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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When new people join the site getting photo verified would be compulsory. Thoughts please ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photo verified doesn't mean jack, Anyone with basic photoshop skills could get past that.

There does need to be something in place for timewasters, but unless its fool proof it won't work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be able to stop all messages from being received, including people who have messaged before.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

On another site that we were on previously, they had far better filters so you only received messages from people who fitted within them.

You could block explicit pics etc.

It was better for that but was still a crap site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely does need to be something to stop all fake profiles. Photo verified would be a start. Did see a forum post about new law possibly coming in, on proving your age. Not allowing people to put Kik or mobile no's on there updates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be able to stop all messages from being received, including people who have messaged before. "

Block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friends folder in your inbox. Or, if someone is in your friends list. It's highlighted a different shade of yellow in your inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block all men from sending first messages. Make women and couples have to do the searching.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"A friends folder in your inbox. Or, if someone is in your friends list. It's highlighted a different shade of yellow in your inbox. "

Definitely this, although I need it to include hotlist because that is my friends list

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"Block all men from sending first messages. Make women and couples have to do the searching. "

Site closed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block all men from sending first messages. Make women and couples have to do the searching. "

That's sexist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block all men from sending first messages. Make women and couples have to do the searching. "

I'll stick to the forums then and hope for the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friends folder in your inbox. Or, if someone is in your friends list. It's highlighted a different shade of yellow in your inbox.

Definitely this, although I need it to include hotlist because that is my friends list "

This was meant to be looked at by admin according to threads on site feedback

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How about single guys have a joining fee ?

I'd pay it !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about single guys have a joining fee ?

I'd pay it !! "

I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about single guys have a joining fee ?

I'd pay it !! "

Are you a crazy man? Wait, I already pay a fee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want pics on threads.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friends folder in your inbox. Or, if someone is in your friends list. It's highlighted a different shade of yellow in your inbox.

Definitely this, although I need it to include hotlist because that is my friends list

This was meant to be looked at by admin according to threads on site feedback "

The messaging system itself needs updating. I think all messages from one person should be in one thread rather then having an inbox fill of replies. Kind of like how facebook messenger is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block all men from sending first messages. Make women and couples have to do the searching.

That's sexist"

So?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"A friends folder in your inbox. Or, if someone is in your friends list. It's highlighted a different shade of yellow in your inbox.

Definitely this, although I need it to include hotlist because that is my friends list "

3 separate folders.

1 from randoms (which can be switched off)

1 from friends/hotlist

1 from forum threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block all men from sending first messages. Make women and couples have to do the searching.

Site closed "

My work here is done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about single guys have a joining fee ?

I'd pay it !! "

That's unfair.

Limit the number of messages a newbie gets for the first week or so as this message overload often makes women leave. Maybe have a feature that blocks messages from certain groups but allows winks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friends folder in your inbox. Or, if someone is in your friends list. It's highlighted a different shade of yellow in your inbox.

Definitely this, although I need it to include hotlist because that is my friends list

This was meant to be looked at by admin according to threads on site feedback

The messaging system itself needs updating. I think all messages from one person should be in one thread rather then having an inbox fill of replies. Kind of like how facebook messenger is"

Or just get dem digits!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"I want pics on threads.

PTU xxx "

More cocks noooooooooooo

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"A friends folder in your inbox. Or, if someone is in your friends list. It's highlighted a different shade of yellow in your inbox.

Definitely this, although I need it to include hotlist because that is my friends list

3 separate folders.

1 from randoms (which can be switched off)

1 from friends/hotlist

1 from forum threads

"

Loving that

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Remove status's and watch those ego's pop.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

The ability to give +1 karma and the option to leave a reason why.

Only able to give that one person +1 in 24 hours.

Your karma total would appear on your profile and perhaps next to your name when you post on the forum/s.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Block all men from sending first messages. Make women and couples have to do the searching. "

I think this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ability to give +1 karma and the option to leave a reason why.

Only able to give that one person +1 in 24 hours.

Your karma total would appear on your profile and perhaps next to your name when you post on the forum/s.

"

+1

Good idea for posts. We can now fab meets, fabbing posts would soften the blow of no messages / winks or fabs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When new people join the site getting photo verified would be compulsory. Thoughts please ?"

Yes yes yes... i still think there are ways around this verification thing (if you are good at Photoshop that is) but it would put a lot of one-day fakers off and that has to be a good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Allow those who want it to be contacted by people on their friends list only... another site does this so it's hardly a stretch to achieve it surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remove status's and watch those ego's pop.

"

My ego is unpopable

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"The ability to give +1 karma and the option to leave a reason why.

Only able to give that one person +1 in 24 hours.

Your karma total would appear on your profile and perhaps next to your name when you post on the forum/s.

+1

Good idea for posts. We can now fab meets, fabbing posts would soften the blow of no messages / winks or fabs "

-1 dosent exist, the ability to send negative karma is never in place.

Someone posts something you agree with, you reply with the thumbs up and then click on their name and as an eg:

Well said, fully agree with your point - Jizz

You could send it anon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a feature that if not verified within a year! Profile gets automatically deleted

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Remove status's and watch those ego's pop.

My ego is unpopable "

Happy Birthday. Nothing egotistic with your status today.

Enjoy the celebrations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant ban for any profile asking for a premium code... really really really annoys me that.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Maybe a feature that if not verified within a year! Profile gets automatically deleted "

That's the end of me then till I set a new one up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have all the emojis at the bottom so I can send them all. Plus add the middle finger emoji

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe a feature that if not verified within a year! Profile gets automatically deleted

That's the end of me then till I set a new one up"

Good riddance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BAN anyone having a status saying it's their birthday... just attention seekers and i bet when they get a message wishing them all the best the end up deleting most of them anyway... what's the point!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BAN anyone having a status saying it's their birthday... just attention seekers and i bet when they get a message wishing them all the best the end up deleting most of them anyway... what's the point!?"

Ban anyone from having any fun what so ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BAN anyone having a status saying it's their birthday... just attention seekers and i bet when they get a message wishing them all the best the end up deleting most of them anyway... what's the point!?"

Oops I am an attention whore. I will hang my head in shame. But let me delete this messages first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BAN anyone having a status saying it's their birthday... just attention seekers and i bet when they get a message wishing them all the best the end up deleting most of them anyway... what's the point!?

Ban anyone from having any fun what so ever "

Yes, ban fun... this is Fabswingers not Funseekers!

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

A video option for messages

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Maybe a feature that if not verified within a year! Profile gets automatically deleted

That's the end of me then till I set a new one up

Good riddance "

Go now go

Walk out the door

Don't turn around now

Your not welcome anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe a feature that if not verified within a year! Profile gets automatically deleted

That's the end of me then till I set a new one up

Good riddance

Go now go

Walk out the door

Don't turn around now

Your not welcome anymore "

Yes yes yes. That's what I meant

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"To be able to stop all messages from being received, including people who have messaged before. "

You can block those of course.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Block all men from sending first messages. Make women and couples have to do the searching. "

Ha! This

Can just imagine all, the why won't men reply to me threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There does need to be something in place for timewasters, but unless its fool proof it won't work"

It may be better to focus on highlighting non timewasters rather than vice versa. This is what my idea of introducing a "meet this week" flag, to compliment the "meet today" flag, was about. People who weren't ready to meet, for whatever reason, would leave it turned off. It would clearly differentiate between those actively swinging at the moment and those having a break or just looking.

Another idea I just had, to help differentiate meeters from non meeters could be you take a selfie of you meeting another Fab member. Send it to Fab and they verify you really did meet that person by checking face pics. It might help clarify who's actually meeting somehow... Don't know how that helps lol but it's a thought

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Maybe a feature that if not verified within a year! Profile gets automatically deleted

That's the end of me then till I set a new one up

Good riddance

Go now go

Walk out the door

Don't turn around now

Your not welcome anymore

Yes yes yes. That's what I meant "

Happy Anniversary - your banned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe a feature that if not verified within a year! Profile gets automatically deleted

That's the end of me then till I set a new one up

Good riddance

Go now go

Walk out the door

Don't turn around now

Your not welcome anymore

Yes yes yes. That's what I meant

Happy Anniversary - your banned "

Haha oh you two

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Maybe a feature that if not verified within a year! Profile gets automatically deleted

That's the end of me then till I set a new one up

Good riddance

Go now go

Walk out the door

Don't turn around now

Your not welcome anymore

Yes yes yes. That's what I meant

Happy Anniversary - your banned

Haha oh you two "

Crispy - just you wait till admin see this and like your idea. You'll get a message saying how you have to police this policy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When new people join the site getting photo verified would be compulsory. Thoughts please ?"

Yes; agree

Too many fake 'women' here now

- Mrs. J -

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Block all men from sending first messages. Make women and couples have to do the searching.

Ha! This

Can just imagine all, the why won't men reply to me threads. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe a feature that if not verified within a year! Profile gets automatically deleted

That's the end of me then till I set a new one up

Good riddance

Go now go

Walk out the door

Don't turn around now

Your not welcome anymore

Yes yes yes. That's what I meant

Happy Anniversary - your banned

Haha oh you two "

He has an imaginary status, that has the power to ban me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want pics on threads.

PTU xxx

More cocks noooooooooooo "

No I dunno what the obsession with cocks is on here. I'm more thinking food porn.

PTU xxx

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I want pics on threads.

PTU xxx

More cocks noooooooooooo

No I dunno what the obsession with cocks is on here. I'm more thinking food porn.

PTU xxx "

Shags dinner thread would go to new heights, that would be such a good idea but people would abuse it before too long.

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull


"A friends folder in your inbox. Or, if someone is in your friends list. It's highlighted a different shade of yellow in your inbox.

Definitely this, although I need it to include hotlist because that is my friends list "

This

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull


"[Removed by poster at 27/07/17 10:15:47]"

How about an EDIT button so we see less of this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How about the OP gets a compulsory pick of a meet with anyone who comments on the thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Joking aside some very good points that would make the site even better but we will different views on what would work best. I do like the friends highlighted messages and also the time frame people can be on here without any type of verification. If your not verified by a meet cam or the easiest option photo with a period of time your profile is removed does anybody even give a profile that's not verified after say a few months a second look ? I love to see the stats on how many that aren't verified after say 4 weeks actually go on to get verified bet it's not many at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about the OP gets a compulsory pick of a meet with anyone who comments on the thread "

That would kill the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about the OP gets a compulsory pick of a meet with anyone who comments on the thread

That would kill the forums "

The ladies threads will fill up pretty quick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about the OP gets a compulsory pick of a meet with anyone who comments on the thread

That would kill the forums

The ladies threads will fill up pretty quick "

*thread closed got too big*

*thread closed got too big*

*thread closed got too big*

Yep, with you on that one

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Advisory traffic lights on profiles, useful for new, under suspicion etc, or more green when an old site boot (eg me) plus verified and other site algorithm factors.

+1 to inbox folders suggestions

Standard reply 'no thanks', 'Thanks plus user created text' etc, with additional option to block at same time

User created prompts option, for when someone tries to message you, eg 'Hi - please read the profile or don't bother messaging me / us'

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Automatic prompts moving new users to suggested site areas, including the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Automatic prompts moving new users to suggested site areas, including the forum."

Noooooo, you don't mean 'Anyone in Birmingham today. Mail me' in the Lounge type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a sticky post of "Patience is the key" lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filters are your best friend on fab .. And can help sort out the crap .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about a messaging service like Kik or WhatsApp for just your friends list?

Fuzz

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

When abuse is reported to admin they actually DO something! ANY abuse should result in account closed and IP address blocked! Too harsh??

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Filters are your best friend on fab .. And can help sort out the crap ."

Not quite, there isn't an idiot or tosspot filter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How about a messaging service like Kik or WhatsApp for just your friends list?

Fuzz"

Great idea although most are on my kik but not all have it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol if you did that the place would have its 'fpr sale ' sign up in a week

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Filters are your best friend on fab .. And can help sort out the crap .

Not quite, there isn't an idiot or tosspot filter. "

Hahaha admin get it sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A friends folder in your inbox. Or, if someone is in your friends list. It's highlighted a different shade of yellow in your inbox.

Definitely this, although I need it to include hotlist because that is my friends list

3 separate folders.

1 from randoms (which can be switched off)

1 from friends/hotlist

1 from forum threads

"

Neat idea. She got brains as well as looks, this one.

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about a messaging service like Kik or WhatsApp for just your friends list?

Fuzz

Great idea although most are on my kik but not all have it "

Then we could get rid of Kik (which we use just for our fab friends) thus freeing up much needed memory on our phones for photos. In addition, I reckon we'd be more selective as to who we friend on Fabs.

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have the verification system, which is a Godsend and is supposed to wed out the timewasters. I promote this site elsewhere simply because of this feature. A guy I mete here was also on Adultfriendfinder but we couldn't use the testimonial system there to verify each other because we were both non-paying members. So count yer blessings.

I got fed up of no-shows, despite a better hit rate here than anywhere else, so I began demanding three texts on the day of a meet: one at 3pm before I start getting ready, one at 6pm when it's not too late to rearrange the evening and one just before they leave the house. Miss one and don't bother coming at all.

I also tell meets that I understand cold feet and that meets are the lowest in a priority list, especially when they were turned on in front of the PC at the time but they're not on the day of the meet, and I don't care how lame the excuse is, just make sure you make it before I start wasting my time getting ready, because it's a big hassle and a lot of work getting myself looking fabulous for their benefit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a sticky post of "Patience is the key" lol."

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

A "no thank you" button with the smileys, to cut down on the amount of 'why don't people reply to my messages' threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ability to give +1 karma and the option to leave a reason why.

Only able to give that one person +1 in 24 hours.

Your karma total would appear on your profile and perhaps next to your name when you post on the forum/s.

+1

Good idea for posts. We can now fab meets, fabbing posts would soften the blow of no messages / winks or fabs "

Really like both of these ideas.

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"When new people join the site getting photo verified would be compulsory. Thoughts please ?"

Not just new people. Existing members too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Filters are your best friend on fab .. And can help sort out the crap .

Not quite, there isn't an idiot or tosspot filter. "
no but still they do help .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want pics on threads.

PTU xxx

More cocks noooooooooooo

No I dunno what the obsession with cocks is on here. I'm more thinking food porn.

PTU xxx

Shags dinner thread would go to new heights, that would be such a good idea but people would abuse it before too long."

I dunno I think crispy duck has the right idea. His pics are fab!

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be able to stop all messages from being received, including people who have messaged before.

Block button. "

I don't want to block them. I want to be able to use other areas of Fab without receiving any messages. A message to anyone trying to message could say This profile is currently not receiving messages. Or be able to not show online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When new people join the site getting photo verified would be compulsory. Thoughts please ?

Not just new people. Existing members too."

The photos to be automatically deleted after being accepted as proof, and not stored on the site servers.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

have a competition forum, where people can design a new logo for the site or new site layout.

i also think the site catchphrase should be changed from ...fun, free,& fabulous to ....you know who you are!!

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull


"have a competition forum, where people can design a new logo for the site or new site layout.

i also think the site catchphrase should be changed from ...fun, free,& fabulous to ....you know who you are!!"

You've gotta be in it to swing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site needs better ways to stop fake profiles and time wasters.

The administrators could add a fake profile tick box to every profile and then they could see the profiles with the most ticks in a descending list so it is easier for admins to find the fakes.

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By *RCADIAN HAZE TashaCouple
over a year ago

Rotherham

Message Filters so u can certain groups u wont meet so ones to block straight guys..females..couple ones to block bi guys..females..couples

And one to block smokers or if you smoke ppl who won't meet smokers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a number of ways to be verified and they shouldn't be one off's.

A security password should be sent to your address on file, each year. Enter the code into the site to remain address verified.

A security code sent to your mobile each quarter. Enter the code into the site to remain phone verified.

A debit/credit must be registered yearly.

Email security code as per mobile phone idea.

Photo verified yearly.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"There are a number of ways to be verified and they shouldn't be one off's.

A security password should be sent to your address on file, each year. Enter the code into the site to remain address verified.

A security code sent to your mobile each quarter. Enter the code into the site to remain phone verified.

A debit/credit must be registered yearly.

Email security code as per mobile phone idea.

Photo verified yearly."

None of those ways would make anyone more likely to be genuine than they are now.

They would just put off (with good reason) genuine people.

Fab works fine as it is, if you use your common sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are a number of ways to be verified and they shouldn't be one off's.

A security password should be sent to your address on file, each year. Enter the code into the site to remain address verified.

A security code sent to your mobile each quarter. Enter the code into the site to remain phone verified.

A debit/credit must be registered yearly.

Email security code as per mobile phone idea.

Photo verified yearly.

None of those ways would make anyone more likely to be genuine than they are now.

They would just put off (with good reason) genuine people.

Fab works fine as it is, if you use your common sense."

Exactly

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By *alkirkbairnMan
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Everyone uses fab for different reasons. Some use it as a sex site, some use it as a more social function to arrange parties etc. Some just use the forums for some of the banter.

It would be a shame to lose some members if they are forced into doing things like photo verifying, adding different details etc.

Plus doesn't matter what sanctions you have there will always be fakes, scammers, sex offenders, drug sellers and whatever else people have experienced.

Use common sense and use block. I'd just leave the site as it is as it works well

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Fab is now essentially just like any other social media. Only difference is you can have a cock pic avatar. So try and make it a bit more useful. A stuff for sale section would be useful. Forums for trouble with your car, hobbies and interests etc etc. It might make the forums more than just bbw, tv's, clique or no clique, kiss or no kiss, please fab my ass etc etc etc. You made the start with the politics section, so carry on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think getting rid of women and couples. They are a minority who are ruining it for us guys.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I think getting rid of women and couples. They are a minority who are ruining it for us guys. "

Not a bad plan. 'Mates before dates'..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think getting rid of women and couples. They are a minority who are ruining it for us guys.

Not a bad plan. 'Mates before dates'.."

Yep. We could all work together to design smaller sky remotes.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

we need a food section. i don't really think about food until i come on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When new people join the site getting photo verified would be compulsory. Thoughts please ?"

I thought you had to be photo verified now when you join fab?

I thought it was compulsary to send fab a photo of you holding a piece of paper with you your username written on it and fabswingers.com written on it as well.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Teleportation would be handy for long distance meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what about this idea.

a obligtory annual membership fee, where instead of email addresses are proff, an actual address, this would help keep banned users from the site,

profile photos of the face only along with veri number. handed out via the site,

moderators are highlighted in Red font not an asterix.

better class of descriptions not m f tv/ts/cd ( eg sm/sf M m M f Tv Tg Ts CD etc}

no daft location addresses eg toytown or nowher near anyplace etc)

A suspension being total suspension from the site not just chatroom and likewise a ban from the site being a ban.

moderators being online 24/7 and at least two covering a room.

a Gay only chatroom.

a meets only page where you can leave a onsite post to admin to let them know who you are meeting( safety for singletons)

no duplicate veries from same person on one profile.

a moderator call button replace the poke button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Teleportation would be handy for long distance meets"

Not for me,I saw Jeff Goldblum in the fly,no thanks.

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By *oyeurs DelightCouple
over a year ago

london

An ethnicity search option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An ethnicity search option"

There already is one

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

A search feature within the blocked list page for the fiery and the fickle amongst us!

If your blocked list is extensive it's almost impossible to re-find profiles. We also sometimes wonder if we were blocked or did the blocking!?!?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone uses fab for different reasons. Some use it as a sex site, some use it as a more social function to arrange parties etc. Some just use the forums for some of the banter.

It would be a shame to lose some members if they are forced into doing things like photo verifying, adding different details etc.

Plus doesn't matter what sanctions you have there will always be fakes, scammers, sex offenders, drug sellers and whatever else people have experienced.

Use common sense and use block. I'd just leave the site as it is as it works well"

If you had various voluntary verifications, say; card, address, phone etc.., you could have a filter facility for each one. Then you can select who can message you. Those who feel they make no difference can set them to off and those who feel it'll filter some fakes/time wasters out can switch more to on.

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