FabSwingers.com forum: warnings that only women can see?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How about a system of warning that only women can see?

Pushy bad behaviour etc

Bareback without consent being one of the main ones.

We're all adults here but a lot cannot be trusted and some women wouldn't make official reports to the police for various reasons.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Hmmm for the same reason that other ideas don't work, it'd be open to abuse.

E.g. a woman gets knocked back by a bloke and tags him as whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In principle it's a good idea & I believe everyone here should be able to feel confident in meeting but it could end up being abused & I'm assuming that's what the verification system is for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any rating system or shaming system will just get abused, by bitter folk that have any kind of knock backs on here

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By *mmadforit69Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

We all on here for same thing no excuse for cunty behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not just women get abused, stealthed, stalked or threatened...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"not just women get abused, stealthed, stalked or threatened..."

Very true sadly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In principle it's a good idea & I believe everyone here should be able to feel confident in meeting but it could end up being abused & I'm assuming that's what the verification system is for."

People tend to write glowing verifications. I've compared someone awful to previous good veris from other women. The very bad ones I leave nothing for. It would be more useful if you had no choice in showing them or not. That way good, and truthfull would all be on view.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"In principle it's a good idea & I believe everyone here should be able to feel confident in meeting but it could end up being abused & I'm assuming that's what the verification system is for.

Who would be the judge of how truthful a verification is and how could that be confirmed?

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

"In principle it's a good idea & I believe everyone here should be able to feel confident in meeting but it could end up being abused & I'm assuming that's what the verification system is for.

It's still open to abuse though. Take for example, you and I. I've never spoken to you let alone met you. We exchange a couple of messages, and I turn you down. You could instantly leave a very snotty verification which, in your words, would automatically display on my profile calling me allsorts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i support equal rights- not just rights for women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pushy bad behaviour etc

Bareback without consent being one of the main ones.

Why would only women be concerned about things like that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pushy bad behaviour etc

Bareback without consent being one of the main ones.

Why would only women be concerned about things like that?

True, I stand corrected. Cuts all ways, all genders!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message from Fab saying I’d been reported as an escort. I was disgusted.

A big warning that I will be removed and my services weren’t wanted. I haven’t a clue who or where this came from. I’d love to know what their grounds for this accusation were because they definitely don’t have no right to accuse me when I’m not even meeting. I have one guy from here I’ve been having sex with for the last year.

All I can’t think of was I was talking to one new guy, This guy started sending me very stranges messages after a while so i knocked him back. Maybe he pressed report and they straight away pointed the finger with no evidence. I’ve had sex 5 times this year with one guy. Furious is an understatement.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I got a message from Fab saying I’d been reported as an escort. I was disgusted.

If you feel a mistake has been made contact admin from the CONTACT button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In principle it's a good idea & I believe everyone here should be able to feel confident in meeting but it could end up being abused & I'm assuming that's what the verification system is for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about a system of warning that only women can see?

Pushy bad behaviour etc

Bareback without consent being one of the main ones.

We're all adults here but a lot cannot be trusted and some women wouldn't make official reports to the police for various reasons. "

problem is

what could be pushy for one may not be for the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel? Oh it’s a very big mistake. I did contact them I got no reply so and I posted in the feedback forum and they blocked replies and I still got no answer. I think who ever reported me should have a warning. You can’t just do that because you’ve been knocked back. I really am disgusted.

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset

I do think there needs to be a warning system of sorts, no shows, untrustworthy etc and fully understand the fact it could be open to be abused BUT its not to hard to have a system where say for them who persistently no show u had to submit the messages as proof to admin before some kind of strike system or warning was published?

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By *oroladoMan
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Yes but half the woman on here are guys posing as woman do you not think. For me just get rid of the free part and everyone pays gets rid of the idiots and time wasters

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"I got a message from Fab saying I’d been reported as an escort. I was disgusted.

That's terrible. I always thought that to give you a warning they would need evidence. Apparrently not. So if women are knocking back men and they put in malicious reports they are instantly believed without evidence. No wonder the gender imbalance is getting worse. Surely they would need some proof of guilt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about a system of warning that only women can see?

Pushy bad behaviour etc

Bareback without consent being one of the main ones.

We're all adults here but a lot cannot be trusted and some women wouldn't make official reports to the police for various reasons. "
How about a men only warning that women have been warned against men or that eating haribos rots your teeth

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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago

King's lynn

"I got a message from Fab saying I’d been reported as an escort. I was disgusted.

If you feel a mistake has been made contact admin from the CONTACT button. "

If only they would make CONTACT! If your subs are about to run out then Whoop, there on ya like a rash, ask anything else and all you get is Tumble!!!

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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago

King's lynn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's a timewasters

He's a sex pest

He's a perv

He's not for meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about a system of warning that only women can see?

Pushy bad behaviour etc

Bareback without consent being one of the main ones.

We're all adults here but a lot cannot be trusted and some women wouldn't make official reports to the police for various reasons. "

Thats what word of mouth is for.

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

"i support equal rights- not just rights for women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do think a place where we can name *no shows* would be beneficial...for both men and women....Iv had 2 of those myself in the last week...plus 4 cancellations...cancellations can’t always be helped but there’s no excuse for just not turning up without explanation...

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If admin have serious enough misgivings about a profile, it's probably not safe that the user continues to message and interact - obviously admin have various solutions at their disposal, including banning.

It's probably worth us all being willing to engage with the police etc, where others engage in what is potentially very dangerous/illegal behaviour. Consider always having your meets captured on CCTV as a minimum, so that their identity is more traceable.

Whilst I can see some value from having a warning style system on profiles, some people would continue to create new profiles, so that they'd appear as lower risk. And someone with hundreds of meets behind them, may become a murderer tomorrow, though their profile would potentially engender a sense of security.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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That's terrible. I always thought that to give you a warning they would need evidence. Apparrently not.

They do. They would only issue a warning if there is evidence.

Of course as advised if anyone thinks it is a mistake they could contact Admin who will check and put right if needed.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

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Admin have said they will never have name and shame which is more or less what is being asked for.

If you report a profile that you think isn't suited for the site Admin will look into it and deal with if needed. If you think they have send a warning that they shouldn't have, ask Admin to review for you from the CONTACT button and they will put it right for you if it was wrong

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