FabSwingers.com forum: Non reply

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys,

To help both ladies and guys on here could you make a "thanks but no thanks" reply button on mail. At least then it'll make the site a bit more sufferanle for single guys not getting responses and ladies/couples a quick way to reply and delete messages???

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By *969BewitchedWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been quite a few threads on this subject, have a search of the forum hun.

I'd say a deleted message with no reply is a no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I get that a delete with no reply is that but for guys looking to even get a chat is so difficult. Why not keep a bit of hope there for us?? Lol

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Why not keep a bit of hope there for us?? Lol"

But that might be the exact reason why many people dont reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I get that a delete with no reply is that but for guys looking to even get a chat is so difficult. Why not keep a bit of hope there for us?? Lol"

I'll just say that most people read the profile before the message and if its non existant and holds no appeal then you'll probably not get a reply. Here in lies the secret to not being ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys,

on the last thread on thus subject, admin were clear that this isn't going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Replying to a message can override any future mail filters....I think

IE if they reply then block all single male mails..you can still mail...same as a friend add overrides mail filters....

I think....

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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

"Yeah I get that a delete with no reply is that but for guys looking to even get a chat is so difficult. Why not keep a bit of hope there for us?? Lol"

How is a “thanks but no thanks” button gonna give you hope?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I get that a delete with no reply is that but for guys looking to even get a chat is so difficult. Why not keep a bit of hope there for us?? Lol

How is a “thanks but no thanks” button gonna give you hope? "

Some men can't take no for an answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I get that a delete with no reply is that but for guys looking to even get a chat is so difficult. Why not keep a bit of hope there for us?? Lol"

But to be fair. A generated no thanks would be the same thing. There would still be no hope. It means that someone has actually looked at your profile or wasn't interested in your message and pushed a button to make their intentions even clearer that they're not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should just get the hint when you get no reply or the message is deleted after its read. They are clearly not interested and you have no reason to message them again. No need for a button, just common sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should just get the hint when you get no reply or the message is deleted after its read. They are clearly not interested and you have no reason to message them again. No need for a button, just common sense."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I get that a delete with no reply is that but for guys looking to even get a chat is so difficult. Why not keep a bit of hope there for us?? Lol"

When I am meeting I will only chat to guys I am attracted to, or that I am never likely to meet due to distance, as I find just talking leads to the assumption that I am interested in playing...if we all do this then your idea wouldn't make a blind bit of difference IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If fab removed the Sent Messages box completely, no one would know if a message was read, deleted or otherwise.

If you get a reply, your message was read. If you interest someone, they will message. Why get all stalkerish over your sent messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If fab removed the Sent Messages box completely, no one would know if a message was read, deleted or otherwise.

If you get a reply, your message was read. If you interest someone, they will message. Why get all stalkerish over your sent messages?"

I think they should get rid of it, this causes so much angst for some.

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

I can see both sides of the argument. I always add to messages "feel free to reply even if its a thanks but no thanks". Then i know not to message again in the distant future. But on the other side i can only image how many messages couples and single women must get. So to reply to all mist be a nightmare.

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By *earboynottinghamMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Don’t see the point of it.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Answering with a no thanks opens up a whole new window for some.. they carry on messaging with.. why not?

Then you get the name calling and YOU get blocked before you can block them haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps once the no reply button has been pressed, it generates a month long block, for messaging that profile again. Allows for a cooling off period, so abuse can't be sent, because someone said no thanks

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

The mans profile isn't up for discussion

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Here is an answer from Admin from the following thread.

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/696811#message_15150621

"We've said it before but we'll say it again. We've had a thanks but no thanks button on other sites and it didn't produce anything positive.

It turns out that some people don't like rejection no matter how the message is delivered.

No reply means not interested.

Admin x"

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