appropriate time when both would be able to view the attachment.

Opinions please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just read the message then mark as unread until your other half has read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just read the message then mark as unread until your other half has read it "

Yeah but the pic deletes automatically after message is opened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just read the message then mark as unread until your other half has read it

Yeah but the pic deletes automatically after message is opened"

I thought it deleted after a couple of hours of being opened not instantly?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Just read the message then mark as unread until your other half has read it

Yeah but the pic deletes automatically after message is opened"

I was told by an adminny type person it was 24 hrs so I tend to delete as soon as I've seen the message has been read.

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By *hlovers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside & Isle of Man

It seems to be within a couple of hours of the message first being opened so opening it and marking it as unread is not a solution if your partner is at work on a 8 or 9 hours shift.

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By *hlovers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside & Isle of Man

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By *hlovers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside & Isle of Man


"It seems to be within a couple of hours of the message first being opened so opening it and marking it as unread is not a solution if your partner is at work on a 8 or 9 hours shift."

It's certainly nothing like 24 hours!!!

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By *andaele50Couple
over a year ago

Fcuksville

I had one today and was gone when i reoped the email seconds after opening it and i dont think where online at the time so i thought it was an automatic thing. So onlybone of us saw the pics

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We fully appreciate that the option to send pics on an auto-delete basis offers people some degree of extra security and assurance that their faces are only visible for a limited amount of time to the recipient (unless they take a screen shot of course which kind of defeats the object) but...............

Can there not be some sort of indicator used to let the recipient know when the sender has sent pics using the auto delete facility?

The issue we have with this as a couple is that if one of us opens the message while the other is at work or out then quite often the pics have gone by the time the other gets an opportunity to look.

This leads to having to request the sender to resend the pics which can feel awkward and leads to doubt on the part of the sender as to whether they are communicating with a genuine committed couple.

With an indicator next to any such pics the recipient would have the option of not opening the message until an appropriate time when both would be able to view the attachment.

Opinions please?"

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By *hlovers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside & Isle of Man


"I had one today and was gone when i reoped the email seconds after opening it and i dont think where online at the time so i thought it was an automatic thing. So onlybone of us saw the pics "

That's pretty well what's happening to us too. Just think it would be so much better if we had the option of postponing the opening of a message with a face pic attached to an appropriate time when we could view it together.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I had one today and was gone when i reoped the email seconds after opening it and i dont think where online at the time so i thought it was an automatic thing. So onlybone of us saw the pics

That's pretty well what's happening to us too. Just think it would be so much better if we had the option of postponing the opening of a message with a face pic attached to an appropriate time when we could view it together. "

You do. Don't open it until you are both together if you see the attachment icon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone can send a direct photo and if you don't read it when their online they can delete it on their side

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By *hlovers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside & Isle of Man


"I had one today and was gone when i reoped the email seconds after opening it and i dont think where online at the time so i thought it was an automatic thing. So onlybone of us saw the pics

That's pretty well what's happening to us too. Just think it would be so much better if we had the option of postponing the opening of a message with a face pic attached to an appropriate time when we could view it together.

You do. Don't open it until you are both together if you see the attachment icon. "

Not really a practical solution if you're in the middle of a conversation with a new couple though

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