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By *appyWanderer OP   Man
over a year ago

Croydon

A lot of people have mentioned time wasters, system that are easy to abuse, and rubbish profiles.

What about a point system?

Decent profile +2

Social chat +5

FS verified +2

Webcam verified +5

Club verified +20

Meet verified +30

Too many dick pictures Temporary: -30 points until resolved

Silhouette ie no pic: -20

No verification of any kind: -50

Rude and disgusting messages(with proof for mods): -5

Only verified ladies and couples rate men.

This would enforce good behavior and allow filtering to more serious swingers early on.

(Not sure how to help the bi meets bi part of the site)

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

How would it enforce good behaviour op, and also not be open to abuse?

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By *appyWanderer OP   Man
over a year ago

Croydon

I meet psychologically, much like how the fear of being fined got people into recycle properly in the old days.

Carrot and stick is a very useful tool.

Carrot - higher potential for meets

Stick - No one bothers with you.

If only verified and long standing members of the community can give positive ratings, then no fake accounts can get involved.

Also, negative points would be either automatically or mod applied

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

What about site users who only use the cam rooms or forums, or those that aren’t bothered about being verified but still meet people?

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By *appyWanderer OP   Man
over a year ago

Croydon

Cam and forum users will obtain nice profile, sociable, and helpful points.

The latter is only possible for woman, and couple who the rating system won't really impact unless they are meeting woman or couples.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Far too difficult to implement op, I’ll continue to use my own gut instinct and due dilligence like most, works fine, never been let down by it

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By *appyWanderer OP   Man
over a year ago

Croydon

You are fairly lucky, I have been on this 2 weeks and already had 3 timewasters.

There are plenty of forum posts mentioning being let down, one guy traveled 80 miles to be stood up.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"You are fairly lucky, I have been on this 2 weeks and already had 3 timewasters.

There are plenty of forum posts mentioning being let down, one guy traveled 80 miles to be stood up. "
if you’ve been let down three times op then re consider the people you’re contacting.

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By *appyWanderer OP   Man
over a year ago

Croydon

All 3 were meet verified, it isn't that simple.

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

It would be good to be able to have a better system of identifying genuine users I agree. However it would be near impossible to implement and keep fair. Too many people on here take the huff with people or start personal vandettas if they don’t get their own way so it would just unfortunately be abused

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think this would work because it could be open to waaaaay too much doctoring/abuse etc.

Nice idea but probably not workable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any sort of feedback can be abused..can you imagine all the people that get rejected or their messages not read and deleted and some of the jealousy on here...they would have a field's day ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people have mentioned time wasters, system that are easy to abuse, and rubbish profiles.

What about a point system?

Decent profile +2

Social chat +5

FS verified +2

Webcam verified +5

Club verified +20

Meet verified +30

Too many dick pictures Temporary: -30 points until resolved

Silhouette ie no pic: -20

No verification of any kind: -50

Rude and disgusting messages(with proof for mods): -5

Only verified ladies and couples rate men.

This would enforce good behavior and allow filtering to more serious swingers early on.

(Not sure how to help the bi meets bi part of the site)"
are these points things that would help you to the top of the points table maybe, the fab premiership we could have play/meet leagues

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By *appyWanderer OP   Man
over a year ago

Croydon

The only negative you can give someone is rude or negative messages, which has to be mod verified.

Everything else is positive.

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By *eorge n DragonCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Mods constantly checking messages? Would need an army of them.

Unfortunately sure most have been let down at somepoint verified or not. Just put it down to experiance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why on earth do some people want to over complicate a setup which already is working fine ?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Can't people just... look for the things in your list in the OP that appeal to them? That's what I do. I don't need to count up points. Far too complex and this site shouldn't be about fear and stick.

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By *ndy8goldMan
over a year ago

blackburn

This is supposed to be fun. But in reality wether on fab or in normal life situations it's not perfect.

Take away the positives from it and it'll work. No point lingering on the negatives life's way too short.

It's all about the smile time.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Barring abuse and scams, we're all adults here, and it's up to us to know the risks and judge for ourselves. I hope ratings never come in, as others have said, it'd be abused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Barring abuse and scams, we're all adults here, and it's up to us to know the risks and judge for ourselves. I hope ratings never come in, as others have said, it'd be abused. "

I would agree mass changes would make fab like a police state.

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