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"Hi Admin, Daily I see "Dating" posts in the "The Lounge" Message Boards. I reckon that a new message board could be made where dating threads could be. Alternatively, I reckon you can add an area on the "Looking for...' page where you can choose you are open to dating. Then people can search for that. You could also add in Looking for FB, FWB, Club Partner, Life Partner, Something Short Term, Something Long Term, NSA Fun and One Night Stand. I'm trying to find a fella interested in dating and it would make life easier instead of reading loads of profiles. Thank you, J x" Second this ![]() | |||
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"I'm not looking to sound like a bitch but please no to this. This is meant to be a swinging site not a dating site. " Its surly is easier for a swinger that has become single to find a new swinging partner on here ? | |||
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"I'm not looking to sound like a bitch but please no to this. This is meant to be a swinging site not a dating site. Its surly is easier for a swinger that has become single to find a new swinging partner on here ?" Perhaps, but I would imagine most single profiles on here aren't former swinging couples. The site is already bad enough with people joining it with the totaly wrong idea of what the site is about. | |||
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"I'm not looking to sound like a bitch but please no to this. This is meant to be a swinging site not a dating site. Its surly is easier for a swinger that has become single to find a new swinging partner on here ? Perhaps, but I would imagine most single profiles on here aren't former swinging couples. The site is already bad enough with people joining it with the totaly wrong idea of what the site is about. " So using your previous comment you think that because of some non genuine swingers the genuine ones should suffer too? Thats life !! | |||
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"Hi Admin, Daily I see "Dating" posts in the "The Lounge" Message Boards. I reckon that a new message board could be made where dating threads could be. Alternatively, I reckon you can add an area on the "Looking for...' page where you can choose you are open to dating. Then people can search for that. You could also add in Looking for FB, FWB, Club Partner, Life Partner, Something Short Term, Something Long Term, NSA Fun and One Night Stand. I'm trying to find a fella interested in dating and it would make life easier instead of reading loads of profiles. Thank you, J x" Great idea ![]() | |||
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"Hi Admin, Daily I see "Dating" posts in the "The Lounge" Message Boards. I reckon that a new message board could be made where dating threads could be. Alternatively, I reckon you can add an area on the "Looking for...' page where you can choose you are open to dating. Then people can search for that. You could also add in Looking for FB, FWB, Club Partner, Life Partner, Something Short Term, Something Long Term, NSA Fun and One Night Stand. I'm trying to find a fella interested in dating and it would make life easier instead of reading loads of profiles. Thank you, J x" This ![]() | |||
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"I'm not looking to sound like a bitch but please no to this. This is meant to be a swinging site not a dating site. Its surly is easier for a swinger that has become single to find a new swinging partner on here ? Perhaps, but I would imagine most single profiles on here aren't former swinging couples. The site is already bad enough with people joining it with the totaly wrong idea of what the site is about. " Where else are we meant to find people who want a relationship within the lifestyle? It's alright for you, you're already a couple. I don't get why couples are against it. We get told often enough that singles can't be swingers so we try to find a partner that likes swinging but then get told that's not what this sure is for! | |||
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"I'm not looking to sound like a bitch but please no to this. This is meant to be a swinging site not a dating site. Its surly is easier for a swinger that has become single to find a new swinging partner on here ? Perhaps, but I would imagine most single profiles on here aren't former swinging couples. The site is already bad enough with people joining it with the totaly wrong idea of what the site is about. Where else are we meant to find people who want a relationship within the lifestyle? It's alright for you, you're already a couple. I don't get why couples are against it. We get told often enough that singles can't be swingers so we try to find a partner that likes swinging but then get told that's not what this sure is for! " ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm not looking to sound like a bitch but please no to this. This is meant to be a swinging site not a dating site. " It wouldn’t impact you and I find it quite selfish coming from a person that’s already part of a couple. I would like to find my future swinging partner so I would love this idea. | |||
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"I'm not looking to sound like a bitch but please no to this. This is meant to be a swinging site not a dating site. Its surly is easier for a swinger that has become single to find a new swinging partner on here ? Perhaps, but I would imagine most single profiles on here aren't former swinging couples. The site is already bad enough with people joining it with the totaly wrong idea of what the site is about. Where else are we meant to find people who want a relationship within the lifestyle? It's alright for you, you're already a couple. I don't get why couples are against it. We get told often enough that singles can't be swingers so we try to find a partner that likes swinging but then get told that's not what this sure is for! " ![]() | |||
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"I'm not looking to sound like a bitch but please no to this. This is meant to be a swinging site not a dating site. " They’re not mutually exclusive, it can be both. | |||
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"I’m all for this as a single guy I agree finding a partner who is into the scene as well would make things a whole lot easier. Would it work I’d dating was added as a option of interests on your profile ? " That would aswell so you can search for "Dating" profiles. ![]() | |||
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"I want to find a partner who likes going to swinging clubs and wants threesomes and wants to experiment. They would need to be OK with me potentially exploring the HotWife scenario aswell... As a single person I have done Vanilla dating and had a few really good relationships...but I want to find someone on my sexual level. If I went on a Vanilla date; how many dates do you leave it before you tell them your sexual desires? They may just run a mile. At least on here you can truly be yourself. I have met couples recently who met on FAB and they are so happy! Even met one this weekend! I did have a 2 month relationship from here aswell. I see everyday on the Forums threads matchmaking each other so there is a definite call for it. Or maybe Fab could make a separate site called FabDating? J x" ![]() | |||
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"Hi Admin, Daily I see "Dating" posts in the "The Lounge" Message Boards. I reckon that a new message board could be made where dating threads could be. Alternatively, I reckon you can add an area on the "Looking for...' page where you can choose you are open to dating. Then people can search for that. You could also add in Looking for FB, FWB, Club Partner, Life Partner, Something Short Term, Something Long Term, NSA Fun and One Night Stand. I'm trying to find a fella interested in dating and it would make life easier instead of reading loads of profiles. Thank you, J x" just no! | |||
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"I'm not looking to sound like a bitch but please no to this. This is meant to be a swinging site not a dating site. It wouldn’t impact you and I find it quite selfish coming from a person that’s already part of a couple. I would like to find my future swinging partner so I would love this idea. " ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Personally I think it's a great idea. If u meet someone on here to date then they are accepting of this life style whereas a " vanilla " partner is less accepting, Just saying" For Sure x | |||
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"Hi Admin, Daily I see "Dating" posts in the "The Lounge" Message Boards. I reckon that a new message board could be made where dating threads could be. Alternatively, I reckon you can add an area on the "Looking for...' page where you can choose you are open to dating. Then people can search for that. You could also add in Looking for FB, FWB, Club Partner, Life Partner, Something Short Term, Something Long Term, NSA Fun and One Night Stand. I'm trying to find a fella interested in dating and it would make life easier instead of reading loads of profiles. Thank you, J x" Great idea. | |||
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"Hi Admin, Daily I see "Dating" posts in the "The Lounge" Message Boards. I reckon that a new message board could be made where dating threads could be. Alternatively, I reckon you can add an area on the "Looking for...' page where you can choose you are open to dating. Then people can search for that. You could also add in Looking for FB, FWB, Club Partner, Life Partner, Something Short Term, Something Long Term, NSA Fun and One Night Stand. I'm trying to find a fella interested in dating and it would make life easier instead of reading loads of profiles. Thank you, J x" | |||
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"We see both sides of the argument (which it has almost degenerated into), whilst it may be quite useful it will also attract the people who want a dating site. Having been slated and abused on another thread for suggesting that non swingers using this site purely as a chat site are sad (we are sure there are plenty of other 'chat only' sites available), to then open it up as 'fab dating' would bring even more people who aren't swingers into the mix. If it was only genuine swingers allowed on the site then we would say yes, unfortunately this could never be properly governed so we will say 'please don't as there are enough non swingers on here already'. " What did you do before you were a couple? | |||
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"I'm not looking to sound like a bitch but please no to this. This is meant to be a swinging site not a dating site. Its surly is easier for a swinger that has become single to find a new swinging partner on here ? Perhaps, but I would imagine most single profiles on here aren't former swinging couples. The site is already bad enough with people joining it with the totaly wrong idea of what the site is about. Where else are we meant to find people who want a relationship within the lifestyle? It's alright for you, you're already a couple. I don't get why couples are against it. We get told often enough that singles can't be swingers so we try to find a partner that likes swinging but then get told that's not what this sure is for! " 100% with you on that. Most if not all of the clubs within a 75 mile radius of where I live categorically state 'no single men' - I understand why it's bad if there's too many of us or we're badly behaved, but how otherwise are we supposed to make new friends on the scene? We could, I suppose, message women asking them to chaperone us, but I somehow doubt that will go down too well either, since half of them have set their profiles to not engage with us. | |||
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" There are no end of dating sites elsewhere if that's your bag." The only bag im thinking of is a bag of shit, which they all are. Most here are on pof too. They'll never be messaged. If people think swingers are shallow what about cynical sites where you choose on their face alone by swiping. Left/ Right . Can anyone beat 2 per second? | |||
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"I'm not looking to sound like a bitch but please no to this. This is meant to be a swinging site not a dating site. Its surly is easier for a swinger that has become single to find a new swinging partner on here ? Perhaps, but I would imagine most single profiles on here aren't former swinging couples. The site is already bad enough with people joining it with the totaly wrong idea of what the site is about. Where else are we meant to find people who want a relationship within the lifestyle? It's alright for you, you're already a couple. I don't get why couples are against it. We get told often enough that singles can't be swingers so we try to find a partner that likes swinging but then get told that's not what this sure is for! " Probably because a lot of couples would prefer women to be single so they don't have to play with the male half of another couple. I'm looking for a proper relationship. Meeting someone from here woukd be great. Until then, the search goes on. | |||
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" There are no end of dating sites elsewhere if that's your bag. The only bag im thinking of is a bag of shit, which they all are. Most here are on pof too. They'll never be messaged. If people think swingers are shallow what about cynical sites where you choose on their face alone by swiping. Left/ Right . Can anyone beat 2 per second? " Agree with the fact that most are on dating sites as well. Just covering all bases, caught a few liars and cheats on dating sites as well. | |||
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"We see both sides of the argument (which it has almost degenerated into), whilst it may be quite useful it will also attract the people who want a dating site. Having been slated and abused on another thread for suggesting that non swingers using this site purely as a chat site are sad (we are sure there are plenty of other 'chat only' sites available), to then open it up as 'fab dating' would bring even more people who aren't swingers into the mix. If it was only genuine swingers allowed on the site then we would say yes, unfortunately this could never be properly governed so we will say 'please don't as there are enough non swingers on here already'. What did you do before you were a couple? " Exactly. | |||
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"Hi Admin, Daily I see "Dating" posts in the "The Lounge" Message Boards. I reckon that a new message board could be made where dating threads could be. Alternatively, I reckon you can add an area on the "Looking for...' page where you can choose you are open to dating. Then people can search for that. You could also add in Looking for FB, FWB, Club Partner, Life Partner, Something Short Term, Something Long Term, NSA Fun and One Night Stand. I'm trying to find a fella interested in dating and it would make life easier instead of reading loads of profiles. Thank you, J x" My my my! This is a cracking thread OP. There is a huge demand for this on here. It will also increase fab members and make it more fun for everyone involved! Before any other changes happen this should be one of the top priorities in my opinion. Loving this thread ![]() | |||
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"I want to find a partner who likes going to swinging clubs and wants threesomes and wants to experiment. They would need to be OK with me potentially exploring the HotWife scenario aswell... As a single person I have done Vanilla dating and had a few really good relationships...but I want to find someone on my sexual level. If I went on a Vanilla date; how many dates do you leave it before you tell them your sexual desires? They may just run a mile. At least on here you can truly be yourself. I have met couples recently who met on FAB and they are so happy! Even met one this weekend! I did have a 2 month relationship from here aswell. I see everyday on the Forums threads matchmaking each other so there is a definite call for it. Or maybe Fab could make a separate site called FabDating? J x" Oh wow! Lovely post. However I will say no to a separate site because this is already inclusive of both sides, but just needs the extra changes to it. Making this site a much more improved one will make it a very pleasant experience for all involved. Singles and couples ![]() | |||
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"I want to find a partner who likes going to swinging clubs and wants threesomes and wants to experiment. They would need to be OK with me potentially exploring the HotWife scenario aswell... As a single person I have done Vanilla dating and had a few really good relationships...but I want to find someone on my sexual level. If I went on a Vanilla date; how many dates do you leave it before you tell them your sexual desires? They may just run a mile. At least on here you can truly be yourself. I have met couples recently who met on FAB and they are so happy! Even met one this weekend! I did have a 2 month relationship from here aswell. I see everyday on the Forums threads matchmaking each other so there is a definite call for it. Or maybe Fab could make a separate site called FabDating? J x Oh wow! Lovely post. However I will say no to a separate site because this is already inclusive of both sides, but just needs the extra changes to it. Making this site a much more improved one will make it a very pleasant experience for all involved. Singles and couples ![]() Totally agree, please fab, help us singles lol xxx | |||
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"Good idea , have lots of nice social dates on Fab ![]() It would be good to arrange a big singles social somewhere - or maybe in various locations throughout the UK | |||
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"I want to find a partner who likes going to swinging clubs and wants threesomes and wants to experiment. They would need to be OK with me potentially exploring the HotWife scenario aswell... As a single person I have done Vanilla dating and had a few really good relationships...but I want to find someone on my sexual level. If I went on a Vanilla date; how many dates do you leave it before you tell them your sexual desires? They may just run a mile. At least on here you can truly be yourself. I have met couples recently who met on FAB and they are so happy! Even met one this weekend! I did have a 2 month relationship from here aswell. I see everyday on the Forums threads matchmaking each other so there is a definite call for it. Or maybe Fab could make a separate site called FabDating? J x Oh wow! Lovely post. However I will say no to a separate site because this is already inclusive of both sides, but just needs the extra changes to it. Making this site a much more improved one will make it a very pleasant experience for all involved. Singles and couples ![]() Yes please!!! I would love this! | |||
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"Good idea , have lots of nice social dates on Fab ![]() Great idea!! | |||
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"Good idea , have lots of nice social dates on Fab ![]() I think it would be too. | |||
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"Hi Admin, Daily I see "Dating" posts in the "The Lounge" Message Boards. I reckon that a new message board could be made where dating threads could be. Alternatively, I reckon you can add an area on the "Looking for...' page where you can choose you are open to dating. Then people can search for that. You could also add in Looking for FB, FWB, Club Partner, Life Partner, Something Short Term, Something Long Term, NSA Fun and One Night Stand. I'm trying to find a fella interested in dating and it would make life easier instead of reading loads of profiles. Thank you, J x" Good idea | |||
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"I'm not looking to sound like a bitch but please no to this. This is meant to be a swinging site not a dating site. " That’s coming from you as a couple!!! What about us singles who want to find a ltr with a fellow swinger?!! It’s a good idea. If you’re in a couple already, then you’d not have to read it!!! ![]() | |||
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"I'm not looking to sound like a bitch but please no to this. This is meant to be a swinging site not a dating site. " Purely out of interest, how and where did you meet? | |||
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"I'm not looking to sound like a bitch but please no to this. This is meant to be a swinging site not a dating site. " You sound like a couple I was chatting to in a club a little while ago. Vehemently and aggressively opposed to singles on Fab because they're not "real" singers. Turns out they met on Fab when they both had singles profiles here. Not a trace of irony. When I looked at their Fab profile they were looking for single men and women. You couldn't make it up....... | |||
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"I'm not looking to sound like a bitch but please no to this. This is meant to be a swinging site not a dating site. You sound like a couple I was chatting to in a club a little while ago. Vehemently and aggressively opposed to singles on Fab because they're not "real" singers. Turns out they met on Fab when they both had singles profiles here. Not a trace of irony. When I looked at their Fab profile they were looking for single men and women. You couldn't make it up......." Without us singles, couples wouldn't get their ffm or mmf would they? Why can't us singles have a chance to be couples with like minded others? Oh sorry, that would be a few less unicorns/single guys for some selfish couples to use at their convenience wouldn't it? ![]() | |||
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"I'm not looking to sound like a bitch but please no to this. This is meant to be a swinging site not a dating site. You sound like a couple I was chatting to in a club a little while ago. Vehemently and aggressively opposed to singles on Fab because they're not "real" singers. Turns out they met on Fab when they both had singles profiles here. Not a trace of irony. When I looked at their Fab profile they were looking for single men and women. You couldn't make it up......." There's some silly people around isn't there. | |||
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"I met my partner on here , I want expecting to but it happened, feelings developed and they happily were mutual. We are looking to create a couple profile soon and may swing together ,or we may not , will see where our relationship naturally goes... By the way ,I did try a popular dating site , the fishy one , and it was basically a load of blokes wanting to fuck me ....at least here most folk are respectful if you say no. " I'm also on that one. Same guys on there as here. And far ruder. | |||
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"I'm not looking to sound like a bitch but please no to this. This is meant to be a swinging site not a dating site. You sound like a couple I was chatting to in a club a little while ago. Vehemently and aggressively opposed to singles on Fab because they're not "real" singers. Turns out they met on Fab when they both had singles profiles here. Not a trace of irony. When I looked at their Fab profile they were looking for single men and women. You couldn't make it up....... There's some silly people around isn't there. " Uh huh....... ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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