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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, I utilise my filters on here and do my own searching, I find that works for me.

However I've just realised that by having single guys blocked from messaging me, the 'not looking for single guys' bit shows on my profile, even though I have 'men' ticked on my what I'm looking for section.

Weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, I utilise my filters on here and do my own searching, I find that works for me.

However I've just realised that by having single guys blocked from messaging me, the 'not looking for single guys' bit shows on my profile, even though I have 'men' ticked on my what I'm looking for section.

Weird "
the same goes with who looked at me. When you try to message then your told your not what theyre looking for. Hows that work?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

That's how it works, you block them and the profile says you're not looking for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah doesnt let people be indecisive or fickle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah doesnt let people be indecisive or fickle

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What's indecisive or fickle about it? I'm looking for single men so I've ticked looking for single men. I want to do my own searching rather than receiving messages so I block new messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's how it works, you block them and the profile says you're not looking for them "

But my profile says both, that's the problem. Rather than just using what I've ticked I'm looking for

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Profile says not looking for single guys now. I think it's a pain. Esp when bombarded with messages from single guys. Can't even put a cheeky status up without 20 moronic replies. Easier just self searching I think.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I've got women blocked but I don't have a 'Not looking for women' thing.

I assume it's because single men can be seen to be more of a 'nuisance' that you automatically get that message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way it works seems quite logical to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Profile says not looking for single guys now. I think it's a pain. Esp when bombarded with messages from single guys. Can't even put a cheeky status up without 20 moronic replies. Easier just self searching I think. "

Yeah I much prefer self searching too, just makes my profile look odd haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've got women blocked but I don't have a 'Not looking for women' thing.

I assume it's because single men can be seen to be more of a 'nuisance' that you automatically get that message."

Yeah possibly, strange way of doing it though and makes me look like a contradiction

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I've got women blocked but I don't have a 'Not looking for women' thing.

I assume it's because single men can be seen to be more of a 'nuisance' that you automatically get that message.

Yeah possibly, strange way of doing it though and makes me look like a contradiction "

Haha you can be a beautiful contradiction then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, I utilise my filters on here and do my own searching, I find that works for me.

However I've just realised that by having single guys blocked from messaging me, the 'not looking for single guys' bit shows on my profile, even though I have 'men' ticked on my what I'm looking for section.

Weird "

It also shows on your verifications so what do you make of that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess all you can do is make it clear in the profile text. But even then it doesn't always work.

We also look for single guys, but sometimes put the filter on to make life a bit easier.

But this still ended up in an accusation of being fickle/confusing on the forum in a completely unrelated thread.

Oh well....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess all you can do is make it clear in the profile text. But even then it doesn't always work.

We also look for single guys, but sometimes put the filter on to make life a bit easier.

But this still ended up in an accusation of being fickle/confusing on the forum in a completely unrelated thread.

Oh well.... "

Yeah who reads profile text?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So, I utilise my filters on here and do my own searching, I find that works for me.

However I've just realised that by having single guys blocked from messaging me, the 'not looking for single guys' bit shows on my profile, even though I have 'men' ticked on my what I'm looking for section.

Weird

It also shows on your verifications so what do you make of that!"

What's my verifications got to do with it?

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"So, I utilise my filters on here and do my own searching, I find that works for me.

However I've just realised that by having single guys blocked from messaging me, the 'not looking for single guys' bit shows on my profile, even though I have 'men' ticked on my what I'm looking for section.

Weird "

I agree OP it does not make sense.

They are simply your message filters not what you are actually looking for.

I am like you and prefer to do my own searching.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I've got women blocked but I don't have a 'Not looking for women' thing.

I assume it's because single men can be seen to be more of a 'nuisance' that you automatically get that message.

Yeah possibly, strange way of doing it though and makes me look like a contradiction "

Yes but anyone who actually reads your profile will understand

Good filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

..wow..us single blokes don't half get a rough ride (excuse the pun) on this site...bet if I was in a relationship my inbox would be caked in offers! Lol. Maybe I should just through in the towel an admit defeat cut me losses...This is a swinging couples site only!! (Walks off into the sunset like bill bixby, piano theme kicks in...)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"..wow..us single blokes don't half get a rough ride (excuse the pun) on this site...bet if I was in a relationship my inbox would be caked in offers! Lol. Maybe I should just through in the towel an admit defeat cut me losses...This is a swinging couples site only!! (Walks off into the sunset like bill bixby, piano theme kicks in...) "

Where's the rough ride? I'm talking purely about how the site functions for my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So, I utilise my filters on here and do my own searching, I find that works for me.

However I've just realised that by having single guys blocked from messaging me, the 'not looking for single guys' bit shows on my profile, even though I have 'men' ticked on my what I'm looking for section.

Weird

I agree OP it does not make sense.

They are simply your message filters not what you are actually looking for.

I am like you and prefer to do my own searching. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've got women blocked but I don't have a 'Not looking for women' thing.

I assume it's because single men can be seen to be more of a 'nuisance' that you automatically get that message.

Yeah possibly, strange way of doing it though and makes me look like a contradiction

Yes but anyone who actually reads your profile will understand

Good filter "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't worry 90% of single guys become illiterate when they see a profile they will never notice lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sure is weird lol

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

Maybe the text on the profile should read something like "Not receiving messages from Single Guys" ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe the text on the profile should read something like "Not receiving messages from Single Guys" ??"

Yeah that would be much better

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