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By *JJJJx OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Why, when people leave the site, do verifications have to disappear?? As with old messages, why can't they instead remain and simply state "user no longer on site" in place of the username? Veris are an important aspect of fab, which people use to assess the viability of a potential meet, the character of members, and indeed how genuine people are. Could this be changed? Would members welcome this change? Jx

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By *imetoexplore69Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I'm sure you get to keep the verification mark but you lose the text.

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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire


"Why, when people leave the site, do verifications have to disappear?? As with old messages, why can't they instead remain and simply state "user no longer on site" in place of the username? Veris are an important aspect of fab, which people use to assess the viability of a potential meet, the character of members, and indeed how genuine people are. Could this be changed? Would members welcome this change? Jx "

A verification means your real and of the sex you say you are so the tick is all you really need, the text means nothing the person could still stand you up, be an idiot or be just not as good as the verification made out

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By *JJJJx OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

I disagree. The written verifications give, as I said, an insight into the character of the individual & an indication of what can be expected from a meet with them. Personally, I think they're useful - there's a lot more to knowing someone is a) real b) the sex they say they are

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Why, when people leave the site, do verifications have to disappear?? As with old messages, why can't they instead remain and simply state "user no longer on site" in place of the username? Veris are an important aspect of fab, which people use to assess the viability of a potential meet, the character of members, and indeed how genuine people are. Could this be changed? Would members welcome this change? Jx "
I agree that the verivication should remain with unlos beside it because lots of people wont meet members if they dont have a verivication to show and if you only have one and the member who left it leaves you then have nothing to show.

Id also like the option to either leave your username on a verivication or opt out by leaving an anonymous verication too

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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire


"I disagree. The written verifications give, as I said, an insight into the character of the individual & an indication of what can be expected from a meet with them. Personally, I think they're useful - there's a lot more to knowing someone is a) real b) the sex they say they are"

I get what you mean but one person's idea of how someone acts can be totally different from how you find them, i feel you should get to know the person not what a verification says about them

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By *JJJJx OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

You're right, but the verification at least gives you an idea of who you're getting to know. Personally I see absolutely no downside to the veris remaining - they were genuinely given, and can be hidden by the recipient at any time of they wish. Why remove them?

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Problems could potentially arise if people were mentioned by name in a veri.

some people leave the site in a messy way, and from that point of view its much neater.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why, when people leave the site, do verifications have to disappear?? As with old messages, why can't they instead remain and simply state "user no longer on site" in place of the username? Veris are an important aspect of fab, which people use to assess the viability of a potential meet, the character of members, and indeed how genuine people are. Could this be changed? Would members welcome this change? Jx "

we'd be highly suspicious of anyone who's verification list was a long line of UNLOS...

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By *JJJJx OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

A fair point re: names, though surely the simple solution would be not to name yourself when leaving a verification (why would you?)

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By *JJJJx OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Again, why would anyone have a long list of UNLOS? The user can be selective over which veris and how many to display. My point is that, at present, the recipient has absolutely no control

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By *heRainManMan
over a year ago

Warrington & Glasgow


"The written verifications give, as I said, an insight into the character of the individual & an indication of what can be expected from a meet with them."
I think that the text of a verification would actually give you much more an insight into the character of the UNLOS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only person on here who thinks repeat verifications are unnecessary? A verification is to show the person is genuine and turns up to meet. Of course a description of their allure is good too but do we really need to see loads of other veris from the same person after subsequent meets? I have had several meets with some of my verifiers but I don't see any point in further veris.

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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire


"Am I the only person on here who thinks repeat verifications are unnecessary? A verification is to show the person is genuine and turns up to meet. Of course a description of their allure is good too but do we really need to see loads of other veris from the same person after subsequent meets? I have had several meets with some of my verifiers but I don't see any point in further veris."

Totally agree some people use them as a grading system,, have seen 4 or 5 veris from the same person on a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only person on here who thinks repeat verifications are unnecessary? A verification is to show the person is genuine and turns up to meet. Of course a description of their allure is good too but do we really need to see loads of other veris from the same person after subsequent meets? I have had several meets with some of my verifiers but I don't see any point in further veris.

Totally agree some people use them as a grading system,, have seen 4 or 5 veris from the same person on a profile "

Thanks for your reply and I'm glad someone agrees with me! I had a man pursuing me who I wasn't interested in anyway but he had literally dozens of veris from the same woman, they were almost every other day, they met again, the sex gets better etc.! How boring. I blocked him in the end.

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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire


"Am I the only person on here who thinks repeat verifications are unnecessary? A verification is to show the person is genuine and turns up to meet. Of course a description of their allure is good too but do we really need to see loads of other veris from the same person after subsequent meets? I have had several meets with some of my verifiers but I don't see any point in further veris.

Totally agree some people use them as a grading system,, have seen 4 or 5 veris from the same person on a profile

Thanks for your reply and I'm glad someone agrees with me! I had a man pursuing me who I wasn't interested in anyway but he had literally dozens of veris from the same woman, they were almost every other day, they met again, the sex gets better etc.! How boring. I blocked him in the end."

Yeah totally.. i said further up the post a veri is to prove your real and of the sex you state you are.. not how brilliant you are at blow jobs etc lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only person on here who thinks repeat verifications are unnecessary? A verification is to show the person is genuine and turns up to meet. Of course a description of their allure is good too but do we really need to see loads of other veris from the same person after subsequent meets? I have had several meets with some of my verifiers but I don't see any point in further veris."

I tend to display just my most recent veri from someone who's verified me multiple times. Especially if it's been months between meets. I like to think it shows that I'm still active and meeting on the site x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past I've called out guys on fake veris, including an incredibly shady looking creep with with a string of veris from two unbelievably pretty girls aged 19 who continually went overboard in their description of his prowess. They both had one very basic veri from this guy, yet poured repeated praise upon him in numerous veris each. A reverse image search unsurprisingly turned up the girls pics on porn sites. I called him out on it reported it too. He and his verifiers vanished immediately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only person on here who thinks repeat verifications are unnecessary? A verification is to show the person is genuine and turns up to meet. Of course a description of their allure is good too but do we really need to see loads of other veris from the same person after subsequent meets? I have had several meets with some of my verifiers but I don't see any point in further veris.

Totally agree some people use them as a grading system,, have seen 4 or 5 veris from the same person on a profile

Thanks for your reply and I'm glad someone agrees with me! I had a man pursuing me who I wasn't interested in anyway but he had literally dozens of veris from the same woman, they were almost every other day, they met again, the sex gets better etc.! How boring. I blocked him in the end."

^^^ so much this!!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If a user who verified you got banned, it may be reasonable in admins view that the text disappears - otherwise decent members who have been using the site for it's intended purpose, should get the choice of retaining the fuller veri including text Imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In the past I've called out guys on fake veris, including an incredibly shady looking creep with with a string of veris from two unbelievably pretty girls aged 19 who continually went overboard in their description of his prowess. They both had one very basic veri from this guy, yet poured repeated praise upon him in numerous veris each. A reverse image search unsurprisingly turned up the girls pics on porn sites. I called him out on it reported it too. He and his verifiers vanished immediately. "
Incredible! The lengths some people will go to in order to get noticed. Good for you being vigilant

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By *JJJJx OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

I agree with this 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why, when people leave the site, do verifications have to disappear?? As with old messages, why can't they instead remain and simply state "user no longer on site" in place of the username? Veris are an important aspect of fab, which people use to assess the viability of a potential meet, the character of members, and indeed how genuine people are. Could this be changed? Would members welcome this change? Jx

A verification means your real and of the sex you say you are so the tick is all you really need, the text means nothing the person could still stand you up, be an idiot or be just not as good as the verification made out "

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why, when people leave the site, do verifications have to disappear?? As with old messages, why can't they instead remain and simply state "user no longer on site" in place of the username? Veris are an important aspect of fab, which people use to assess the viability of a potential meet, the character of members, and indeed how genuine people are. Could this be changed? Would members welcome this change? Jx

A verification means your real and of the sex you say you are so the tick is all you really need, the text means nothing the person could still stand you up, be an idiot or be just not as good as the verification made out "

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why, when people leave the site, do verifications have to disappear?? As with old messages, why can't they instead remain and simply state "user no longer on site" in place of the username? Veris are an important aspect of fab, which people use to assess the viability of a potential meet, the character of members, and indeed how genuine people are. Could this be changed? Would members welcome this change? Jx

A verification means your real and of the sex you say you are so the tick is all you really need, the text means nothing the person could still stand you up, be an idiot or be just not as good as the verification made out "

Couldn't agree more

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By *aseman_291Man
over a year ago

kildare

Hi all,, Cam chatting or chating or K,, chatting ,why is it so that lady still won't verify, dose chatting on them count at all,, thanks

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