FabSwingers.com forum: Member no longer on site

By *sianManc OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Hey all

Just wondering if any of you have had this before.

I was chatting to a female pretty much all day long and then suddenly I couldn't send a message.

The reason the person has left the site.

2 seconds letter all trace of their messages in my inbox and all to them from me in my outbox disappeared.

Does isn't and doesn't seem the same as when someone blocks you because the messsges usually remain.

Have any of you encountered this before and what does it mean?

I'm hazarding a guess that they were removed by admin but I'm unsure if admin can even read our messages and do such a thing.

Thanks

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"Hey all

Just wondering if any of you have had this before.

I was chatting to a female pretty much all day long and then suddenly I couldn't send a message.

The reason the person has left the site.

2 seconds letter all trace of their messages in my inbox and all to them from me in my outbox disappeared.

Does isn't and doesn't seem the same as when someone blocks you because the messsges usually remain.

Have any of you encountered this before and what does it mean?

I'm hazarding a guess that they were removed by admin but I'm unsure if admin can even read our messages and do such a thing.

Thanks "

was probably a man and his wife came home

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

They deleted their profile by themselves.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

People leave the site it happens

Some come back some don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes when a member leaves the messages disappear too, other times they stay as unlos. They probably just got cold feet and left XXX

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By *sianManc OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Thank you all for the replies.

It's given me closure in a way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey all

Just wondering if any of you have had this before.

I was chatting to a female pretty much all day long and then suddenly I couldn't send a message.

The reason the person has left the site.

2 seconds letter all trace of their messages in my inbox and all to them from me in my outbox disappeared.

Does isn't and doesn't seem the same as when someone blocks you because the messsges usually remain.

Have any of you encountered this before and what does it mean?

I'm hazarding a guess that they were removed by admin but I'm unsure if admin can even read our messages and do such a thing.

Thanks

was probably a man and his wife came home"

Lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah usually it’s either a fake, or it’s a bloke that got spooked and didn’t want his wife to find out!

We get them all the time! Just makes getting through the messages a bit quicker

C x

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

"admin but I'm unsure if admin can even read our messages and do such a thing"

Hi OP, Admin can read anything you post to the site, including private messages. cc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like it was a bloke getting off on the chat

Its easy to join then just delete the account along with all messages and pics

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Maybe if was a woman. Just put off by the sheer number of messages or something. Can be quite overwhelming for a newbie

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Guy on his computer at work .

.dissappears on Fridays

. There's loads of em ..

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By *sianManc OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Thank you for replying all. Makes alot of sense x

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I'd image its an automated response.

When you permanently delete your profile all content from messages is removed.

Data protection would probably mandate this. Forum posts will remain and the name will show as unlos, as forum posts are public posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

saved messages aren't deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes this as happend to me also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get regular abusive messages from the same person who is "no longer on the site" after each message is sent, yet se ds a new one a few days later

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"I get regular abusive messages from the same person who is "no longer on the site" after each message is sent, yet se ds a new one a few days later "

Really sorry to hear that. I would hope that if you wanted to report them then admin could help with any enquiry. I'm no IT expert but they should be able to read the message and identify any key traits such as ip address or registered email. If the abuse crosses into harassment then if you wanted to you they may be able to help if you need the police to step in.

Online abuse can just be the thin edge of a person who can be abusive in other aspects of life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get regular abusive messages from the same person who is "no longer on the site" after each message is sent, yet se ds a new one a few days later

Online abuse can just be the thin edge of a person who can be abusive in other aspects of life. "

I get that on a regular basis too. Have reported the messages to admin, no changes just yet...

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