FabSwingers.com forum: Married in Profile

By *HX6969 OP Man
over a year ago

St Albans

Please add check to identified married people.

Please add check to identify if user would meet married ppl.

Add a filter to include or not include married people or ppl that will meet married people.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

It would need to also be clear that some married people are playing with the full support of their spouse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good idea but then some people would lie about their marital status as there are some on here that won't meet people who are married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single" would be better, to cover people not married but in an ltr.

I agree it's pretty pointless though, liars would still lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In order to stop people constantly changing their status to get round filters, it would have to be an unchangeable choice just like for age...are you happy for that to be the case? Otherwise a filter is impossible just like it is for smokers or bi men...

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Mostly its easy to spot the married guys, wether they lie or not, only meet during the day and not at wk ends,just delete those and you haven't got many liar's left, simple.

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By *HX6969 OP Man
over a year ago

St Albans

Ppl will lie about anything...nothing we could do there

At least this will help us the married guys filter the girl that don't mind meeting us to those that detest us.

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By *HX6969 OP Man
over a year ago

St Albans

"In order to stop people constantly changing their status to get round filters, it would have to be an unchangeable choice just like for age...are you happy for that to be the case? Otherwise a filter is impossible just like it is for smokers or bi men..."

It's a risk, same as location and smokers... Nothing to do there..

But at least it will help looking for girls who will meet married ppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mostly its easy to spot the married guys, wether they lie or not, only meet during the day and not at wk ends,just delete those and you haven't got many liar's left, simple."

Not necessarily the case with all blokes... I'm.single but I see my son on the weekends so my free weekends are limited. I live in army barracks during the week so can meet day or night time during the week but most woman don't feel like coming into army barracks for a meet so I don't put down can accommodate. Doesn't mean I have a secret to hide.

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

"Please add check to identified married people.

Please add check to identify if user would meet married ppl.

Add a filter to include or not include married people or ppl that will meet married people. "

People will just lie about their marital status so it’s pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s an unchangeable choice like age, how would people get on if they get married or divorced.

Instead of having it unchangeable like the date of birth maybe make it that once it is changed, it can’t be changed again for say 2 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Likewise, the chaps who have straight on profile,, and then log into fabguys and see said person with a good few bloke verifications..

Plenty of liars on this site. Eh.

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By *ensualguy70TV/TS
over a year ago

paisley

Best to be honest even if it means less chance of meeting. Im married im bi but hey ho there you go lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s an unchangeable choice like age, how would people get on if they get married or divorced.

Instead of having it unchangeable like the date of birth maybe make it that once it is changed, it can’t be changed again for say 2 weeks. "

exactly my point. In the same way as people give up smoking or sexuality is fluid...give people the option to be able to change it and they will do so to get round filters...

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By *HX6969 OP Man
over a year ago

St Albans

If it’s an unchangeable choice like age, how would people get on if they get married or divorced.

Instead of having it unchangeable like the date of birth maybe make it that once it is changed, it can’t be changed again for say 2 weeks. "

Great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ppl will lie about anything...nothing we could do there

At least this will help us the married guys filter the girl that don't mind meeting us to those that detest us. "

No, « people » won’t lie about anything. But people that lie think everyone lies. Ya got me? Like some guys on, let’s say, Fabguys, are also on fab, where they say they’re straight. That sort of person. They lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Best to be honest even if it means less chance of meeting. Im married im bi but hey ho there you go lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add it to the interests check list and then let us filter according to the check list for like minded kinksters....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

No point OP. People would just lie to get found filters etc, like they do already!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Round

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Some if us just clearly state it in our profile.

Oh how weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mostly its easy to spot the married guys, wether they lie or not, only meet during the day and not at wk ends,just delete those and you haven't got many liar's left, simple."

Interesting that isn't it.

I can't meet evenings or weekends, not because I am married (because I'm not), but because I am a single parent with sole custody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I clearly state I am on my own with children and can't meet at home that doaenit stop people asking to come to my home so no matter what you put in your profile it is ninty percent of the time ignored, which is frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I clearly state I am on my own with children and can't meet at home that doaenit stop people asking to come to my home so no matter what you put in your profile it is ninty percent of the time ignored, which is frustrating "

What I find rather interesting is that nobody questions or wonders if a woman is married if she can't accommodate or can only meet weekdays but if it's a man 'oh he must be married'

Double standards anyone?

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By *HX6969 OP Man
over a year ago

St Albans

"Some if us just clearly state it in our profile.

Oh how weird

This is more to help to filter women that does not like meeting with married guys

So I don't waste my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I find rather interesting is that nobody questions or wonders if a woman is married if she can't accommodate or can only meet weekdays but if it's a man 'oh he must be married'

Double standards anyone?"

Not true I get asked all the time if I am married and some men are not Intrested if they think you are so don't think it is all one sided ...

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

Oh please....does anyone ever believe the profiles they read. Just have fun and enjoy and don't analyse. Fab is great

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

Fem posted by the way

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By *roticaCouple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

So what if someone is married. It is a swinging site not a dating site!

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By *HX6969 OP Man
over a year ago

St Albans

I agree but a lot of ppl give you so much grieve about being married...

Sometimes even very rude....

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By *icegentglosMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I agree but a lot of ppl give you so much grieve about being married...

Sometimes even very rude.... "

They do, sometimes they message just to have a pop. However just be honest about it on profile and don’t message anyone who states they won’t meet married guys. As your previous poster said, it’s a swinging site not a dating site so be patient and enjoy.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"I agree but a lot of ppl give you so much grieve about being married...

Sometimes even very rude.... "

Shame

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By *ADY VOLUPTUOUS OF KENTWoman
over a year ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS

I dnt meet attached..

.My choice...

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By *HX6969 OP Man
over a year ago

St Albans

"I dnt meet attached..

.My choice..."

That is precisely the idea... So you can filter out married.

Granted you might still get liars but at least there is something...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s an unchangeable choice like age, how would people get on if they get married or divorced.

Instead of having it unchangeable like the date of birth maybe make it that once it is changed, it can’t be changed again for say 2 weeks. "

Is Joan Collins on fab?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"So what if someone is married. It is a swinging site not a dating site! "

It matters to the people who don't want to meet cheats, that's why.

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow

"So what if someone is married. It is a swinging site not a dating site!

It matters to the people who don't want to meet cheats, that's why.

Some couples also swing as singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh please....does anyone ever believe the profiles they read. Just have fun and enjoy and don't analyse. Fab is great "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would need to also be clear that some married people are playing with the full support of their spouse.

And most that say they are are lying, how would fab know or approve of that?

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Best to be honest even if it means less chance of meeting. Im married im bi but hey ho there you go lol

I'm honest on mine as well I'm straight but married

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

"Some if us just clearly state it in our profile.

Oh how weird

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

"So what if someone is married. It is a swinging site not a dating site! "

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

"So what if someone is married. It is a swinging site not a dating site!

It matters to the people who don't want to meet cheats, that's why.

Some couples also swing as singles."
totally agree my wife is on other sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what if someone is married. It is a swinging site not a dating site!

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correct answer m8 some people forget that

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"So what if someone is married. It is a swinging site not a dating site!

correct answer m8 some people forget that

And a fair few have got together as a result of being on fab. Most probably as a result of the social side of swinging. Personally I can't abite cheats and want nothing to do with them, so yes it does matter to some of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married and live with my girlfriend. Would that require a button?

Also my girlfriend is happy for me to be with other females without her being their.

These buttons or markers or identification tabs could be used or not. That would seem a waste of time.

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