FabSwingers.com forum: Time waster list

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can admin not do a time waster/no show list and if after people get so many hits from users then they get suspended by admin clearly if they give a good reason they wouldn’t be added to the list anyway!

There are far to many time wasters and no shows happening

We need something to warn others that a person isn’t genuine

Please please please can something be done?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Definitely not.

Too open to abuse.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

No way. As above

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Admin could make it so you couldn’t keep selecting same person yourself it would be a once only then if others had problems with that person they could add only once and so on

It wouldn’t be open to abuse by one individual then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a great idea in principle, there are far too many fakes and timewasters on this site, unfortunately I have lots of experience of this, I agree it would be open to abuse

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

"Can admin not do a time waster/no show list and if after people get so many hits from users then they get suspended by admin clearly if they give a good reason they wouldn’t be added to the list anyway!

There are far to many time wasters and no shows happening

We need something to warn others that a person isn’t genuine

Please please please can something be done?

You could always start your own private list and share with people you know are genuine, they can do the same

Wouldn’t be long before the area is far wider than your local area. Everyone adding their mistakes to the list

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

already share the info with other singles I know

just thought it would be good for all to access but clearly there needs to be guidelines used or it would be open to abuse

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Admin could make it so you couldn’t keep selecting same person yourself it would be a once only then if others had problems with that person they could add only once and so on

It wouldn’t be open to abuse by one individual then "

1 how will admin know if the report is genuine, or simply calling someone a time waster or fake purely because they didn't want to meet?

2 how will admin be able to administer the system when they are all part time volunteers working for free in their own time?

Happy to see your answers.....

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

already share the info with other singles I know

just thought it would be good for all to access but clearly there needs to be guidelines used or it would be open to abuse "

What's to stop us putting you on the list, and then getting all our friends to do the same?

Any system like your "List" is open to abuse.

We haven't been stood up or let down once in nearly 10 years, because we take time to make sure anyone we meet is genuine.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

already share the info with other singles I know

just thought it would be good for all to access but clearly there needs to be guidelines used or it would be open to abuse

What's to stop us putting you on the list, and then getting all our friends to do the same?

Any system like your "List" is open to abuse.

We haven't been stood up or let down once in nearly 10 years, because we take time to make sure anyone we meet is genuine.

I'm willing to bet you don't rush into meets, use your common sense and due diligence.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

Nothing is failsafe unless you have the perfect system in place, our system works for us but isn’t perfect.

We never get let down that’s a guarantee but we don’t always have fun on an evening out.

Just need to find a system that works for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admin have no responsibiity for who you choose to make private arrangements with. They simply provide an outlet whereby like-minded folks can share their interests. It is not up to Admin to police your choices of potential playfriends - that's YOUR job.

If you are getting repeated issues with no-shows etc - then you need to look at your own filtering system.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Admin have no responsibiity for who you choose to make private arrangements with. They simply provide an outlet whereby like-minded folks can share their interests. It is not up to Admin to police your choices of potential playfriends - that's YOUR job.

If you are getting repeated issues with no-shows etc - then you need to look at your own filtering system.

Nailed it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea and then there will be less users and more genuine ones and fab would be so much better

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

If you are getting repeated issues with no-shows etc - then you need to look at your own filtering system.

Nailed it."
this should be an answer on the site FAQ’s when people moan about timewasters/fakes. Great response btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are far to many time wasters and no shows happening

We need something to warn others that a person isn’t genuine

Please please please can something be done?

Definitely something we'd like to see and can only be good for the health of the site.

The brainwashed 'open to abuse' line is just bollocks. Allowing some people to set up accounts is open to abuse.

Do Ebay, Amazon etc not allow negative feedback because it would be open to abuse?

You can leave negative feedback on clubs on here which enables members to make their choice.

Nothing progressive will ever be done though as the bottom line, as ever, is money. The wasters are good earners for the site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are getting repeated issues with no-shows etc - then you need to look at your own filtering system.

So why is there an option to report no-shows?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

There are far to many time wasters and no shows happening

We need something to warn others that a person isn’t genuine

Please please please can something be done?

Definitely something we'd like to see and can only be good for the health of the site.

The brainwashed 'open to abuse' line is just bollocks. Allowing some people to set up accounts is open to abuse.

Do Ebay, Amazon etc not allow negative feedback because it would be open to abuse?

You can leave negative feedback on clubs on here which enables members to make their choice.

Nothing progressive will ever be done though as the bottom line, as ever, is money. The wasters are good earners for the site..."

I had a meet organised with this couple.

Only the male turned up, said his wife had to leave town in an emergency.

Asked if I'd be OK with him sucking my cock instead.

Absolute timewasters. I reckon it's not really a couple, just a bloke tossing himself off.

None of this is true of course, but once it's been said.......

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

If you are getting repeated issues with no-shows etc - then you need to look at your own filtering system.

Nailed it. this should be an answer on the site FAQ’s when people moan about timewasters/fakes. Great response btw

I'm going to copy and paste it into every single one of these threads from now on.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are far to many time wasters and no shows happening

We need something to warn others that a person isn’t genuine

Please please please can something be done?

Definitely something we'd like to see and can only be good for the health of the site.

The brainwashed 'open to abuse' line is just bollocks. Allowing some people to set up accounts is open to abuse.

Do Ebay, Amazon etc not allow negative feedback because it would be open to abuse?

You can leave negative feedback on clubs on here which enables members to make their choice.

Nothing progressive will ever be done though as the bottom line, as ever, is money. The wasters are good earners for the site...

I had a meet organised with this couple.

Only the male turned up, said his wife had to leave town in an emergency.

Asked if I'd be OK with him sucking my cock instead.

Absolute timewasters. I reckon it's not really a couple, just a bloke tossing himself off.

None of this is true of course, but once it's been said.......

To be fair they couldn't be labelled 'absolute timewasters' as one of them turned up! So your point is groundless.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

Trouble is, new people to the site will be put off and potentially leave due to time wasters.

Time wasters win, genuine folk loose.

There’s no easy fix to the issue.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

There are far to many time wasters and no shows happening

We need something to warn others that a person isn’t genuine

Please please please can something be done?

Definitely something we'd like to see and can only be good for the health of the site.

The brainwashed 'open to abuse' line is just bollocks. Allowing some people to set up accounts is open to abuse.

Do Ebay, Amazon etc not allow negative feedback because it would be open to abuse?

You can leave negative feedback on clubs on here which enables members to make their choice.

Nothing progressive will ever be done though as the bottom line, as ever, is money. The wasters are good earners for the site...

I had a meet organised with this couple.

Only the male turned up, said his wife had to leave town in an emergency.

Asked if I'd be OK with him sucking my cock instead.

Absolute timewasters. I reckon it's not really a couple, just a bloke tossing himself off.

None of this is true of course, but once it's been said.......

To be fair they couldn't be labelled 'absolute timewasters' as one of them turned up! So your point is groundless."

I think you get my point though....

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Admin said they will never have a name and shame lost. I will paste onto the next post what Admin say they do with reports. They work very hard to get rid of unsuitable people.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

Your feedback has been saved.

A website admin will shortly review your feedback and take the necessary action. After reviewing the evidence available to us, we may disable an account, remove a user, disable certain aspects of that user's account or issue a warning.

By leaving feedback you help improve the site for everyone who uses it. Thank you.******

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