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By *rGenuine OP   Man
over a year ago

Purley

When will fab ever approach the subject of charging single men to use this site.

With so many idiots, fakes, timeasters and the fact the ratio is about 99/1 against single men, it may even make this more of an enjoyable site.

Works on other sites so worth considering here.

Also if not verified within a certain time of joining your profile should be deleted.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm on another site that does this and there's not much difference.

Never had my time wasted here and the fakes are easy to spot, people just need to wise up a bit.

Also, the unverified profiles being deleted after a year can just set up a new profile the next day.

Having said all that, I have no clever suggestions myself on how to stop fake profiles!

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

It doesn’t work on other sites, there is way more fake female and couples profiles that are fake. Most men are real they just don’t actually want to meet . They prefer the chase .

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By *rGenuine OP   Man
over a year ago

Purley

Charge everyone then.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Charge everyone then. "

Alternatively, if you think that its the money that makes the difference, you could ignore messages from non site supporters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When will fab ever approach the subject of charging single men to use this site.

With so many idiots, fakes, timeasters and the fact the ratio is about 99/1 against single men, it may even make this more of an enjoyable site.

Works on other sites so worth considering here.

Also if not verified within a certain time of joining your profile should be deleted."

Most of the fakes would either sign up with a couples or female profile. They have no intention of meeting and join to waste time. I don't think charging is the answer, and people are getting better at spotting the fakes and time wasters too

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

But a single male profile is unlikely to be fake, I have yet to come across a female or couple pretending to be a single guy. If you start charging single guys then more will join as couples or females thereby making it a lot worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn’t work on other sites, there is way more fake female and couples profiles that are fake. Most men are real they just don’t actually want to meet . They prefer the chase . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and enhance a sense of entitlement because they've paid for it? nope...

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I am not sure there are many fake male profiles

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

https://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

You can filter out unverified and non site supporters from your filters and then the site will work for you how you want it to

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

frustrated? I got ur back i be back with 4 - 5 fake couple or single female profile for free

i got plenty time to mess if I want to too so u can say something insane again

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal


"https://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

You can filter out unverified and non site supporters from your filters and then the site will work for you how you want it to"

This...We use our filters very effectively and our time on Fab has given us the experience to out the fakes pretty sharpish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh goody haven’t had a post “bashing” single men for like, ages !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Charge everyone then. "

We already pay. So hiw would that help us lol?

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

People use the site in many ways

Some want to meet others

Some just want to use forums

Some just here for the chat etc etc

If we had to pay and be verified within a certain timeframe when we first joined we probably wouldn’t be here.

We don’t really use the site for any of the above so our profile would have been deleted going by the op.

We are genuine

Not fake either.

But have been called idiots a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have yet to have my time wasted or be caught out by fakes etc.

I do wonder if those that complain about time wasters etc, I wonder how they use the site? Are they looking for instant gratification? Instant hookups? Spend time telling someone what they want to do to them, so that the recipient has a quick wank and disappears? I think you only have your time wasted if you allow it to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We we have come across a man pretending to be a woman and it was very easy to work as they he kept on about was this male profile so we just blocked I think it fair to say we don't mind paying at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it would be a good idea to charge single male profiles or in fact to charge at all. To be fair this site works good for me if I want to get an upgrade I can if not I still get to talk to most people. I've joined other so called free sites where to even read a message you have to upgrade needless to say I have not stayed long. I also don't think it will cut out the fake profiles as they mainly in my experience been a couples profile where the lady doesn't exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not sure there are many fake male profiles "

I’ve come across fake male profile s, had an argument with the bitch. She found her man cheating on here.

I’ve found two fake male profiles. Only speak to verified now.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"When will fab ever approach the subject of charging single men to use this site.

With so many idiots, fakes, timeasters and the fact the ratio is about 99/1 against single men, it may even make this more of an enjoyable site.

Works on other sites so worth considering here.

Also if not verified within a certain time of joining your profile should be deleted."

I've been on sites that charge single men north of £25 a month.

The amount of fake profiles is ridiculous.

Fab has the tools to help our selection process, use of the tools and a modicum of common sense are all that's needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been on here quite a while now I’m single genuine and not verified..

If people not intrested in me how do I get verified..

So that mean I get thrown off site..

We all start on here the same but it takes longer for some than others to get verified...

You obviously had a few meets.. happy you..

So should people with to many meets get banned too..??

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I pay my site supporter that enough

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Oh goody haven’t had a post “bashing” single men for like, ages !!!!!!"

By a single man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh goody haven’t had a post “bashing” single men for like, ages !!!!!!

By a single man "

Yes I did notice that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Charge everyone then.

Alternatively, if you think that its the money that makes the difference, you could ignore messages from non site supporters. "

We tried using that filter once, the result...

We got a guy message us, when we politely told him he wasn't what we was seeking he then started moaning he had only paid so he could message us

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By *he honey dipperMan
over a year ago

Anywhere but not there

I agree that if a profile hasn't been verified by meeting within a certain time then it should be deleted. And not just by webcam it's easy for anyone to get verified that way and sometimes they will never meet up but still just keep wasting your time

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I agree that if a profile hasn't been verified by meeting within a certain time then it should be deleted. And not just by webcam it's easy for anyone to get verified that way and sometimes they will never meet up but still just keep wasting your time"

So anyone that just wants to use the forums and cam rooms would have to keep making new profiles to do that would they? Not everyone joins fab to meet. People should be allowed to use the site how they want to.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"I agree that if a profile hasn't been verified by meeting within a certain time then it should be deleted. And not just by webcam it's easy for anyone to get verified that way and sometimes they will never meet up but still just keep wasting your time.

So anyone that just wants to use the forums and cam rooms would have to keep making new profiles to do that would they? Not everyone joins fab to meet. People should be allowed to use the site how they want to. "

^this.......

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Or is it just a way to rid the site of single guys you see as competition OP?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No!

It would make the site worse, not better. Charging would decrease all site user numbers and fakes etc will still pay - they have money too.

With fewer users overall, it's feasible that bad users would increase as a percentage of all users, se the problem could seem worse.

We each have to be responsible for filtering people we chat and meet with. The site cannot provide a replacement for you doing that.

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By *he honey dipperMan
over a year ago

Anywhere but not there


"I agree that if a profile hasn't been verified by meeting within a certain time then it should be deleted. And not just by webcam it's easy for anyone to get verified that way and sometimes they will never meet up but still just keep wasting your time

So anyone that just wants to use the forums and cam rooms would have to keep making new profiles to do that would they? Not everyone joins fab to meet. People should be allowed to use the site how they want to. "
all I'm saying is that I think being verified by meeting should have a different symbol just so you can see who meets and who chats on cam

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I agree that if a profile hasn't been verified by meeting within a certain time then it should be deleted. And not just by webcam it's easy for anyone to get verified that way and sometimes they will never meet up but still just keep wasting your time

So anyone that just wants to use the forums and cam rooms would have to keep making new profiles to do that would they? Not everyone joins fab to meet. People should be allowed to use the site how they want to. all I'm saying is that I think being verified by meeting should have a different symbol just so you can see who meets and who chats on cam"

There is a summary for that if people choose to display it.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I think it all depends on how you define wasting time... For me, it's a no show when you are at said venue waiting (luckily this has never happened). Just chatting to someone and then realising you really don't want to chat or meet that person isn't wasting my time. It's just the process of finding the profile you do want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or is it just a way to rid the site of single guys you see as competition OP? "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same thing with clubs isn't it .

More men than women

I'm guessing if they charged the men (example ) £60 entry it would possibly halve .

It is something that needs a solution as the majority of so called couples profiles these days seems to be a single guy ..

I'm sure there is a solution ..and many ways to improve .however as we all know nothing seems to be done on the improvement of the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But a single male profile is unlikely to be fake, I have yet to come across a female or couple pretending to be a single guy. If you start charging single guys then more will join as couples or females thereby making it a lot worse."

Single males pretending to be couples..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe team up with the club's and have a verified by club section .....every little helps

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

They should just make fab supporters only, you wouldn't get so many fakes or men joining for a quick wank just to go UNLOS the next day

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"I am not sure there are many fake male profiles "
Good point.

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By *esley_CTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Surely this is what profile verification is for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree that if a profile hasn't been verified by meeting within a certain time then it should be deleted. And not just by webcam it's easy for anyone to get verified that way and sometimes they will never meet up but still just keep wasting your time"

Lots of verified people are timewasters etc. Been on and off here for years just use your filters.

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By *r WillerbyMan
over a year ago

Durham

What about the shy or ugly, small cocked, no craic men who have paid but never get to meet anyone to verify them.....not hassling or being rude to anyone....why ban them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn’t work on other sites, there is way more fake female and couples profiles that are fake. Most men are real they just don’t actually want to meet . They prefer the chase . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn’t work on other sites, there is way more fake female and couples profiles that are fake. Most men are real they just don’t actually want to meet . They prefer the chase . "

A fake female and couple profile is a man !!!

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

To be honest.....

Would say in a lot of cases the guys should just save the money and spend it on a mirror

Then they should stand and look in it!

From some of the messages we get, it's obvious that they don't own one

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By *he_Count_of_MonteCristoMan
over a year ago

Sunderland

The timewasters get their jollies messing people's lives about, so charging a fee won't affect them because they would pay it.

The real problem are female/tgirl profiles that are really escorts or the ones that draw unsuspecting men in and when they meet 2 or men are waiting to mug them (this has happened in a few places in UK).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on here for nearly 3 years including a break.No meets so not verified, according to the op I should therefore be thrown off the site?

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By *olexMan
over a year ago

Hull

Because it's only single men that are fake on here isn't it? Get real!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking about this today actually,

What about a "one out, one in" system for males, where you sign up and are entered on a waiting list till a reasonable ratio of male to female users is reached, or something along those lines!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is charging single men the solution to everything?

It’s like Single men are the cause of everything bad on this site...

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By *ur1ou2Man
over a year ago

Prudhoe

Caveat Emptor - Let the buyer beware!!

Works in every other transaction you make - why not here?

Take more time to check out contacts??

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

OP. Charging still wouldn't change the timewasters issue.

In any of the sites, the timewaster problems will exist be it from Single guys, Females or Couples.

As stated by others, spotting them comes down to experience and reading between the lines!

As for your notion of non-verified people having their profile removed after a specific period of no verifications, is too ridiculous!

EG. Two years ago, the company I worked for, transferred me to a post at one of their properties in the Scottish Highlands.

Meets wise, it was disasterous. Without a car, the last local buses leaving the nearest town at 6pm back to my location plus few ppl looking in that region on this site, I'd have had more luck getting a meet on Mars! I left after 6 months and after returning to a more populated area, returned to successful meets.

Your profile shows several Veris in a year! Bully for you! You have had success. But many guys don't & can take ages to successfully achieve their first meet!

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By *orksCouple25Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"But a single male profile is unlikely to be fake, I have yet to come across a female or couple pretending to be a single guy. If you start charging single guys then more will join as couples or females thereby making it a lot worse."

You may be underestimating how desperate and pervy most single guys are on here .. I’m sure most single guys on here are just collecting photos to wank to with no intention of meeting anyone at all, or at least accept the odds are stacked against them but still sign up to have a really good perv .

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By *elbyfuntimesMan
over a year ago

Selby

It won't stop fakes at all and should single men pay more. When most fake profiles are of single women or couples.

But saying that some one used my pics once to create a fake profile. Frig knows why as I don't get much meets directly of here anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But a single male profile is unlikely to be fake, I have yet to come across a female or couple pretending to be a single guy. If you start charging single guys then more will join as couples or females thereby making it a lot worse.

You may be underestimating how desperate and pervy most single guys are on here .. I’m sure most single guys on here are just collecting photos to wank to with no intention of meeting anyone at all, or at least accept the odds are stacked against them but still sign up to have a really good perv . "

It’s this kind of narrow minded prejudice that perpetuates the myth of single men. How dare you make such a completely unfounded accusation about single men. I am neither desperate or pervy !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are already charged if we choose site supporter status! Time wasting single men get ed out by the experienced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is charging single men the solution to everything?

It’s like Single men are the cause of everything bad on this site..."

Ain’t that the truth so much BS spouted day in day out about single men

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By *nique_GymMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Talking about charging men, two youths were arrested near me, one was eating fireworks the other drinking battery acid!

Police charged one and let the other off

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"Charge everyone then. "
that won't put the tosspots off one bit

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Charge everyone then.

Alternatively, if you think that its the money that makes the difference, you could ignore messages from non site supporters. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have yet to have my time wasted or be caught out by fakes etc.

I do wonder if those that complain about time wasters etc, I wonder how they use the site? Are they looking for instant gratification? Instant hookups? Spend time telling someone what they want to do to them, so that the recipient has a quick wank and disappears? I think you only have your time wasted if you allow it to happen."

My most disappointing letdowns on here have been with women/couples I have communicated with for a long time before the supposed meet and then been let down at the last minute. Spur of the moment seems to work at least as well (or badly) on here.

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I was thinking about this today actually,

What about a "one out, one in" system for males, where you sign up and are entered on a waiting list till a reasonable ratio of male to female users is reached, or something along those lines! "

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By *wodoswingCouple
over a year ago

swindon

It's all relative fake profiles and time wasters exist even on paid sites. Proportionally the fake profiles or time wasters we have come across are male. But in all fairness this is what we are looking for(single men). However we have come across couple profiles that are fake and even profiles using our photographs. Admin has been great and removed these promptly. There are many verified profiles out there as well that don't cut the ice. Always wary of unpublished verifications as we have found to our cost that these are not always genuine. We only ever arrange meets once we have established a chat on the phone. If they won't talk on the phone they sure are not going to meet. As for enjoying the chase as mentioned earlier in this thread is there any point?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm clearly fake as I have hidden veris x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not blame all the men for the fakes its the others i think

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By *ickinglover69Man
over a year ago

Langley

I am genuinely trying to meet on here trying to modify my profile to meet and play. Maybe find it hard to spot the fakes taking people at face value. I have met people at clubs and social events with genuine fab handles but when I come on to verify I cannot find themail.

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By *dinson1983Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

What about the potential to make all unverified users unable to see anyone's content.

So they have v to verify.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about the potential to make all unverified users unable to see anyone's content.

So they have v to verify.

"

Thats just discriminating the people who are genuinely trying to meet and can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose not to have veris, I've met people on here and on other sites..

I do think people judge far too quickly on here and make a lot of presumptions..

Tbh when I was on here many years ago I found the place less "clicky" and better/nicer now it just seems a beak whores paradise....

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Charge everyone then. "

You know idiots have money too, right?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

The business model for paid sites seems to be

A. charge everyone but charge single men a premium

B Create shit loads of fake single female profiles to entice in the highest paying idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single man of 51 which is out of the age range most are willing to meet hence no veries but I'm unemployed so limits income as well. I know I not only man in this situation I can't be lol but I'm here because it is free and not on the paid sites I am real but respect boundaries hence I won't do clubs if I'm to old on here I wouldn't expect it to be different at clubs after all I'm same age for both locations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The business model for paid sites seems to be

A. charge everyone but charge single men a premium

B Create shit loads of fake single female profiles to entice in the highest paying idiots."

You've been on AFF then!

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"The business model for paid sites seems to be

A. charge everyone but charge single men a premium

B Create shit loads of fake single female profiles to entice in the highest paying idiots.

You've been on AFF then!"

No but I was a mod on Mingingheaven when it turned into a paysite. We both were. funnily enough the member numbers reported on the home page went from about 100k to 800k overnight as well lol

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

I always wondered what those "charging" points were for at the services.

So where do you plug it in to charge the men up then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Charge everyone then. "

idiots still earn money

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By *unes322000Man
over a year ago

moorside oldham

Will dickheads like yourself stop making things harder for genuine males to get hooked up you just want to take compitition away to make it easier for you to get layed I agrea Thier are to many fakes on this and other sites that gois for couples and singles women also to many guys on her get to dam gready for pussy let others guys get a sniff in back off mate we all need some enjoyment in life

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By *unes322000Man
over a year ago

moorside oldham

Hi I am a male been on this site now in and off for a few years now and just got my first varification it's hard to get one it's like going for a job first thing that is asked is what experience have you had when you say none they drop you like a hot patato in here your classed as a fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coukd there not be a red/ yellow card system so if someone had been abusive/ found out to be fake something could be used to warn other users?

I appreciate they could delete and set up other profiles but surely that would be frustrating and time consuming?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh goody haven’t had a post “bashing” single men for like, ages !!!!!!"

At least 13 minutes lol....

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

What's the point of charging .this won't put off the tosspots one jot .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the point of charging .this won't put off the tosspots one jot ."

And it might put off other men who are here to meet and not just wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So the self righteous of you don’t pay but all single guys have to, even the genuine ones!

So many couples are fake as well, not to mention the straight couples who’s men message and ask to suck a guy off or meet in their wife’s knickers for anal, we could all go on and on but there will not be one idea that will stop fake men, couples or T girls.

Figuure the site out, set your profile how you want it with the relevant filters and get on with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they only charged single men a premium surely this would just increase the number of fake female and couples profiles?

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By *ida8780Couple
over a year ago

any town


"Coukd there not be a red/ yellow card system so if someone had been abusive/ found out to be fake something could be used to warn other users?

I appreciate they could delete and set up other profiles but surely that would be frustrating and time consuming? "

The idea of a red/yellow system would be good, stop a lot of fakes/picture collectors. Also gives legit profiles a chance to out fakes. Like a three strikes you’re out thing.

Charging single men wouldn’t necessarily put them off, just make the couples/female profiles more difficult to suss the messers.

If someone is on here for a month with no photos and none of the profile filled out (or just one line in each section) and no verification then they should be removed. Even a profile pic at least. You can pretty much guarantee they are just one here to look at photos and have a tug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is what makes fab unique and so popular because they don’t charge single men end of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people don’t want to put pictures up and they don’t have to, what about the folk with reading and writing difficulties?

It just goes on and on.

There is a warning system on site as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Charge everyone then.

Alternatively, if you think that its the money that makes the difference, you could ignore messages from non site supporters. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Charging for membership isn't the answer or the problem, its the verification system! Verification should be done by Moderators via cam or meet, in a "judges decision is final" sort of manner, verification by meeting other members alone is flawed, but at the moment the only option, just because someone doesn't fit your criteria, doesn't mean that they are fake or time wasters, they're trying to get verified as well, obviously there are fakes and idiots, they just need ing out!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot


"Charging for membership isn't the answer or the problem, its the verification system! Verification should be done by Moderators via cam or meet, in a "judges decision is final" sort of manner, verification by meeting other members alone is flawed, but at the moment the only option, just because someone doesn't fit your criteria, doesn't mean that they are fake or time wasters, they're trying to get verified as well, obviously there are fakes and idiots, they just need ing out! "

Any idea how many moderators and how much time that would take?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Charging for membership isn't the answer or the problem, its the verification system! Verification should be done by Moderators via cam or meet, in a "judges decision is final" sort of manner, verification by meeting other members alone is flawed, but at the moment the only option, just because someone doesn't fit your criteria, doesn't mean that they are fake or time wasters, they're trying to get verified as well, obviously there are fakes and idiots, they just need ing out! "

Don't be so ridiculous. I don't cam and I don't intend to start either.

And I am quite sure the moderators have better things to do than audition members to see if they are allowed to be on the site or not.

Still I guess they could always hire Simon Cowells BGT audition venues and red buzzer. Members could go on the gold star and flop their cocks or tits out and get either approved or buzzed off. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Charge everyone then.

Alternatively, if you think that its the money that makes the difference, you could ignore messages from non site supporters. "

Exactly. The site supporters shows those that might be more serious about Fab (or desperate).

I supported this way after joining to show that I was more serious and liked to believe the site and community as a whole would benefit from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another "single guy bashing thread "

Started by a single guy.....

Are you on a suicide Misson here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Veris are the way

I could not agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Charging for membership isn't the answer or the problem, its the verification system! Verification should be done by Moderators via cam or meet, in a "judges decision is final" sort of manner, verification by meeting other members alone is flawed, but at the moment the only option, just because someone doesn't fit your criteria, doesn't mean that they are fake or time wasters, they're trying to get verified as well, obviously there are fakes and idiots, they just need ing out!

Any idea how many moderators and how much time that would take?

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7?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Charging for membership isn't the answer or the problem, its the verification system! Verification should be done by Moderators via cam or meet, in a "judges decision is final" sort of manner, verification by meeting other members alone is flawed, but at the moment the only option, just because someone doesn't fit your criteria, doesn't mean that they are fake or time wasters, they're trying to get verified as well, obviously there are fakes and idiots, they just need ing out!

Don't be so ridiculous. I don't cam and I don't intend to start either.

And I am quite sure the moderators have better things to do than audition members to see if they are allowed to be on the site or not.

Still I guess they could always hire Simon Cowells BGT audition venues and red buzzer. Members could go on the gold star and flop their cocks or tits out and get either approved or buzzed off. X "

Im not saying everyone get on cam and get naked, it's was merely a suggestion to prove that theres an actual human on the other end of the profile,

Just throwing some ideas out there, might spark the imagination of someone else, brainstorming as it were!

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