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Theres an option for newbies or single men but not for new single men. | |||
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"...button for newbie single men, or would the site close if we had that button?
Theres an option for newbies or single men but not for new single men. "how long are they considered new for ??? | |||
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"Anyone else want this option? We don't want to block all newbies or all single men, just the new single men, at least until they get to know what the site and its members are all about." And how does that work then if everyone has tehm blocked ...for god sake stop the male bashing and give the guys a break dont tar them all with the same brush  we all had to start somewhere | |||
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"Anyone else want this option? We don't want to block all newbies or all single men, just the new single men, at least until they get to know what the site and its members are all about. And how does that work then if everyone has tehm blocked ...for god sake stop the male bashing and give the guys a break dont tar them all with the same brush we all had to start somewhere "I'm with Jacs on this one. Plus, most of the trouble I've had has been from married/attached guys. | |||
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"Anyone else want this option? We don't want to block all newbies or all single men, just the new single men, at least until they get to know what the site and its members are all about. And how does that work then if everyone has tehm blocked ...for god sake stop the male bashing and give the guys a break dont tar them all with the same brush we all had to start somewhere "I'm not bashing all single men. Why should we have to block all new members? or all single men? We have quite a few single men as friends on here as well as new couples. All I asked was, could there be an option for for a filter for new single men. The reason being, we get a lot of unwanted mail from them no matter how we word our profile stating we don't wish to receive mail or meets from them. Is that too much to ask? | |||
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"If your profile states you do not want to meet or get mail from new guys you could always just delete message without reading , last time I checked took all of a cpl seconds to do it "We block the disrespectful people, be them single men, couples or whoever. It was just an enquiry if there could be the option for a filter for new single males. There are numerous posts about the way SOME of them contact people etc. Don't read this wrong, its not slating single men at all, its just a request for a new filter for profiles/messaging. | |||
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"Anyone else want this option? We don't want to block all newbies or all single men, just the new single men, at least until they get to know what the site and its members are all about. And how does that work then if everyone has tehm blocked ...for god sake stop the male bashing and give the guys a break dont tar them all with the same brush we all had to start somewhere
I'm not bashing all single men. Why should we have to block all new members? or all single men?
We have quite a few single men as friends on here as well as new couples.
All I asked was, could there be an option for for a filter for new single men.
The reason being, we get a lot of unwanted mail from them no matter how we word our profile stating we don't wish to receive mail or meets from them.
Is that too much to ask?"how long does it take to delete it
We were all new once...and your comment about learning the ropes is patronizing...just block single men,you clearly have problems with them | |||
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"Anyone else want this option? We don't want to block all newbies or all single men, just the new single men, at least until they get to know what the site and its members are all about. And how does that work then if everyone has tehm blocked ...for god sake stop the male bashing and give the guys a break dont tar them all with the same brush we all had to start somewhere
I'm not bashing all single men. Why should we have to block all new members? or all single men?
We have quite a few single men as friends on here as well as new couples.
All I asked was, could there be an option for for a filter for new single men.
The reason being, we get a lot of unwanted mail from them no matter how we word our profile stating we don't wish to receive mail or meets from them.
Is that too much to ask?"why should you have to block any member unless they have been rude to you?..ur prejudging before even giving the poor guys half a chance  | |||
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"Anyone else want this option? We don't want to block all newbies or all single men, just the new single men, at least until they get to know what the site and its members are all about. And how does that work then if everyone has tehm blocked ...for god sake stop the male bashing and give the guys a break dont tar them all with the same brush we all had to start somewhere
I'm not bashing all single men. Why should we have to block all new members? or all single men?
We have quite a few single men as friends on here as well as new couples.
All I asked was, could there be an option for for a filter for new single men.
The reason being, we get a lot of unwanted mail from them no matter how we word our profile stating we don't wish to receive mail or meets from them.
Is that too much to ask?
why should you have to block any member unless they have been rude to you?..ur prejudging before even giving the poor guys half a chance "Then why have any filters at all? Is that not pre-judging? Or is that personal preference? | |||
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"Anyone else want this option? We don't want to block all newbies or all single men, just the new single men, at least until they get to know what the site and its members are all about. And how does that work then if everyone has tehm blocked ...for god sake stop the male bashing and give the guys a break dont tar them all with the same brush we all had to start somewhere
I'm not bashing all single men. Why should we have to block all new members? or all single men?
We have quite a few single men as friends on here as well as new couples.
All I asked was, could there be an option for for a filter for new single men.
The reason being, we get a lot of unwanted mail from them no matter how we word our profile stating we don't wish to receive mail or meets from them.
Is that too much to ask?
why should you have to block any member unless they have been rude to you?..ur prejudging before even giving the poor guys half a chance
Then why have any filters at all?
Is that not pre-judging? Or is that personal preference?"definatley pre-judging id say how can it be personal preferance when you know not the first thing about the person your blocking ? just rude if you ask me | |||
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"Anyone else want this option? We don't want to block all newbies or all single men, just the new single men, at least until they get to know what the site and its members are all about. And how does that work then if everyone has tehm blocked ...for god sake stop the male bashing and give the guys a break dont tar them all with the same brush we all had to start somewhere
I'm not bashing all single men. Why should we have to block all new members? or all single men?
We have quite a few single men as friends on here as well as new couples.
All I asked was, could there be an option for for a filter for new single men.
The reason being, we get a lot of unwanted mail from them no matter how we word our profile stating we don't wish to receive mail or meets from them.
Is that too much to ask?
why should you have to block any member unless they have been rude to you?..ur prejudging before even giving the poor guys half a chance
Then why have any filters at all?
Is that not pre-judging? Or is that personal preference?
definatley pre-judging id say how can it be personal preferance when you know not the first thing about the person your blocking ? just rude if you ask me "How can you pre-judge the people you chat to? | |||
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"Anyone else want this option? We don't want to block all newbies or all single men, just the new single men, at least until they get to know what the site and its members are all about. And how does that work then if everyone has tehm blocked ...for god sake stop the male bashing and give the guys a break dont tar them all with the same brush we all had to start somewhere
I'm not bashing all single men. Why should we have to block all new members? or all single men?
We have quite a few single men as friends on here as well as new couples.
All I asked was, could there be an option for for a filter for new single men.
The reason being, we get a lot of unwanted mail from them no matter how we word our profile stating we don't wish to receive mail or meets from them.
Is that too much to ask?
why should you have to block any member unless they have been rude to you?..ur prejudging before even giving the poor guys half a chance
Then why have any filters at all?
Is that not pre-judging? Or is that personal preference?
definatley pre-judging id say how can it be personal preferance when you know not the first thing about the person your blocking ? just rude if you ask me
How can you pre-judge the people you chat to?"surly by speaking to people it gives you a feeling of wether they are decent people or not ?by blocking all new single guys how the hell do you know if they are or arnt ..you could be missing out on some of the sweetest decent guys on here but ud never know it because you have them blocked . | |||
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"Anyone else want this option? We don't want to block all newbies or all single men, just the new single men, at least until they get to know what the site and its members are all about. And how does that work then if everyone has tehm blocked ...for god sake stop the male bashing and give the guys a break dont tar them all with the same brush we all had to start somewhere
I'm not bashing all single men. Why should we have to block all new members? or all single men?
We have quite a few single men as friends on here as well as new couples.
All I asked was, could there be an option for for a filter for new single men.
The reason being, we get a lot of unwanted mail from them no matter how we word our profile stating we don't wish to receive mail or meets from them.
Is that too much to ask?
why should you have to block any member unless they have been rude to you?..ur prejudging before even giving the poor guys half a chance
Then why have any filters at all?
Is that not pre-judging? Or is that personal preference?
definatley pre-judging id say how can it be personal preferance when you know not the first thing about the person your blocking ? just rude if you ask me
How can you pre-judge the people you chat to?
surly by speaking to people it gives you a feeling of wether they are decent people or not ?by blocking all new single guys how the hell do you know if they are or arnt ..you could be missing out on some of the sweetest decent guys on here but ud never know it because you have them blocked ."We have no filters set on our profile, we take each person or individual as exactly that, an individual not a specific type. Having looked on our block list, its ALL new single men who have sent messages that were uncouth, ignorant and obviously less than courteous, hence I asked about the filter. I'm not making a big deal out of it, just asked a question and answering the ones being asked. | |||
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"Anyone else want this option? We don't want to block all newbies or all single men, just the new single men, at least until they get to know what the site and its members are all about. And how does that work then if everyone has tehm blocked ...for god sake stop the male bashing and give the guys a break dont tar them all with the same brush we all had to start somewhere
I'm not bashing all single men. Why should we have to block all new members? or all single men?
We have quite a few single men as friends on here as well as new couples.
All I asked was, could there be an option for for a filter for new single men.
The reason being, we get a lot of unwanted mail from them no matter how we word our profile stating we don't wish to receive mail or meets from them.
Is that too much to ask?
why should you have to block any member unless they have been rude to you?..ur prejudging before even giving the poor guys half a chance
Then why have any filters at all?
Is that not pre-judging? Or is that personal preference?
definatley pre-judging id say how can it be personal preferance when you know not the first thing about the person your blocking ? just rude if you ask me
How can you pre-judge the people you chat to?
surly by speaking to people it gives you a feeling of wether they are decent people or not ?by blocking all new single guys how the hell do you know if they are or arnt ..you could be missing out on some of the sweetest decent guys on here but ud never know it because you have them blocked .
We have no filters set on our profile, we take each person or individual as exactly that, an individual not a specific type.
Having looked on our block list, its ALL new single men who have sent messages that were uncouth, ignorant and obviously less than courteous, hence I asked about the filter.
I'm not making a big deal out of it, just asked a question and answering the ones being asked."yes i understand that we all have preferances if you dont want to meet bi ppl then block or ppl of a certain age then block thats your preferances but i just feel to ask for a filter to block newbie guys is out of order and not fair on all new guys being tarred by the same brush just because you've had problems in the past ..what happend to the caring welcoming community on fab where all newbies where once made welcome now from the forum posts ive seen recently that is definatley not always the case and thats pretty sad my last word on this post is :TREAT PEOPLE WELL.... RESPECT DIFFRENCE...... HAVE RESPECT FOR ALL NOT JUST THE CHOOSEN FEW ......FORGIVE WRONGS AND JUDGE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU DO OTHERS....... | |||
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"Anyone else want this option? We don't want to block all newbies or all single men, just the new single men, at least until they get to know what the site and its members are all about. And how does that work then if everyone has tehm blocked ...for god sake stop the male bashing and give the guys a break dont tar them all with the same brush we all had to start somewhere
I'm not bashing all single men. Why should we have to block all new members? or all single men?
We have quite a few single men as friends on here as well as new couples.
All I asked was, could there be an option for for a filter for new single men.
The reason being, we get a lot of unwanted mail from them no matter how we word our profile stating we don't wish to receive mail or meets from them.
Is that too much to ask?
why should you have to block any member unless they have been rude to you?..ur prejudging before even giving the poor guys half a chance
Then why have any filters at all?
Is that not pre-judging? Or is that personal preference?
definatley pre-judging id say how can it be personal preferance when you know not the first thing about the person your blocking ? just rude if you ask me
How can you pre-judge the people you chat to?
surly by speaking to people it gives you a feeling of wether they are decent people or not ?by blocking all new single guys how the hell do you know if they are or arnt ..you could be missing out on some of the sweetest decent guys on here but ud never know it because you have them blocked .
We have no filters set on our profile, we take each person or individual as exactly that, an individual not a specific type.
Having looked on our block list, its ALL new single men who have sent messages that were uncouth, ignorant and obviously less than courteous, hence I asked about the filter.
I'm not making a big deal out of it, just asked a question and answering the ones being asked.
yes i understand that we all have preferances if you dont want to meet bi ppl then block or ppl of a certain age then block thats your preferances but i just feel to ask for a filter to block newbie guys is out of order and not fair on all new guys being tarred by the same brush just because you've had problems in the past ..what happend to the caring welcoming community on fab where all newbies where once made welcome now from the forum posts ive seen recently that is definatley not always the case and thats pretty sad my last word on this post is :TREAT PEOPLE WELL.... RESPECT DIFFRENCE...... HAVE RESPECT FOR ALL NOT JUST THE CHOOSEN FEW ......FORGIVE WRONGS AND JUDGE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU DO OTHERS....... "You've just contradicted yourself about blocking people, isn't that pre-judging? Block if they are bi etc etc. Respect difference? I have a different view to you and you are judging me. Forgive wrongs, if you think I'm wrong, forgive me! Judge yourself before you judge others? Take a leaf out of your own book | |||
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"Anyone else want this option? We don't want to block all newbies or all single men, just the new single men, at least until they get to know what the site and its members are all about. And how does that work then if everyone has tehm blocked ...for god sake stop the male bashing and give the guys a break dont tar them all with the same brush we all had to start somewhere
I'm not bashing all single men. Why should we have to block all new members? or all single men?
We have quite a few single men as friends on here as well as new couples.
All I asked was, could there be an option for for a filter for new single men.
The reason being, we get a lot of unwanted mail from them no matter how we word our profile stating we don't wish to receive mail or meets from them.
Is that too much to ask?
why should you have to block any member unless they have been rude to you?..ur prejudging before even giving the poor guys half a chance
Then why have any filters at all?
Is that not pre-judging? Or is that personal preference?
definatley pre-judging id say how can it be personal preferance when you know not the first thing about the person your blocking ? just rude if you ask me
How can you pre-judge the people you chat to?
surly by speaking to people it gives you a feeling of wether they are decent people or not ?by blocking all new single guys how the hell do you know if they are or arnt ..you could be missing out on some of the sweetest decent guys on here but ud never know it because you have them blocked .
We have no filters set on our profile, we take each person or individual as exactly that, an individual not a specific type.
Having looked on our block list, its ALL new single men who have sent messages that were uncouth, ignorant and obviously less than courteous, hence I asked about the filter.
I'm not making a big deal out of it, just asked a question and answering the ones being asked.
yes i understand that we all have preferances if you dont want to meet bi ppl then block or ppl of a certain age then block thats your preferances but i just feel to ask for a filter to block newbie guys is out of order and not fair on all new guys being tarred by the same brush just because you've had problems in the past ..what happend to the caring welcoming community on fab where all newbies where once made welcome now from the forum posts ive seen recently that is definatley not always the case and thats pretty sad my last word on this post is :TREAT PEOPLE WELL.... RESPECT DIFFRENCE...... HAVE RESPECT FOR ALL NOT JUST THE CHOOSEN FEW ......FORGIVE WRONGS AND JUDGE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU DO OTHERS.......
You've just contradicted yourself about blocking people, isn't that pre-judging?
Block if they are bi etc etc.
Respect difference? I have a different view to you and you are judging me.
Forgive wrongs, if you think I'm wrong, forgive me!
Judge yourself before you judge others? Take a leaf out of your own book "But i wasnt talking about myself tho was i   goodnite | |||
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"Anyone else want this option? We don't want to block all newbies or all single men, just the new single men, at least until they get to know what the site and its members are all about. And how does that work then if everyone has tehm blocked ...for god sake stop the male bashing and give the guys a break dont tar them all with the same brush we all had to start somewhere
I'm not bashing all single men. Why should we have to block all new members? or all single men?
We have quite a few single men as friends on here as well as new couples.
All I asked was, could there be an option for for a filter for new single men.
The reason being, we get a lot of unwanted mail from them no matter how we word our profile stating we don't wish to receive mail or meets from them.
Is that too much to ask?
why should you have to block any member unless they have been rude to you?..ur prejudging before even giving the poor guys half a chance
Then why have any filters at all?
Is that not pre-judging? Or is that personal preference?
definatley pre-judging id say how can it be personal preferance when you know not the first thing about the person your blocking ? just rude if you ask me
How can you pre-judge the people you chat to?
surly by speaking to people it gives you a feeling of wether they are decent people or not ?by blocking all new single guys how the hell do you know if they are or arnt ..you could be missing out on some of the sweetest decent guys on here but ud never know it because you have them blocked .
We have no filters set on our profile, we take each person or individual as exactly that, an individual not a specific type.
Having looked on our block list, its ALL new single men who have sent messages that were uncouth, ignorant and obviously less than courteous, hence I asked about the filter.
I'm not making a big deal out of it, just asked a question and answering the ones being asked.
yes i understand that we all have preferances if you dont want to meet bi ppl then block or ppl of a certain age then block thats your preferances but i just feel to ask for a filter to block newbie guys is out of order and not fair on all new guys being tarred by the same brush just because you've had problems in the past ..what happend to the caring welcoming community on fab where all newbies where once made welcome now from the forum posts ive seen recently that is definatley not always the case and thats pretty sad my last word on this post is :TREAT PEOPLE WELL.... RESPECT DIFFRENCE...... HAVE RESPECT FOR ALL NOT JUST THE CHOOSEN FEW ......FORGIVE WRONGS AND JUDGE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU DO OTHERS.......
You've just contradicted yourself about blocking people, isn't that pre-judging?
Block if they are bi etc etc.
Respect difference? I have a different view to you and you are judging me.
Forgive wrongs, if you think I'm wrong, forgive me!
Judge yourself before you judge others? Take a leaf out of your own book
But i wasnt talking about myself tho was i goodnite "Night night sleep tight | |||
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"Anyone else want this option? We don't want to block all newbies or all single men, just the new single men, at least until they get to know what the site and its members are all about. And how does that work then if everyone has tehm blocked ...for god sake stop the male bashing and give the guys a break dont tar them all with the same brush we all had to start somewhere
I'm with Jacs on this one. Plus, most of the trouble I've had has been from married/attached guys. "+2 on this i like ma single lads old or new makes no diff we were all new at some point an had to be told the ropes an rules so come on gie the lads a go eh x you dont want them u mail the ones you like then they can mail you other than that you block what ye like but im thinkin of blockin couples as i get more crap fae them than single blokes lol  | |||
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"God almighty! The clique are at it again 
"clique or adults who dont expect the site to organise their sex lives...
Perhaps at some point you just need to accept others cope with things that cause you to start threads...no clique,just people who see the site,and swinging for what they are...
oh,and i think the bdsm fuck slut who frequently offends is the last person who would be accepted into any clique | |||
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"God almighty! The clique are at it again
clique or adults who dont expect the site to organise their sex lives...
Perhaps at some point you just need to accept others cope with things that cause you to start threads...no clique,just people who see the site,and swinging for what they are...
oh,and i think the bdsm fuck slut who frequently offends is the last person who would be accepted into any clique "??? | |||
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"God almighty! The clique are at it again
clique or adults who dont expect the site to organise their sex lives...
Perhaps at some point you just need to accept others cope with things that cause you to start threads...no clique,just people who see the site,and swinging for what they are...
oh,and i think the bdsm fuck slut who frequently offends is the last person who would be accepted into any clique
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What people do with there account and how they choose to run them is up to them and to be frank is no one else's business.
The OP was asking about a new block option that they would find useful, what they didn't ask for was to be attacked.
Everyone uses whatever options on fabs that they find useful, we don't all use the same ones. If the OP does not want new single men contacting them then that is up to them, and that is there right! who are we to tell them what is a right or wrong way to use there profile.
We have all new people blocked on our profile because that is OUR choice as we have the most trouble or unwanted attention from newbies, will we be missing out on some nice people? yes, but that is our choice to make no one else's.
So how about everyone butt's out of other peoples business that does not concern or effect them
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"God almighty! The clique are at it again
"Am so glad I just answered the OP's question whilst the kettle was boiling and therefore didn't read any of the comments | |||
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There really is no need to be so personal when posting over a filter request.
I know it isn't what you are asking for but this is what is available for now at least and you can use your filters to block newbies. You will find them here.
http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters | |||
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"Do you know what I don't get? Everybody's fascination about how other people use there accounts.
What people do with there account and how they choose to run them is up to them and to be frank is no one else's business.
The OP was asking about a new block option that they would find useful, what they didn't ask for was to be attacked.
Everyone uses whatever options on fabs that they find useful, we don't all use the same ones. If the OP does not want new single men contacting them then that is up to them, and that is there right! who are we to tell them what is a right or wrong way to use there profile.
We have all new people blocked on our profile because that is OUR choice as we have the most trouble or unwanted attention from newbies, will we be missing out on some nice people? yes, but that is our choice to make no one else's.
So how about everyone butt's out of other peoples business that does not concern or effect them
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