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Showing gender clearer on couples accounts

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By *aughtyenglishboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Poole

Hi team,

Great site - just had my first meet

Could you make it easier to show the gender on couples accounts? As it is almost impossible to work out which is which gender on some accounts particularly those using single letters for first names. Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you hoping to interact with only one half of the couple?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Are you hoping to interact with only one half of the couple?"

When one half of the couple you're looking at is bi... it's nice to know which one before making contact. And... in the absence of photos there is a big difference between a 5'4" curvy lady with a 6'6" large guy and a 5'4" curvy guy with a 6'6" large lady.

Cal

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By *aughtyenglishboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Poole

CalandNitaFind - yes correct.

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By *aughtyenglishboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Poole

No, see CalandNitaFind comment which is why I have asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you hoping to interact with only one half of the couple?

When one half of the couple you're looking at is bi... it's nice to know which one before making contact. And... in the absence of photos there is a big difference between a 5'4" curvy lady with a 6'6" large guy and a 5'4" curvy guy with a 6'6" large lady.

Cal"

The op is straight,well says straight on profile,and yes I get what you are saying,of course it would be a welcome addition.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Agree with this, just the simple addition of M & F would sort it.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, it's a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you hoping to interact with only one half of the couple?

When one half of the couple you're looking at is bi... it's nice to know which one before making contact. And... in the absence of photos there is a big difference between a 5'4" curvy lady with a 6'6" large guy and a 5'4" curvy guy with a 6'6" large lady.

Cal"

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Agree with this, just the simple addition of M & F would sort it.

S"

Been saying this for years

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By *aughtyenglishboy OP   Man
over a year ago

Poole

Any progress on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any progress on this?"

No reason why couples couldn't identify themselves who is who. When we're not sure we simply ask.

Mrs

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Yep, it's a good idea. "

I change depending on my mood.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Any progress on this?

No reason why couples couldn't identify themselves who is who. When we're not sure we simply ask.

Mrs "

Agreed, but it would be much easier if there was an option when filling in their details.

Cal

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

I get what you are saying but couples come in all sexes too

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...


"I get what you are saying but couples come in all sexes too"

do you mean MM / FF couples or couples with one or both are non-binary?

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By *thLincsCpleCouple
over a year ago

Barton upon Humber


"Hi team,

Great site - just had my first meet

Could you make it easier to show the gender on couples accounts? As it is almost impossible to work out which is which gender on some accounts particularly those using single letters for first names. Cheers"

Fully agree with this, we usually go on heights, assuming men are generally taller, but know this is heightist and not always the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont really see a need for this.

General trends will tell you the answer 99% of the time.

Normally the guy is taller.

If 1 is bi most of the time it's the lady.

Where he is bi and she isn't it normally says in the profile

In most couples he is older.

Yes all the above have exceptions but its enfough.

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By *orthEastJohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

Yep great idea

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By *zzy69Woman
over a year ago

The Lake District

I agree - of course it’s possible to work out who is who ( usually) but it takes time.

If you send a message to ask then you can no longer filter them out- can only block

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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Normally the guy is taller.

In most couples he is older.

Yes all the above have exceptions but its enfough."

I am four years older than my partner and two inches taller so in our couples profile we say Sally and Lee which should make it clear as S and L would be confusing. Also I drink and have tattooes and he doesn't. Which sex would you most commonly associate those traits with ?

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