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By *ANGBANG PARTIES OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Manchester

The people that run Fab have singled me out as I charge single men a fair fee for attending my parties in my home, but Fab say I should not be charging a single penny?

I've been told I'm not allowed to charge a single penny for parties that I organise once a month in my home? (I'm baffled how others get away with it?).

It takes me 2 to 3 weeks to organise a party, coming on here nearly every day, dealing with all the sad timewasters and opening up my home to strangers, providing condoms + soft drinks + tea / coffee and the use of all my facilities and I have to clean up after, clean the bedding from 3 beds and sometimes a bed or something is broken and it takes about an hour to clean up after including doing the washing up and getting rid of the rubbish etc... etc... and I'm supposed to do all this for NOTHING??? Seems a bit unfair when 99% of guys are happy to pay as can be born out by all my glowing verifications?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"The people that run Fab have singled me out as I charge single men a fair fee for attending my parties in my home, but Fab say I should not be charging a single penny?

I've been told I'm not allowed to charge a single penny for parties that I organise once a month in my home? (I'm baffled how others get away with it?).

It takes me 2 to 3 weeks to organise a party, coming on here nearly every day, dealing with all the sad timewasters and opening up my home to strangers, providing condoms + soft drinks + tea / coffee and the use of all my facilities and I have to clean up after, clean the bedding from 3 beds and sometimes a bed or something is broken and it takes about an hour to clean up after including doing the washing up and getting rid of the rubbish etc... etc... and I'm supposed to do all this for NOTHING??? Seems a bit unfair when 99% of guys are happy to pay as can be born out by all my glowing verifications? "

Don't have it at your home then.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I agree with fab admin, you are not organising a party you are running a brothel.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"The people that run Fab have singled me out as I charge single men a fair fee for attending my parties in my home, but Fab say I should not be charging a single penny?

I've been told I'm not allowed to charge a single penny for parties that I organise once a month in my home? (I'm baffled how others get away with it?).

It takes me 2 to 3 weeks to organise a party, coming on here nearly every day, dealing with all the sad timewasters and opening up my home to strangers, providing condoms + soft drinks + tea / coffee and the use of all my facilities and I have to clean up after, clean the bedding from 3 beds and sometimes a bed or something is broken and it takes about an hour to clean up after including doing the washing up and getting rid of the rubbish etc... etc... and I'm supposed to do all this for NOTHING??? Seems a bit unfair when 99% of guys are happy to pay as can be born out by all my glowing verifications? "

It seems you consider organising the parties as a job.... if you’re inviting people as part of a gang bang swinging activity would you charge your guests? The full hour clean up doesn’t sound too bad. You are as you say “opening up your home to strangers” not charging them an admission fee to enter a ‘business’ does seem right.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"The people that run Fab have singled me out as I charge single men a fair fee for attending my parties in my home, but Fab say I should not be charging a single penny?

I've been told I'm not allowed to charge a single penny for parties that I organise once a month in my home? (I'm baffled how others get away with it?).

It takes me 2 to 3 weeks to organise a party, coming on here nearly every day, dealing with all the sad timewasters and opening up my home to strangers, providing condoms + soft drinks + tea / coffee and the use of all my facilities and I have to clean up after, clean the bedding from 3 beds and sometimes a bed or something is broken and it takes about an hour to clean up after including doing the washing up and getting rid of the rubbish etc... etc... and I'm supposed to do all this for NOTHING??? Seems a bit unfair when 99% of guys are happy to pay as can be born out by all my glowing verifications? "

Hubby used to host regular parties before we met and when we first got together (before life started to get in the way) we hosted a few together. We provided a light buffet, tea/coffee and soft drinks. Also made sure that we had condoms and lube available in our bedrooms. Did we charge anyone? NO! We hosted parties for our enjoyment, not to make money!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"The people that run Fab have singled me out as I charge single men a fair fee for attending my parties in my home, but Fab say I should not be charging a single penny?

I've been told I'm not allowed to charge a single penny for parties that I organise once a month in my home? (I'm baffled how others get away with it?).

It takes me 2 to 3 weeks to organise a party, coming on here nearly every day, dealing with all the sad timewasters and opening up my home to strangers, providing condoms + soft drinks + tea / coffee and the use of all my facilities and I have to clean up after, clean the bedding from 3 beds and sometimes a bed or something is broken and it takes about an hour to clean up after including doing the washing up and getting rid of the rubbish etc... etc... and I'm supposed to do all this for NOTHING??? Seems a bit unfair when 99% of guys are happy to pay as can be born out by all my glowing verifications?

Hubby used to host regular parties before we met and when we first got together (before life started to get in the way) we hosted a few together. We provided a light buffet, tea/coffee and soft drinks. Also made sure that we had condoms and lube available in our bedrooms. Did we charge anyone? NO! We hosted parties for our enjoyment, not to make money!"

This!!

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

What exactly are you charging these men for?

If its at your own home you have no outgoings and if you ask folks to supply their own drinks and condoms then you wouldnt need to charge.

Is it only single guys who pay or does everyone pay if not then why not ?

I agree with the poster above it sounds more like prostitution than a simple house party

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Op I have just read your profile and I’m not in the slightest bit surprised at what fab have said about charging for your parties. It sounds like you are not a swinging couple but are pimping out a ‘22 year old potential porn star’ for your own financial gain!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are running a prostitution ring exploiting young girls. Your couple profile says both are in their 50s but the 22 years old is, pictured.

You are a pimp.

Payment is not permitted for sex on this site. You should be permanently banned from Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The people that run Fab have singled me out as I charge single men a fair fee for attending my parties in my home, but Fab say I should not be charging a single penny?

I've been told I'm not allowed to charge a single penny for parties that I organise once a month in my home? (I'm baffled how others get away with it?).

It takes me 2 to 3 weeks to organise a party, coming on here nearly every day, dealing with all the sad timewasters and opening up my home to strangers, providing condoms + soft drinks + tea / coffee and the use of all my facilities and I have to clean up after, clean the bedding from 3 beds and sometimes a bed or something is broken and it takes about an hour to clean up after including doing the washing up and getting rid of the rubbish etc... etc... and I'm supposed to do all this for NOTHING??? Seems a bit unfair when 99% of guys are happy to pay as can be born out by all my glowing verifications? "

I don't think you should charge. You choose to have the parties you should pay. Ask the party goers to bring a bottle if you can't afford the booze and if you're concerned about breakages ... Don't hold parties at your home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op I have just read your profile and I’m not in the slightest bit surprised at what fab have said about charging for your parties. It sounds like you are not a swinging couple but are pimping out a ‘22 year old potential porn star’ for your own financial gain!"

Just hope it's not his daughter

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By *aste of tenerifeMan
over a year ago

tenerife

lol. not sure you expected these comments.

maybe others are getting away with it. that does not make what your doing right .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are running a prostitution ring exploiting young girls. Your couple profile says both are in their 50s but the 22 years old is, pictured.

You are a pimp.

Payment is not permitted for sex on this site. You should be permanently banned from Fab."

Agreed

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Definitely a no no. But I got shot down on the other thread because I said this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you running ‘parties’ for financial gain then it is clearly a business and FAB is not the place to run a brothel....oops meant business.

Get registered with your local council as a sex club and stop trying to bypass the tax system!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much do you charge these single guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The people that run Fab have singled me out as I charge single men a fair fee for attending my parties in my home, but Fab say I should not be charging a single penny?

I've been told I'm not allowed to charge a single penny for parties that I organise once a month in my home? (I'm baffled how others get away with it?).

It takes me 2 to 3 weeks to organise a party, coming on here nearly every day, dealing with all the sad timewasters and opening up my home to strangers, providing condoms + soft drinks + tea / coffee and the use of all my facilities and I have to clean up after, clean the bedding from 3 beds and sometimes a bed or something is broken and it takes about an hour to clean up after including doing the washing up and getting rid of the rubbish etc... etc... and I'm supposed to do all this for NOTHING??? Seems a bit unfair when 99% of guys are happy to pay as can be born out by all my glowing verifications? "

It don't matter if you like the rules or not you agreed to upon signing up. What you are doing is against the site rules so they are more than entitled to enforce them.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Quite frankly I'm baffled at how long the OP has got away with it without being arrested. At least the pics of the girl have gone now.

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By *ohnfromnwukMan
over a year ago

North Manchester

[Removed by poster at 31/05/18 19:31:11]

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Whilst not condoning anything from the OP, in his defense he hasn't always had GBs for the 22 year old. I know friends on here he has held GBs for who are in their 40s and 50s and they have loved it. I have no idea if he charged or not as I've never been to one "

If you read the OP it clearly states he charges.

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"What exactly are you charging these men for?

If its at your own home you have no outgoings and if you ask folks to supply their own drinks and condoms then you wouldnt need to charge.

Is it only single guys who pay or does everyone pay if not then why not ? The single men are paying for sex with the 22 year old! If u read his profile! And she will obv get a cut of the money that the men pay!

I agree with the poster above it sounds more like prostitution than a simple house party"

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"What exactly are you charging these men for?

If its at your own home you have no outgoings and if you ask folks to supply their own drinks and condoms then you wouldnt need to charge.

Is it only single guys who pay or does everyone pay if not then why not ? The single men are paying for sex with the 22 year old! If u read his profile! And she will obv get a cut of the money that the men pay!

I agree with the poster above it sounds more like prostitution than a simple house party"

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Fab can't stop you having parties and charging people OP. They just don't have that power.

All they can do is stop you advertising them on their website

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"The people that run Fab have singled me out as I charge single men a fair fee for attending my parties in my home, but Fab say I should not be charging a single penny?

I've been told I'm not allowed to charge a single penny for parties that I organise once a month in my home? (I'm baffled how others get away with it?).

It takes me 2 to 3 weeks to organise a party, coming on here nearly every day, dealing with all the sad timewasters and opening up my home to strangers, providing condoms + soft drinks + tea / coffee and the use of all my facilities and I have to clean up after, clean the bedding from 3 beds and sometimes a bed or something is broken and it takes about an hour to clean up after including doing the washing up and getting rid of the rubbish etc... etc... and I'm supposed to do all this for NOTHING??? Seems a bit unfair when 99% of guys are happy to pay as can be born out by all my glowing verifications? "

Make the party free but sell the condoms

say they can't use there own as they might have been tampered with

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"I charge single men a fair fee for attending my parties "

So, how much is the "fair fee"?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

An hours cleaning up afterwards,blooming heck bet you need a lie down after that don't you.

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By *ANGBANG PARTIES OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Manchester

Crickey I better tell Pippa that I've been exploiting her and pimping her out, even though it was all her idea to charge!!!

OMG yes I should be banned from Fab and my 180+ verifications taken away from grateful people who had a fantastic time at my parties!!! Instead of being ripped off by clubs and not even having any fun???

Everyone has fun at my parties!

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Crickey I better tell Pippa that I've been exploiting her and pimping her out, even though it was all her idea to charge!!!

OMG yes I should be banned from Fab and my 180+ verifications taken away from grateful people who had a fantastic time at my parties!!! Instead of being ripped off by clubs and not even having any fun???

Everyone has fun at my parties! "

Well of course they have fun, they are paying a working lady for the privilege!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Crickey I better tell Pippa that I've been exploiting her and pimping her out, even though it was all her idea to charge!!!

OMG yes I should be banned from Fab and my 180+ verifications taken away from grateful people who had a fantastic time at my parties!!! Instead of being ripped off by clubs and not even having any fun???

Everyone has fun at my parties! "

So, did you miss my question, or are you just avoiding it?

How much is this "fair fee"?

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By *ANGBANG PARTIES OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Manchester

It does not matter how much i charge each guy, everyone seems to think I should just let all these guys waltz into my home and have 3 to 5 hours of fun for absolutely nothing!!!???

FFS their are some stingy twats on here and OMG pimps SOoooooooooooooo DO NOT exist anymore surely?

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"It does not matter how much i charge each guy, everyone seems to think I should just let all these guys waltz into my home and have 3 to 5 hours of fun for absolutely nothing!!!???

FFS their are some stingy twats on here and OMG pimps SOoooooooooooooo DO NOT exist anymore surely?"

You absolutely should let people into your home to have 3-5 hours of fun for nothing. It’s called being a party host!

No matter how you try to dress it up, charging to attend your gathering is prostitution and you could and should be prosecuted for living off immoral earnings.

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By *ANGBANG PARTIES OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Manchester

No matter how you try to dress it up, charging to attend your gathering is prostitution and you could and should be prosecuted for living off immoral earnings.

Well if the above was right then every Swingers club in the whole world should be closed down and the owners sent to prison... HaHaHaHa as if!!!

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"If you running ‘parties’ for financial gain then it is clearly a business and FAB is not the place to run a brothel....oops meant business.

Get registered with your local council as a sex club and stop trying to bypass the tax system!!!"

Exactly this.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

How much do you charge?

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"How much do you charge?"

He’s been asked that numerous times already but hasn’t answered

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"No matter how you try to dress it up, charging to attend your gathering is prostitution and you could and should be prosecuted for living off immoral earnings.

Well if the above was right then every Swingers club in the whole world should be closed down and the owners sent to prison... HaHaHaHa as if!!! "

Entry to a swingers club does not guarantee sexual favours of any kind. Take a look at the website of any club and you will see a phrase to this effect in there. When you attend a swingers club you are paying an entry fee to use the facilities provided, just the same as if you were attending a regular spa or health club

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By *ohnlewis1Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Hello, I’m an infrequent visitor to the forums. There does seem to be a certain amount of double standards in swinging and on fab when it comes to payments.

While I agree that payment implies prostitution; I am aware of clubs where there is hired help for example The R3tro in Walsall. There are also loads of advertised meets for “Greedy Girl” type organised parties which are clearly fronting prostitution.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"How much do you charge?

He’s been asked that numerous times already but hasn’t answered "

We need to all keep asking til he does,I'm intrigued are we talking a tenner,thirty,sixty pound's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are running a prostitution ring exploiting young girls. Your couple profile says both are in their 50s but the 22 years old is, pictured.

You are a pimp.

Payment is not permitted for sex on this site. You should be permanently banned from Fab."

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Has he been banned or are we just blocked now ?

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By *ack in gillMan
over a year ago

Skegness/ ingoldmells

Hi put us down for the next one we would both love to attend xx

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Has he been banned or are we just blocked now ? "

May have been suspended.

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By *ANGBANG PARTIES OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Manchester

Who has been banned?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"No matter how you try to dress it up, charging to attend your gathering is prostitution and you could and should be prosecuted for living off immoral earnings.

Well if the above was right then every Swingers club in the whole world should be closed down and the owners sent to prison... HaHaHaHa as if!!! "

They are regulated by local councils etc. You are not.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Has he been banned or are we just blocked now ? "

Blocking spree it seems.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Has he been banned or are we just blocked now ?

May have been suspended."

Nope just blocked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who has been banned? "
you by the looks of it

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Has he been banned or are we just blocked now ?

May have been suspended.

Nope just blocked lol"

Looks like someone didn’t like other people sharing admin’s opinion

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

At the end of the day if someone offered me money I would report and block them. This also applies to anyone asking for money. It is against site rules. If admin don't know they can't deal with it on the appropriate way.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Has he been banned or are we just blocked now ?

May have been suspended.

Nope just blocked lol"

Yeah I've barely said anything as well. I'd already looked at the profile anyway so yeah,so not bothered.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I'm guessing he wont say how much the "fair fee" is because it isn't... fair that is. He doesn't want to give us any idea as to how much he thinks is "fair" to charge for sex.

It is however a fee, which means implies that people are paying for a service, so the OP has, in fact, kinda admitted that he is running a business providing that service.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"Has he been banned or are we just blocked now ?

May have been suspended.

Nope just blocked lol"

just checked and can't see the profile

cant be blocked as I checked before commenting.

looks like admin suspended the account, as only the OP can deleat the acount

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably find he won't tell anyone the fair price very doubtful that each person pays the same fair price.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth


"Has he been banned or are we just blocked now ?

May have been suspended.

Nope just blocked lol

just checked and can't see the profile

cant be blocked as I checked before commenting.

looks like admin suspended the account, as only the OP can deleat the acount "

I had assumed he blocked those who shared admin’s opinion when I looked from my couple account but I think you must be correct as I can’t see him on my old single profile either

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Has he been banned or are we just blocked now ?

May have been suspended.

Nope just blocked lol

just checked and can't see the profile

cant be blocked as I checked before commenting.

looks like admin suspended the account, as only the OP can deleat the acount "

User no longer on site (UNLOS) would be there instead of his name if he had deleted himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crickey I better tell Pippa that I've been exploiting her and pimping her out, even though it was all her idea to charge!!!

OMG yes I should be banned from Fab and my 180+ verifications taken away from grateful people who had a fantastic time at my parties!!! Instead of being ripped off by clubs and not even having any fun???

Everyone has fun at my parties! "

So it was her idea and you’re going alone with it...

Ok can I ask Pippa how much the entry fee is?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

You can charge reasonable expenses to any party, but if you are charging a silly price or for guaranteed sex then that isn't allowed. If you had a warning this would have been explained

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