FabSwingers.com forum: Mutual hotlist

By *hav02 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Would be a good feature to know if two people have added each other to their hotlist - like, a mutual "you've added each other!"

Could be another way to get people on here to break the ice and filter those who like each other??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would be a good feature to know if two people have added each other to their hotlist - like, a mutual "you've added each other!"

Could be another way to get people on here to break the ice and filter those who like each other??"

Totally agree xx

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By *iggerd69Man
over a year ago

wherever you are

This would be a great feature!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It's kind of similar to a mutual wink.

Some people on my hit list are there as I don't have a "not" list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm... We use hotlist as do not touch list. I'm sure we aren't the only ones. Prefer people not to know they're on it...

Mrs

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

Good idea

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

"Erm... We use hotlist as do not touch list. I'm sure we aren't the only ones. Prefer people not to know they're on it...

Mrs "

Why not just block?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would be a good feature to know if two people have added each other to their hotlist - like, a mutual "you've added each other!"

Could be another way to get people on here to break the ice and filter those who like each other??

Totally agree xx"

It's a really GREAT idea. I hope Admin can sort this one out as it would be a very useful and helpful feature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm... We use hotlist as do not touch list. I'm sure we aren't the only ones. Prefer people not to know they're on it...

Mrs

Why not just block?"

We don't like blocking if we don't have to. Prefer having a separate list for those we wouldn't meet.

Mrs

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Erm... We use hotlist as do not touch list. I'm sure we aren't the only ones. Prefer people not to know they're on it...

Mrs

Why not just block?

We don't like blocking if we don't have to. Prefer having a separate list for those we wouldn't meet.

Mrs"

There's also (I don't do this) those who block those who verify their not list. (usually for risky sexual practices)

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By *hav02 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Ok, so maybe a separate "fab a profile" list

.OR.

Admin could create a "hotlist" and "notlist" feature

... obviously only the hotlist creates mutual hotties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok, so maybe a separate "fab a profile" list

.OR.

Admin could create a "hotlist" and "notlist" feature

... obviously only the hotlist creates mutual hotties"

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

How would it work differently from if you have both winked at each other? That is also both showing an interest?

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By *ottie 13Woman
over a year ago

Happy go lucky

Great Idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's a novel idea... why not just message those you like the look of. If they like the look of you they'll respond accordingly. Jeez... some make this place hard work!!!

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

"Here's a novel idea... why not just message those you like the look of. If they like the look of you they'll respond accordingly. Jeez... some make this place hard work!!!"

Or you could msg someone you like and get blocked

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Here's a novel idea... why not just message those you like the look of. If they like the look of you they'll respond accordingly. Jeez... some make this place hard work!!!

Or you could msg someone you like and get blocked

So what good is it keeping them on your hotlist and never messaging them?

I'm on another site that has this feature, it's really no different to a wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Hotlist is purely for the loons/ones to avoid

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Our hotlist is clubs and party profiles . Anyone we liked the look of we have already messaged.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Here's a novel idea... why not just message those you like the look of. If they like the look of you they'll respond accordingly. Jeez... some make this place hard work!!!

Or you could msg someone you like and get blocked

So what good is it keeping them on your hotlist and never messaging them?

I'm on another site that has this feature, it's really no different to a wink. "

Bookmarking for perving.

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Would be great

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Here's a novel idea... why not just message those you like the look of. If they like the look of you they'll respond accordingly. Jeez... some make this place hard work!!!"

You've never been a single man trying to make an introduction have you?

This idea would make the place more simple to establish mutual attraction, not harder work at all.

What a strange viewpoint.

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By *tockton GentMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

On Fabguys I occasionally see an update "You're both on each other's hotlists". So the feature is definitely possible.

I think it would be great to have the same facility. on Fabswingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like this idea too

Mrs P

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"On Fabguys I occasionally see an update "You're both on each other's hotlists". So the feature is definitely possible.

I think it would be great to have the same facility. on Fabswingers."

Agreed.....

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By *itness_FornicatorsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Great idea.

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"My Hotlist is purely for the loons/ones to avoid"
ha ha that's me then lol

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

This seems like a very good idea.

I often add people to my hotlist without mailing or winking as a possible future contact.

When I'm busy I still perv but don't contact until I know I could meet so I don't waste people's time.

Those who use hotlist as notlist- fuck'em. Find another way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t want it tbh

I have a few let’s say promiscuous females on my hot list who like to play unsafe and before you all jump I’m not judging them

It’s each to their own

But I like to keep an eye on who has verified them

And then I block the person who as

Like I have said I’m not judging but I choose not to interact with these guys because it’s pointless as I will never meet them

So it’s easier to block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a superb idea.

As for those who use the hotlist as a 'not list' I agree with some of the others who have commented that surely the better option is to block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm... We use hotlist as do not touch list. I'm sure we aren't the only ones. Prefer people not to know they're on it...

Mrs "

I call that my block list!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's a novel idea... why not just message those you like the look of. If they like the look of you they'll respond accordingly. Jeez... some make this place hard work!!!

Or you could msg someone you like and get blocked

So what good is it keeping them on your hotlist and never messaging them?

I'm on another site that has this feature, it's really no different to a wink. "

Whats the other site?

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"Would be a good feature to know if two people have added each other to their hotlist - like, a mutual "you've added each other!"

Could be another way to get people on here to break the ice and filter those who like each other??"
i thought you said mature hotline

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"Would be a good feature to know if two people have added each other to their hotlist - like, a mutual "you've added each other!"

Could be another way to get people on here to break the ice and filter those who like each other??

Totally agree xx"
i put ladies on my hotlist that are looking younger guys but I fancy them but respect that they want younger,so hotlist times + 2 might make sense

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"On Fabguys I occasionally see an update "You're both on each other's hotlists". So the feature is definitely possible.

I think it would be great to have the same facility. on Fabswingers."
what is fab guys are women on there too ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On Fabguys I occasionally see an update "You're both on each other's hotlists". So the feature is definitely possible.

I think it would be great to have the same facility. on Fabswingers.what is fab guys are women on there too ? "

No it’s for bi men

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

What about using the private notes on the menu section of every profile. Comes in quite handy as you can state the reason why you won't meet those people.

I think a notification stating that you're both on each other's hotlists would be great addition

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By *udewhennudeMan
over a year ago

newport

Would be ok if the function was optional and people have to opt in similar to the look at me function. As has been said there are many reasons why people add others to their hotlist and not always because they want to have anything to do with them, simply because they want to keep an eye on them, there is no alternative to the hotlist for these purposes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being cynical...

(a lot of) men would automatically add everyone within playing distance to their hotlist.

As soon as they got a ping saying mutual hotlisted. The bombardment would begin...

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By *uppeteerMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"Would be a good feature to know if two people have added each other to their hotlist - like, a mutual "you've added each other!"

Could be another way to get people on here to break the ice and filter those who like each other??"

Its a great idea but I dont think anyone (admin) is listening....they’re making enough money as it is so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit like the popular dating apps eh? .. Great idea OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effectively a tinder type formula but could be opt in / out. Don't see any downside if that were the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Erm... We use hotlist as do not touch list. I'm sure we aren't the only ones. Prefer people not to know they're on it...

Mrs

Why not just block?"

Surely that should be a NOT list lol x

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