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By *onnie and John OP   Couple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

Hi, Admin hope you are all well, any chance of banning photos of Genitalia on your site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why? What's Jenny done?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

I know it will never happen, but /i would be so great.

And those who cant live without showing off they parts could move to IWillShowYouMyCock.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, Admin hope you are all well, any chance of banning photos of Genitalia on your site. "

No, we need to be able to see those who would do it if given the chance. That way we can out the dicks instead of the dick pics. It's a sacrifice but a rewarding one.

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hi, Admin hope you are all well, any chance of banning photos of Genitalia on your site.

No, we need to be able to see those who would do it if given the chance. That way we can out the dicks instead of the dick pics. It's a sacrifice but a rewarding one. "

You got a point.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Wouldnt that be lovley .....instead of some nut job greeting me with pics of his cock .....before ive even spoken to him .......guys please ....have a little class .

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"Hi, Admin hope you are all well, any chance of banning photos of Genitalia on your site. "

We like this. Gavin especially likes this, as when he looks at who's looked at us, he's bombarded by cock shots.

He's not a happy man.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Men / female or both?

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By *onnie and John OP   Couple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"Men / female or both?"

Definitely both..some are so off putting .and with the new porn on site rules , must be a move forward..

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By *callycatMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

You can't do that..some of my best friends on here are Dicks....the rest are cunts..

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By *onnie and John OP   Couple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"You can't do that..some of my best friends on here are Dicks....the rest are cunts.. "

typical guy thinking with his dinky..

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Men / female or both?

Definitely both..some are so off putting .and with the new porn on site rules , must be a move forward.. "

Showing genitalia isn't against porn rules.

To your OP, I hope they don't ban them as I like to see what I would be getting

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By *onnie and John OP   Couple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


" I like to see what I would be getting"

so funny most are padding from a porn site, but hay vote against it..lol..we think its degrading, and for a guy to have 100 of his cock ..well need to seek professional help.. just think its a waste of bandwidth ..

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I am not sure whats funny about my comment, but please don't take it personally that I have disagreed with a suggestion. It is just my view

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By *onnie and John OP   Couple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"I am not sure whats funny about my comment, but please don't take it personally that I have disagreed with a suggestion. It is just my view "

thats what we love about fab, we use it in different ways . do we meet a guy who has more pic of his dibky then face ,,no way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad idea. I like the variety of pictures and I like to know exactly what I'm getting when I meet someone.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I am not sure whats funny about my comment, but please don't take it personally that I have disagreed with a suggestion. It is just my view

thats what we love about fab, we use it in different ways . do we meet a guy who has more pic of his dibky then face ,,no way. "

Who has said they like to see more pics of dicks than face?

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By *onnie and John OP   Couple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

come on ,,most are dinky pics.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

As a couple looking for single men when we play then it isn't a problem for us. If we were a couple not looking for single men and cock pics were an issue for us then we would just not look at single mens profiles.

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By *onnie and John OP   Couple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"As a couple looking for single men when we play then it isn't a problem for us. If we were a couple not lookithere are single.. ng for single men and cock pics were an issue for us then we would just not look at single mens profiles. "

we have give up on meeting single men, as most are mar_ed playing away.. we do meet single men after we know there are single..not easy but can happen..do we need to see a loads of dick pic ..nope the guy inside is all that matters

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

What if he had a two inch cock?

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By *untimef_eddieMan
over a year ago

Isleworth

I like to look at pussy, if genitalia is banned then that means pussy too. Some pussies are nice to look at and for females some dicks too. I take the point it shouldn't be all about genitalia and nothing else. Maybe the way to go is to restrict the number of genitalia pics you can have on your profile, there must be other ways you can sell yourself.

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By *onnie and John OP   Couple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"What if he had a two inch cock?"

ok we have met a few with a smallish penis but inside is still a guy who needs affectation, the female is happy to play with my john..lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men / female or both?

Definitely both..some are so off putting .and with the new porn on site rules , must be a move forward..

Showing genitalia isn't against porn rules.

To your OP, I hope they don't ban them as I like to see what I would be getting"

Agreed

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By *onnie and John OP   Couple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

Karen, then you not put on your profile you would like .xxxxsizexx me not into servex bashes

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I'm not a fan of pics of people's bits but this is a swinging site not a porn site anyway

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"What if he had a two inch cock?

ok we have met a few with a smallish penis but inside is still a guy who needs affectation, the female is happy to play with my john..lol.. "

We are not looking to give people affection or receive it so that wouldn't suit us either.

If you are happy to sit on the sidelines at a meet then obviously thats your choice, but it would be pointless for me to do the same as there would be three of us sat looking at each other.

Your next comment on the thread is the same as your others,IE if you want to see a cock shot you must want to see hund_eds on the same profile, if you want to meet someone with more than a two inch cock you must want your cervix bashed. You seem to think there is no happy medium

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like looking at genitalia pics.

I don't see the issue.

You're here to put your bits in someone else/have someone else's bits in you, in one way or another.

You're going to see them sooner or later anyway unless you're planning nothing more than a fumble in the dark...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes this would be in fabs best interests...

if you think showing genitalia degrades the site..I think we should just generally ban the site as it promotes degrading behaviour, that doesn't fit in with good old fashioned values.

there is an option to turn off imagery I believe anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, what HAVE I done to deserve a ban? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God No!

I don't think id cope with that!

PTU xxx

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

when I decide to to swinger club I am not forced to push away pussies and cock flashing constantly in front of my face.

Here I feel like that, and too often it not only puts me off from the person who do that, but generally, swinging.

I don't think genitals or showing genitals are disgrace, but here people just don't have a style or class about it.

Actually I am not about fighting 'remove the genitals from this website" - well, this is swinging website, so if people think it this the best way of advertising themselves - let them do that.

But I am no shy to share my opinion and my feelings how I feel forced to see dick in every email, even if I am deleting it instantly.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

Admittedly I'd rather not see the, but it's a useful filter to instant delete messages and decide who not meet.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Men / female or both?

Definitely both..some are so off putting .and with the new porn on site rules , must be a move forward.. "

But surely it's better to see a photo of the off-putting ones rather than meeting the owners and coming face to cock/fanny with them?

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Men / female or both?

Definitely both..some are so off putting .and with the new porn on site rules , must be a move forward..

But surely it's better to see a photo of the off-putting ones rather than meeting the owners and coming face to cock/fanny with them?

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Usually pictures are way more off putting than real stuff.

And never happened so far if find one attractive and his dick would be gross.

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By *aurenkaWoman
over a year ago

London

Besides, it is not "i don't want to see dicks at all" I just don't want to see unwanted dicks.

If I would like to see someones dick, I can always ask, or go to private gallery. Thant is my way of handling things. Thank you

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It would be good to have a choice, so if I could have a filter that didn't let any genitalia photos show to me.

It's either all pics or no pics as a filter at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be in favour of a filter because I would rather not look at explicit pictures

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"I would be in favour of a filter because I would rather not look at explicit pictures"

This for us too.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Block them all?

No.

But maybe have the ability to only receive pics of a certain rating. When I upload a pic I have to choose how rude it is ie. PG for a face pic or fully clothed upto xxx for full sex. If I could tick a box that only allowed PG pics sent to me then I wouldn't have to open a Hi message with 25 pics of the guys cock taken from several different unflattering angles.

That would be quite useful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was put off my porridge one morning. I wish I hadn't looked .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats a good idea! For me, the photos someone chooses to display in public is telling about the kind of person they are...also the photos in the people they have been verified by.

So usefull tools in more way than one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously has a pecker

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Block them all?

No.

But maybe have the ability to only receive pics of a certain rating. When I upload a pic I have to choose how rude it is ie. PG for a face pic or fully clothed upto xxx for full sex. If I could tick a box that only allowed PG pics sent to me then I wouldn't have to open a Hi message with 25 pics of the guys cock taken from several different unflattering angles.

That would be quite useful."

That seems a happy medium and a good idea for anyone who objects to cock pics etc in mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block them all?

No.

But maybe have the ability to only receive pics of a certain rating. When I upload a pic I have to choose how rude it is ie. PG for a face pic or fully clothed upto xxx for full sex. If I could tick a box that only allowed PG pics sent to me then I wouldn't have to open a Hi message with 25 pics of the guys cock taken from several different unflattering angles.

That would be quite useful.

That seems a happy medium and a good idea for anyone who objects to cock pics etc in mail "

I think this is a great idea. I would not send any other kind of message with an intimate photo so why here? I agree the more explicit pics should be kept in private and therefore available on request.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

At least on the profile pics would be awesome

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By *atindollTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

I like to see what I'm getting so no ban please

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By *onnie and John OP   Couple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


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That seems a happy medium and a good idea for anyone who objects to cock pics etc in mail "

hi, sounds like a plan, one of the reasons I started this thread is the new eu laws coming into effect 2018/9 on storing images, but hay uk is leaving at sometime so maybe this and other uk sites that use a outside uk sever will be ok , sure the admin legal team are up on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have got no objection to tasteful pictures of female genitalia but those of a woman surrounded by a group of men cove_ed in their semen should definitely be banned.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Karen, then you not put on your profile you would like .xxxxsizexx me not into servex bashes "
so what if a guy shows up with a 12 inch dick because you don't like to see pics of what you are getting?

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

There are some tasteful pics but some are rank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't do that..some of my best friends on here are Dicks....the rest are cunts.. "

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I think folks need to think about the potential impact on the UK economy, the associated fall in the sales of Lynx cans and Sky remotes could be devastating

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By *nehotguy4funMan
over a year ago

North East


"

That seems a happy medium and a good idea for anyone who objects to cock pics etc in mail

hi, sounds like a plan, one of the reasons I started this thread is the new eu laws coming into effect 2018/9 on storing images, but hay uk is leaving at sometime so maybe this and other uk sites that use a outside uk sever will be ok , sure the admin legal team are up on it. "

Luckily we'll be out of the EU around that time!

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By *atindollTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh


"I think folks need to think about the potential impact on the UK economy, the associated fall in the sales of Lynx cans and Sky remotes could be devastating "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the website name could be changed to fab Knitting circle or Fab Gardeners World after the pix have all been removed.

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By *uxinteriorMan
over a year ago

south west , continental

Genitalia pictures! Now I have seen some down right awful fanny pics posted on here, in fact mad axeman attack comes to mind! But beauty is in the eye of the beholder!

On a personal level I would not even consider posting a pic of my dick. I have them which my friends can see, and I am happy to give out on request I'm not a prude! As we all I presume when we meet and find some attraction get naked together. Why should we not have something to remember the momentus occasion by! Some genitalia pics though I find rather pretty, there are some fine well looked after genitalia. But I hasten to add it should all be shown at the right time and place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last turkey in the shop or a pair of beef curtains??

Where would we all be without them....??

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By *ougar_n_TILFCouple
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

Could there be a clarification. No genitalia pics as profile pics? That'd get our vote.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could there be a clarification. No genitalia pics as profile pics? That'd get our vote. "

cant see any justification for it...unless a law comes in of course.

what do people think would happen to the site...ooh lets guess...people will just move elsewhere. Thats in fabs interests isnt it......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, Admin hope you are all well, any chance of banning photos of Genitalia on your site. "

It's a ridiculous suggestion. This is a site of a sexual nature not Blue Peter. If you don't want to see genitalia at all maybe you are on the wrong site. So some may unsavoury but that's the members right as long as they are not breaking the rules.

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By *ustJ0dieTV/TS
over a year ago

Burton-on-Trent

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Some of us like to see the genital goodies, to help fine tune who to continue chatting with.

I can see why some would like the ban, at least for the main pic - but it would seem a huge job to get thousands of users to amend their profiles to get everything to one standard.

It would push fab towards fbook standards, even though we're an adult sexual content site. Perhaps profiles could have a setting, where when they browse others they opt to see certain types of pics only - this would put the onus onto the people who who want to opt out of full nudity having to make the changes, rather than everyone else.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

What !!! Really your better off on Pinterest!!!! Love the distance beach shot, all one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to get meets as it is, if I sent a pic of my cock it would be game over!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to see what I'm getting so no ban please "

snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ban all the endless close up boob shots, boring

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I can't say I particularly enjoy the pics, far from it, but, for me it filters those who are happy to sell themselves as a cock. Makes the ones that do put effort into their profile stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind most genitalia pics, but I'd like to see a block on cum shots, and vag pics where you can see her tonsils, never mind her cervix.

I know people say it is the person you are meeting, but it's also the genitals you could be playing with.

If you are so sensitive that you don't want to see any sex organs, maybe you should join a christian dating site.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I agree that guys shouldn't send pics of their dicks when not wanted. If they want to display their wares, they have a picture of it on their profile for all to see IF INTERESTED. I don't get the guys and girls who put 30+ photos of the same thing on there page. 2 is enough.

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By *ougar_n_TILFCouple
over a year ago

Burton on Trent


"Could there be a clarification. No genitalia pics as profile pics? That'd get our vote.

cant see any justification for it...unless a law comes in of course.

what do people think would happen to the site...ooh lets guess...people will just move elsewhere. Thats in fabs interests isnt it......"

Yes because that's the logical conclusion to that train of thought isn't it: When they weren't allowed sad cock pics or badly packed kebabs as profile pics, only other body parts, the site membership dwindled and died.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joking aside . . seriously . . this April did see the Digital Economy Bill become law? Google it for the implications of the "amendments" that may seriously impact upon web-sites within the adult sector.

Admin are aware and have been for some time, this Law has been well discussed in some areas of the media.

For the moment the Nasty Party have other things on their mind . . but at some point in the future expect to see this and other web-sites have to change to remain visible.

Sad but true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What !!! Really your better off on Pinterest!!!! Love the distance beach shot, all one of them. "

Here Here.

That picture could be anyone laid naked on a beach and even taken without their knowledge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The idea of a filter is a great idea if the picture is public and is of a certain category then pixelated unless you have your settings set to view them but could that also be applied to messages?

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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago

Cap d’Agde, France


"Hi, Admin hope you are all well, any chance of banning photos of Genitalia on your site.

No, we need to be able to see those who would do it if given the chance. That way we can out the dicks instead of the dick pics. It's a sacrifice but a rewarding one.

You got a point."

All our images on this site and others are decided by both of us.

I can't help feeling that many females would be shocked and embarrassed by what their partners show without consulting them.

Bottom line though is that you put up images that give a hint of who you are and what you are into.

It seems to me, whether classy or crude, a good way of advertising yourself and your particular penchants.

No censorship please, this is and should remain a very broad school!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id say fake profiles and timewasters are a bigger concern than how many cock pics people have. Dont look if you dont like, look if you do. Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you upload photos you do select what is in the picture and there used to be an option for no pictures shown, perhaps a setting which essentially block cock shots from you view would be suitable for your wants then you wouldn't upset the folk that fancy getting a look up close.

Or just ignore them, even if you feel they are giving you the eye..

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Hi, Admin hope you are all well, any chance of banning photos of Genitalia on your site. "

I don't find pictures of genitals offensive on here. If someone wants to show them off, they should be able to.

I can choose to look/ move along or delete.

What's next, no boobs and bare bums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you have a meet do you just not look at the genital area? Do you close your eyes or lights off? What about eachothers are you offended by those too or those exempt from the genitals are gross rule?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, Admin hope you are all well, any chance of banning photos of Genitalia on your site. "

Pretty stupid idea. You do know this is a sex site right? This is just another example of one person trying to impose their wishes on everyone else. In fact this has really peed me off. If you don't like these kind of pics youre on the wrong kind of site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Despite being "on topic" and highly relevant nobody picked up on our posting about the "DEB" made six days ago?

Par for the course for this web-site then.

Well . . YOU all now need to sit up and listen as this WILL happen in less than 9 months. read it all here :

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/technology-40630582

. . and they have no idea yet how they are going to do this.

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By *mooth shaftMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Hi, Admin hope you are all well, any chance of banning photos of Genitalia on your site. "

Are you serious?? .... on a sex site ... laughable

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Hi, Admin hope you are all well, any chance of banning photos of Genitalia on your site.

Are you serious?? .... on a sex site ... laughable "

You're mistaken.

It's a swingers site, that's the mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a fan of pics of people's bits but this is a swinging site not a porn site anyway "

I completely agree this is about meeting like minded people and I too get fed up with opening a message forcing to look at a penis which quite frankly is not attractive in pictures, by all means if your chatting, and you wish to see before meeting those can be exchanged privately however judging by a picture is never accurate better to see in the flesh.. The internet is flooded with pictures if that is a persons turn on.. However on this site a person can be more interesting without showing their all..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to pipe in here, if fab wanted to release an app to the store, you wouldnt be able to have genitalia as a profile pic otherwise the app would be pulled (as far as im aware). Another swingers site has imposed that rule so that they can have an app that people use.

Saying that genitalia doesnt bother us lol

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Just to pipe in here, if fab wanted to release an app to the store, you wouldnt be able to have genitalia as a profile pic otherwise the app would be pulled (as far as im aware). Another swingers site has imposed that rule so that they can have an app that people use.

Saying that genitalia doesnt bother us lol"

The apple store definately doesnt allow apps of an adult nature. So a swingers app wouldnt be allowed whether there was nudity or not. Im not sure about the google stores rules.

I personally have no issue with anyones choice of pics.

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

It a eems a tad draconian to ban genitalia on what is an adult site.

After conducting some completely unscientific profile research where comments have been left, it seems over half the females & couples supporting a ban or in favour of having a rating system have photos sucking a cock, rubbing a cock, playing with a cock substitute (banana / cucumber) or wearing a strapon in their public photos.

Who knows if this finding has any correlation to the people receiving unwanted cock photos?? That said, this is where a significant number of the male population runs into problems.

Men will look at photos, think 'she loves cock' and send one or more photos of their own tiddler/ chopper / trouser snake before asking would they like to receive them.

I didn't post cock photos when I joined as people moaned in the forums about seeing them.

I changed tack and posted a couple after a few years here. My inbox levels stayed the same with and without public cock shots and it made no difference between the amount or nature of meets. No one has ever complained about my public cock photos.

What's different though is that I wouldn't walk up to a woman or couple in public, grab them by the hair and force them to look at my cock, although I'm sure there is a sub-genre of that type out there, but I digress.

I'm able to understand that sending a picture of my cock as an opening message isn't generally likely to get me a good response, a'la the scenario above so I don't do that. Unless the profile or meet request specifically asks for them in my opening approach.

Clearly a proportion of guys don't understand this and forget the anonymity of the Internet makes you do and say things you wouldn't do or say in public.

Education not censorship is the key. The OP, as an expat, will realise the education system here and in particular sex and social education is bad.

There is no quick society or educational fix. Until then 'hide your profile' if you don't want unsolicited messages with pictures as admin probably have other things to deal with. I would caveat that with the ability to contact 'hidden' friend profiles would be dead handy.

As people have said, messages with photos are a good reason to delete without opening unless you know the sender.

Peace & Love.

MHG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not sure whats funny about my comment, but please don't take it personally that I have disagreed with a suggestion. It is just my view

thats what we love about fab, we use it in different ways . do we meet a guy who has more pic of his dibky then face ,,no way. "

So you use it in differnt ways but want to dictate to others how they use it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Despite being "on topic" and highly relevant nobody picked up on our posting about the "DEB" made six days ago?

Par for the course for this web-site then.

Well . . YOU all now need to sit up and listen as this WILL happen in less than 9 months. read it all here :

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/technology-40630582

. . and they have no idea yet how they are going to do this. "

It won't happen. Or if they do it will be at isp level.

Simplest solution is simply ren't a server outside the uk

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Bad idea. I like the variety of pictures and I like to know exactly what I'm getting when I meet someone. "

Me too

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By *arnsleybigwMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

Perhaps a better option would be in your preferences. A button that describes the level of nudity you would accept and want to see. After all when photos are added you have to say what they are so would be easy to add a button filtering out dick pics just an idea.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Perhaps a better option would be in your preferences. A button that describes the level of nudity you would accept and want to see. After all when photos are added you have to say what they are so would be easy to add a button filtering out dick pics just an idea. "

They have this option on another site that we have been on.

It really helps to sort the Wheat from the Chaff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it will never happen, but /i would be so great.

And those who cant live without showing off they parts could move to IWillShowYouMyCock.com"

Considering each picture must be approved upon upload, and they're also categorised, why can't the admin just add an additional tick box on your profile that says, block dick pics?

It would stop people sending them if they thought that by default they would never be sent, and there seem to be a lot less happy recipients than there are people that hate them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP are you saying out of focus pictures of beach umbrellas and green bags are better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The human body is a thing to be ashamed of and we should all remain cove_ed up as much as possible. Glimpses of flesh can only lead to wanton depravity.

While we are at it,lets ban music,dancing,wine,,,any form of pleasure,otherwise none of us will be going to heaven.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"The human body is a thing to be ashamed of and we should all remain cove_ed up as much as possible. Glimpses of flesh can only lead to wanton depravity.

While we are at it,lets ban music,dancing,wine,,,any form of pleasure,otherwise none of us will be going to heaven.

"
totally right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Despite being "on topic" and highly relevant nobody picked up on our posting about the "DEB" made six days ago?

Par for the course for this web-site then.

Well . . YOU all now need to sit up and listen as this WILL happen in less than 9 months. read it all here :

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/technology-40630582

. . and they have no idea yet how they are going to do this.

It won't happen. Or if they do it will be at isp level.

Simplest solution is simply ren't a server outside the uk"

It's amazing how many Fab users believe that our Government won't take away their "guilty pleasure" of having legal access to on-line adult material . . some of which is already a criminal offence since the revised sexual offences law in 2014 . . but we're sorry to say that you and all the others are giving a good account of being an ostrich. This is ALL fact.

The DEB became law in April 2017 and the wise knew that it's implementation would be rushed through once our lame duck Government wanted to have something to take the heat off them, lack of majority, Brexit, etc. So this WILL happen within the next 12 months . . live with it!

Sorry but your quote : "Simplest solution is simply ren't a server outside the uk" shows typical lack of understanding . . they thought of that and the DEB will also outlaw ALL content coming into the UK that does not comply with their regulations . . you can have your "secret server" on Mars for all it matters . . .

. . . and there are already existing precedents of our Government applying pressure to ISP's, they did it over pirated music content, they'll do the same with porn.

We feel sorry for Admin as they will end up working in the dark due to the bad wording of this legislation BUT the biggest change with Fab may come with "free accounts" . . . they may need to use and/or record c_edit card details simply for this web-site's owners to comply with the regulator.

Like we said . . sad but true.

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By *onnie and John OP   Couple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

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By *onnie and John OP   Couple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"OP are you saying out of focus pictures of beach umbrellas and green bags are better! "

Our photos they do the job we need.

Read and enjoy the new anti porn world is about to cum.

Any meta data received into uk, is at the moment policed by GCHQ so having a off shore server would be no use.

https://www.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/600735/Draft_Online_Pornography_Commercial_Basis_Regulations_2017.pdf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Karen, then you not put on your profile you would like .xxxxsizexx me not into servex bashes so what if a guy shows up with a 12 inch dick because you don't like to see pics of what you are getting?"

Most I think would clap hands excitedly At a 12 inch cock arriving

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By *lectromagnetic_candyWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"You can't do that..some of my best friends on here are Dicks....the rest are cunts..

typical guy thinking with his dinky.. "

I think we should ban people who use the word 'dinky'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know it will never happen, but /i would be so great.

And those who cant live without showing off they parts could move to IWillShowYouMyCock.com"

Wouldn't it be better if you followed what I say. If a profile pic is of a penis then be prepa_ed to drop your pants and show it in public to prove you the guy on my date. The amount of guys that show a face pic to me know I will ask to drop em as proof.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Despite being "on topic" and highly relevant nobody picked up on our posting about the "DEB" made six days ago?

Par for the course for this web-site then.

Well . . YOU all now need to sit up and listen as this WILL happen in less than 9 months. read it all here :

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/technology-40630582

. . and they have no idea yet how they are going to do this.

It won't happen. Or if they do it will be at isp level.

Simplest solution is simply ren't a server outside the uk

It's amazing how many Fab users believe that our Government won't take away their "guilty pleasure" of having legal access to on-line adult material . . some of which is already a criminal offence since the revised sexual offences law in 2014 . . but we're sorry to say that you and all the others are giving a good account of being an ostrich. This is ALL fact.

The DEB became law in April 2017 and the wise knew that it's implementation would be rushed through once our lame duck Government wanted to have something to take the heat off them, lack of majority, Brexit, etc. So this WILL happen within the next 12 months . . live with it!

Sorry but your quote : "Simplest solution is simply ren't a server outside the uk" shows typical lack of understanding . . they thought of that and the DEB will also outlaw ALL content coming into the UK that does not comply with their regulations . . you can have your "secret server" on Mars for all it matters . . .

. . . and there are already existing precedents of our Government applying pressure to ISP's, they did it over pirated music content, they'll do the same with porn.

We feel sorry for Admin as they will end up working in the dark due to the bad wording of this legislation BUT the biggest change with Fab may come with "free accounts" . . . they may need to use and/or record c_edit card details simply for this web-site's owners to comply with the regulator.

Like we said . . sad but true. "

All very sweet and that but its still not going to happen.

123movies for instance is a site blocked by every uk isp under the piracy laws.

Go put it in google, best you at least 2 out of 3 of the first 3 results work just fine for you.

Things like this arent a case of law or political will theyre simply a case of technical impossibility.

"It will outlaw all content comming into the uk" oh no! I'm sure panama, Russia or pretty much anywhere is really about to crush its own citizens because the UK says it doesn't like it!

Remenber when the government was going to ban SSL encryption a few years back?

It was absolutley going to go....notice how the very page your reading now is SSL encrypted along with nearly every page on the web these days?

Or how about those ID cards were all going to have to have legally?

The government makes up stupid projects all the time doesnt mean anything every comes from them.

(Then again look at project tempura a truly terrifying success, But that was all illegal. Maybe they only put the good civil servants on the illegal projects)

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

So true.

The salient points in the article are:

But details as to how the scheme will work have yet to be finalised.

Experts who advised ministers said the targeted date seemed "unrealistic"

The age-check requirement applies to any website or other online platform that provides pornography "on a commercial basis" to people in the UK.

So it refers to where the data is accessed from not the home of the webserver.

As for the OP. There are puritan dating websites out there! So leave fabs for the degenerate to have their fun. Heaven lies on a different path for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a couple looking for single men when we play then it isn't a problem for us. If we were a couple not lookithere are single.. ng for single men and cock pics were an issue for us then we would just not look at single mens profiles.

we have give up on meeting single men, as most are mar_ed playing away.. we do meet single men after we know there are single..not easy but can happen..do we need to see a loads of dick pic ..nope the guy inside is all that matters "

Sounds like your looking for a relationship lol try e-harmony or POF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP are you saying out of focus pictures of beach umbrellas and green bags are better!

Our photos they do the job we need.

Read and enjoy the new anti porn world is about to cum.

Any meta data received into uk, is at the moment policed by GCHQ so having a off shore server would be no use.

https://www.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/600735/Draft_Online_Pornography_Commercial_Basis_Regulations_2017.pdf

"

As genitalia pics may work for others!

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable


"OP are you saying out of focus pictures of beach umbrellas and green bags are better!

Our photos they do the job we need.

Read and enjoy the new anti porn world is about to cum.

Any meta data received into uk, is at the moment policed by GCHQ so having a off shore server would be no use.

https://www.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/600735/Draft_Online_Pornography_Commercial_Basis_Regulations_2017.pdf

As genitalia pics may work for others! "
yep why would you, it's a swinging site not fooking face book. If you don't like it move on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna stop posting anything sexual...just in case this law comes in

aye fuckin right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP are you saying out of focus pictures of beach umbrellas and green bags are better!

Our photos they do the job we need.

Read and enjoy the new anti porn world is about to cum.

Any meta data received into uk, is at the moment policed by GCHQ so having a off shore server would be no use.

https://www.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/600735/Draft_Online_Pornography_Commercial_Basis_Regulations_2017.pdf

"

Thank you for posting that link as almost all users of this web-site will be unfamiliar with much of the wording.

Many reading this will say " . . but I'm a free member of Fab-Swingers and they get no money from me . . my porn is FREE so these rules don't apply!"

Such individuals are 101% deluded and uninformed.

This web-site is a COMMERCIAL BUSINESS so ALL such sections of the DEB apply to them . . when the regulator comes knocking in the future they will need to prove they have robust "age verification" in use . . failure to do so may mean they will have committed a criminal offence and, likely, they'll be black listed by UK ISP's when the DEB Regulator applies pressure to them. These ISP's remember are also COMMERCIAL BUSINESSES so they will put their business first and simply agree. Believe it!

However always remember these "laws" are always written vaguely so that they can be tweaked . . so the wording within Section 4.- (1)(b) means that even the small kickback they get from all those adverts that free members have to view applies. Thus Fab Swingers may need to show that even it's free membership has undergone age verification.

It's too late to moan about this, it's THE LAW, individuals will need to exercise caution and be aware what is happening . . smart adult market businesses have already started to make the changes they need to continue without hamper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If tou dont like to see what people have between their legs.

A, Don't look.

B, Don't be on a site that had shown pics of what is between peoples legs.

C, Move to another kind of social media, like facebook or Eharmony.

D Don't try to spoil it for the rest of us who like to look at this kind of photo.

It is an adult site, where adult material is posted by concenting adults for other adults to view. Calling it a 'dinky' makes you sound 6 years old

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

It would be a shame to ban them outright. There are some beautiful pics of pussys... Not many of dicks.... But it's an outlet for some people to post intimate pics.. Let them have that fun

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire


"Yeah, what HAVE I done to deserve a ban? Lol"

Well, tell us ALL the bad, naughty things you've done recently and we'll let you know

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By *ent57Man
over a year ago

... where the streets have no name!


"If tou dont like to see what people have between their legs.

A, Don't look.

B, Don't be on a site that had shown pics of what is between peoples legs.

C, Move to another kind of social media, like facebook or Eharmony.

D Don't try to spoil it for the rest of us who like to look at this kind of photo.

It is an adult site, where adult material is posted by concenting adults for other adults to view. Calling it a 'dinky' makes you sound 6 years old"

None on my public gallery [I'm shy!!] .... but to ban them would be daft

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

We obviously disagree, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, Admin hope you are all well, any chance of banning photos of Genitalia on your site. "

Can Admin also ban pictures of what could be anyone laid on a nudist beach ?

I know when me and my wife have been on nudist beaches there have been guys slow down and take sneaky pictures with their phones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, Admin hope you are all well, any chance of banning photos of Genitalia on your site.

Can Admin also ban pictures of what could be anyone laid on a nudist beach ?

I know when me and my wife have been on nudist beaches there have been guys slow down and take sneaky pictures with their phones. "

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By *parkle......Woman
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"Hi, Admin hope you are all well, any chance of banning photos of Genitalia on your site. "

I second that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, Admin hope you are all well, any chance of banning photos of Genitalia on your site. "

As opposed to a single photo of a beach ? Though very nice of no indication in reality of the profile holders!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a fan of pics of people's bits but this is a swinging site not a porn site anyway "
totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot help but notice those who seem to shout the loudest and want to close down on the said type of photos ether have no photos or one photo shot in bad light while orbiting a neutral planet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genitalia ban ??? They best thing is to ask them for I'd in public. If they show a cock pic as their pic. Would they have the balls to show it in open public eg bar restaurant etc

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

No genetailia on a swingers site?

If you don't like it you don't have to look.

Simple you have applied your own filter. A but like when there is nothing good on TV, turn it off.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Genitalia ban ??? They best thing is to ask them for I'd in public. If they show a cock pic as their pic. Would they have the balls to show it in open public eg bar restaurant etc"

What an odd thing to say. Most people wouldn't show their bits in public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just odd but also suggesting activity risking criminal prosecution!

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By *XimagesCouple
over a year ago

north liverpool

I think its probably more useful to suggest to people that a good mix of images 'may' lead to more meets... however how this could be achieved and who would take note is a different thing..

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area


"Block them all?

No.

But maybe have the ability to only receive pics of a certain rating. When I upload a pic I have to choose how rude it is ie. PG for a face pic or fully clothed upto xxx for full sex. If I could tick a box that only allowed PG pics sent to me then I wouldn't have to open a Hi message with 25 pics of the guys cock taken from several different unflattering angles.

That would be quite useful."

We used to be on another site that had something like this. I think it's agood idea! (However I did get one pic marked as x-rated because it looked like I was touching myself, but I was actually trying to cover myself up with my hand haha). You also weren't allowed to have genitalia as your profile pic.

Suggestion: Anything X-rated goes behind some kind of filter that you can turn on and off while browsing, or into a 2nd album on your profile.

Might even encourage people to put some other pics on their profiles other than close-ups. Might get to see some nice undies and full body shots!

Could even extend the filtering/albums to be able to quickly see "pics of him" "pics of her" "pics of both" and if it's your thing, "action shots".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be keen to see some form of filter like this, but for messages, especially initial ones. Like a filter than bans the sender attaching any image that they have tagged nude? Guys this doesn't filter out the single guys that put their cocks as their profile pic. Boke.

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By *old200Man
over a year ago

Congleton


"You can't do that..some of my best friends on here are Dicks....the rest are cunts.. "

lol funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We would be keen to see some form of filter like this, but for messages, especially initial ones. Like a filter than bans the sender attaching any image that they have tagged nude? Guys this doesn't filter out the single guys that put their cocks as their profile pic. Boke. "

i dont mind anyy filter message block.

but the OP's clear intent is/was to BAN any explicit pictures...they also made this a single male cock bashing thread..regardless of their allegedly shit profile pic of my nanna doing her thing in salou...ok..it was my sister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

absolutely not - seeing some of the horrible penises and/or vaginas on here helps us decide who NOT to meet. If they simply had photos of themselves and then we had to see such grotesque sights when we met - would waste so much time.

Genital appearance can be v important to some people x

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By *onnie and John OP   Couple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"but the OP's clear intent is/was to BAN any explicit pictures...they also made this a single male cock bashing thread..regardless of their allegedly shit profile pic of my nanna doing her thing in salou...ok..it was my sister"

hi pat would you like to point out where we made this thread about cock bashing?

"they also made this a single male cock bashing thread"

we taken the comments regarding our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but the OP's clear intent is/was to BAN any explicit pictures...they also made this a single male cock bashing thread..regardless of their allegedly shit profile pic of my nanna doing her thing in salou...ok..it was my sister

hi pat would you like to point out where we made this thread about cock bashing?

"they also made this a single male cock bashing thread"

we taken the comments regarding our profile. "

I apologise...about the claim I made lol...of course still I'm anti-genitalia-ban .

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

hi pat would you like to point out where we made this thread about cock bashing?

"they also made this a single male cock bashing thread"

"

To be fair, although you answe_ed that it was male and female pics you were talking about, the rest of your posts were aimed at males cock pics

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

PS, please remember the OP didn't ask for their profile or pics to be discussed

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Err... looking back on my “who’s viewed” I’m surprised to see some kvetching about dick pics having perved (& fabbed) some of mine!!!

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