FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Should verifications be put up with out your choice, it would give an honest verification of you, you could then be allowed 1 reply to it. Too many fake ones on profiles. This would stop the disappointment.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

You think there are a lot of fake verifications on profiles?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I have come across a few which made me think there must be more, more honesty is needed as it would save a lot of people being let down, this way everyone can see all verifications.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I'm puzzled about what you mean. Are you saying someone's verification said they were gorgeous, amazing in bed etc but you disagree?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm puzzled about what you mean. Are you saying someone's verification said they were gorgeous, amazing in bed etc but you disagree? "

That would be a matter of opinion which no one can disagree with.

People only put up good verifications, I would like to see good and bad with a chance of reply, a similar way to eBay.

The ones I have come across turned out to be verifications from friends making out that they had brought women along and had an amazing 3 sum, when meeting them they were single and there was no chance of a woman coming along. I could not put a negative verification stating what had happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see a slight problem with what you are suggesting, OP. I'm sure everyone who has been on this site for a bit has all sorts of verifications, not all great. And I don't mean not praising the person enough, but just too graphic or maybe referring to a specific arrangement we had that we don't want the whole world of fab knowing. So I'm sure a lot of people I going to agree with me in saying that I would like to have control over what verifications I post.

Anyway, we are all different. What is amazing and mind-blowing for some, would be just 'normal' or 'ok' for others.

Also, from your post/replies, it sounds like you had high expectations based on their veris. Have you spoken to the person/people in question regarding how many people are going to be there?

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

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"Should verifications be put up with out your choice, it would give an honest verification of you, you could then be allowed 1 reply to it. Too many fake ones on profiles. This would stop the disappointment."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What aboyt the fake honest verifications? I could take a dislike to you somthing youve said on a forum and give u an "honest" verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a little disappointed with the subject of verification because to I do not have it yet because I have not found in 1 year there is nobody in fabswinger for real encounter, the perspnas are mistrustful and false unfortunately! I want good verifiacion because I am a good person! I hope to find someone for a good check! regards MARC

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

There are lots of issues with this. What's to stop a guy who I just politely declined, from putting a veri on my profile saying all sorts of horrible things about me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am a little disappointed with the subject of verification because to I do not have it yet because I have not found in 1 year there is nobody in fabswinger for real encounter, the perspnas are mistrustful and false unfortunately! I want good verifiacion because I am a good person! I hope to find someone for a good check! regards MARC"

You can go on cam and get verified or go to a club or one of the many socials..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no, open to all kinds of misuse !!!

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

I would love to be able to give a little warning to some ladies, after very bad experience on some ocasions, but sadly my verification can he hidden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see your point but I don't agree, there would be misuse. I have had 2 people leave a verification for me, one webcam & the other a meet in person. I have no clue as to why they would do it, because I have never met them. I don't display them because they're not honest verifications, also because they're now blocked. I can't get them removed from my summary though, so I don't display that either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see all your points. Back to the drawing board for me

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By *onic2Man
over a year ago

Bromley

As it's my night to shine I'm going to step in here with something which has been a bee in my bonnet since day one.

Namely what is the point in having a verification system that you can't trust?

So questions have to be asked before we think about improving it we have to say will improving it actually make a difference?

How much do you need to trust it? At the end of the day if you see a really hot person the chances are you are going to want to meet them even if they don't have any verification or... even if every verification was a 100% unfiltered and non vetted and honest how much of what people say comes down to their own perspective on the evening and as we know that can easily people's judgement even if their own take on the situation would be different. Oh my god you'll just have to read some of the questions comments and answers here to see how different the same context is understood by people!!!

I'll be honest with you after 2 years of being on here I think that is not a great system but it's the best system we could have in a world where you have to rely on people to be honest

If a system relies on people to be good it's a bad system

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