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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is really annoying, I wish people who don't want to meet single guys wouldn't put "Men " on the list of people they'relooking for. The amount of times I have done a search for couples or singles who want to meet guys only to find "sorry no single guys" on their profiles when it definately says they are looking for men!!!! Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's because at the start all the boxes are ticked, and when you first join a site you have no idea what it is like nor how to use it. People then end up changing their minds and don't know how to edit it or have forgotten it even says that, or They just change the text on the profile.

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone


"This is really annoying, I wish people who don't want to meet single guys wouldn't put "Men " on the list of people they'relooking for. The amount of times I have done a search for couples or singles who want to meet guys only to find "sorry no single guys" on their profiles when it definately says they are looking for men!!!! Rant over "

Do an advanced search and use the checkbox to exclude these from search results.

http://www.fabswingers.com/browse/advanced

Admin x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just close the window and move on, at least they're up front about being a timewaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just close the window and move on, at least they're up front about being a timewaster."

how the hell do you get that!!!!!

i have men on my profile and yes i am a single women, but i meet WHEN i choose to and maybe the couples do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just close the window and move on, at least they're up front about being a timewaster.

how the hell do you get that!!!!!

i have men on my profile and yes i am a single women, but i meet WHEN i choose to and maybe the couples do "

I'm just making the point that its no big deal and don't get hung up over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just close the window and move on, at least they're up front about being a timewaster.

how the hell do you get that!!!!!

i have men on my profile and yes i am a single women, but i meet WHEN i choose to and maybe the couples do

I'm just making the point that its no big deal and don't get hung up over it."

im not im just replying

but hey ho im a time waster Yay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just close the window and move on, at least they're up front about being a timewaster.

how the hell do you get that!!!!!

i have men on my profile and yes i am a single women, but i meet WHEN i choose to and maybe the couples do

I'm just making the point that its no big deal and don't get hung up over it.

im not im just replying

but hey ho im a time waster Yay"

So am I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pick you up in the Aston later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pick you up in the Aston later "

yayxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just close the window and move on, at least they're up front about being a timewaster."

So because they have made a mistake and have listed men, or sometimes look for men but at that moment they get messages they aren't looking for men they are a timewaster?

Sheesh.

S.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just close the window and move on, at least they're up front about being a timewaster.

So because they have made a mistake and have listed men, or sometimes look for men but at that moment they get messages they aren't looking for men they are a timewaster?

Sheesh.

S. "

i got told off for that shhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just close the window and move on, at least they're up front about being a timewaster.

So because they have made a mistake and have listed men, or sometimes look for men but at that moment they get messages they aren't looking for men they are a timewaster?

Sheesh.

S. "

That'll teach me for being bored and coming in and commenting. Its worse than Youtube in here.

I'm probably over 70% correct, whatever they put on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just close the window and move on, at least they're up front about being a timewaster.

So because they have made a mistake and have listed men, or sometimes look for men but at that moment they get messages they aren't looking for men they are a timewaster?

Sheesh.

S.

That'll teach me for being bored and coming in and commenting. Its worse than Youtube in here.

I'm probably over 70% correct, whatever they put on."

lmao

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"This is really annoying, I wish people who don't want to meet single guys wouldn't put "Men " on the list of people they'relooking for. The amount of times I have done a search for couples or singles who want to meet guys only to find "sorry no single guys" on their profiles when it definately says they are looking for men!!!! Rant over "

And the people you're referring to might be looking, doing their own search, using their criteria,, maybe even using the looked at me tab for the elusive ( ahem) single guy, the block, it stops all single guys messaging but you could reply to a message, from those people, I think we're forgetting the amount of messages others receive, .. this would cut down the number of messages by a massive percentage.. best advice move on way I look at it their loss not yours...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is really annoying, I wish people who don't want to meet single guys wouldn't put "Men " on the list of people they'relooking for. The amount of times I have done a search for couples or singles who want to meet guys only to find "sorry no single guys" on their profiles when it definately says they are looking for men!!!! Rant over

And the people you're referring to might be looking, doing their own search, using their criteria,, maybe even using the looked at me tab for the elusive ( ahem) single guy, the block, it stops all single guys messaging but you could reply to a message, from those people, I think we're forgetting the amount of messages others receive, .. this would cut down the number of messages by a massive percentage.. best advice move on way I look at it their loss not yours... "

i get on average 80-100 messages a day more if im on cam, and sometimes im looking to meet and sometimes im not But i still have men listed on my profile,

people do things and forget the filters will stop the meet listings like the blocking single men but some arent aware x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i get on average 80-100 messages a day more if im on cam, and sometimes im looking to meet and sometimes im not But i still have men listed on my profile,

people do things and forget the filters will stop the meet listings like the blocking single men but some arent aware x"

Best change the way you run your profile then so it suits others and not you.....

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Best change the way you run your profile then so it suits others and not you.....

lol"

yes i agree i run it my way my rule my terms if people don't like it they can feck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples that say "No Single Men" on their profile but do state they "are" looking for single guys, are generally in the camp of they want to contact you and not the other way around.

They are looking for "exceptional" or in real terms looking for "the right" guy.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

80-100 mails...bloody hell......

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"This is really annoying, I wish people who don't want to meet single guys wouldn't put "Men " on the list of people they'relooking for. The amount of times I have done a search for couples or singles who want to meet guys only to find "sorry no single guys" on their profiles when it definately says they are looking for men!!!! Rant over "

as i say all the time... maybe the are not looking for "you" as such...

if the meet request goes up... then it appears on the people they are "friends" with list...... so maybe they are more appealing to people that they know, and to alert them that they are free... as opposed to looking for any "new" people.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"80-100 mails...bloody hell......

"

thats the way it can be and thats with quite a few filters on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"80-100 mails...bloody hell......

"

and no i dont reply to all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is really annoying, I wish people who don't want to meet single guys wouldn't put "Men " on the list of people they'relooking for. The amount of times I have done a search for couples or singles who want to meet guys only to find "sorry no single guys" on their profiles when it definately says they are looking for men!!!! Rant over

as i say all the time... maybe the are not looking for "you" as such...

if the meet request goes up... then it appears on the people they are "friends" with list...... so maybe they are more appealing to people that they know, and to alert them that they are free... as opposed to looking for any "new" people....."

Well said Fabio - it works better than trying to message most of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"80-100 mails...bloody hell......

and no i dont reply to all x"

only the good ones hey miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is really annoying, I wish people who don't want to meet single guys wouldn't put "Men " on the list of people they'relooking for. The amount of times I have done a search for couples or singles who want to meet guys only to find "sorry no single guys" on their profiles when it definately says they are looking for men!!!! Rant over

as i say all the time... maybe the are not looking for "you" as such...

if the meet request goes up... then it appears on the people they are "friends" with list...... so maybe they are more appealing to people that they know, and to alert them that they are free... as opposed to looking for any "new" people....."

nothing in the terms and conditions that say if you place a meet listing you have to meet the 1st one that replies or you have to shag everyone on here

i use the listing sometimes as easier than sending a message to my friends list x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"80-100 mails...bloody hell......

thats the way it can be and thats with quite a few filters on"

likewise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"80-100 mails...bloody hell......

and no i dont reply to all x

only the good ones hey miss"

depends how good

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