FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Fabswingers.com site feedback

Messages from Str8 men to TVs CDs etc

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A straight guy messages me. If I choose to reply to him, why does one get the "he's straight" warning announcement?

It should only flag up if I am messaging him in the first instance. If he messages me first, it would be great if he got a flag that says "dude aren't you straight?

Why are you messaging a CD/TV?" I should not have that flag.

#justsaying

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orksCouple25Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"A straight guy messages me. If I choose to reply to him, why does one get the "he's straight" warning announcement?

It should only flag up if I am messaging him in the first instance. If he messages me first, it would be great if he got a flag that says "dude aren't you straight?

Why are you messaging a CD/TV?" I should not have that flag.

#justsaying "

These guys obviously think they are straight but they aren't . It's like the guys who say they are not not gay/bi because they only suck a cock occasionally !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oohTV/TS
over a year ago

Dublin


"A straight guy messages me. If I choose to reply to him, why does one get the "he's straight" warning announcement?

It should only flag up if I am messaging him in the first instance. If he messages me first, it would be great if he got a flag that says "dude aren't you straight?

Why are you messaging a CD/TV?" I should not have that flag.

#justsaying

These guys obviously think they are straight but they aren't . It's like the guys who say they are not not gay/bi because they only suck a cock occasionally ! "

I just don't understand it. I've lost count of the number of men who've winked, fabbed, messaged who are apparently not looking for TV's. You check their profile and half their friends are TV, some even verified by TV's. If they can't be honest with themselves, they are definitely not going to be honest with me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm honest about my tastes always. I really don't see the point in lying to yourself. We have one life. So live It!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No no no - this is about the fabs system / software

Example- a man who says he is not into TVs or CDs messages me first. When I reply to his message, the system has this warning message at the top of the reply page.

STOP. THINK.

[username] is not looking to meet TV/TS/CD

You are much more likely to get a reply from people who are looking for TV/TS/CD.

If someone has written to you - surely you shouldn't receive that warning flag

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

This is because the 'straight' man has not included tv ts in what he's looking for..

Many reasons for this but remember a lot of lying /secrecy/ denial is associated with sex..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

It shouldn't work like you describe it should only show on first contacts. Could be bug. We'll check it out

Admin x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"No no no - this is about the fabs system / software

Example- a man who says he is not into TVs or CDs messages me first. When I reply to his message, the system has this warning message at the top of the reply page.

STOP. THINK.

[username] is not looking to meet TV/TS/CD

You are much more likely to get a reply from people who are looking for TV/TS/CD.

If someone has written to you - surely you shouldn't receive that warning flag

"

Are you messaging back through the reply function or going off to look at their profile and messaging from there?

Just a thought..

S

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 24/03/17 10:50:35]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 24/03/17 10:50:35]"

I've long supported the introduction of a sexuality filter which I feel would go a long way towards helping improve the efficiency of the site for all members ...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It shouldn't work like you describe it should only show on first contacts. Could be bug. We'll check it out

Admin x"

Thank you Admin ji.

I have noticed that three or four times when I am replying to a first message by someone.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No no no - this is about the fabs system / software

Example- a man who says he is not into TVs or CDs messages me first. When I reply to his message, the system has this warning message at the top of the reply page.

STOP. THINK.

[username] is not looking to meet TV/TS/CD

You are much more likely to get a reply from people who are looking for TV/TS/CD.

If someone has written to you - surely you shouldn't receive that warning flag

Are you messaging back through the reply function or going off to look at their profile and messaging from there?

Just a thought..

S"

Replying to a first message by them. I am not creating a new message via their profile to reply.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"No no no - this is about the fabs system / software

Example- a man who says he is not into TVs or CDs messages me first. When I reply to his message, the system has this warning message at the top of the reply page.

STOP. THINK.

[username] is not looking to meet TV/TS/CD

You are much more likely to get a reply from people who are looking for TV/TS/CD.

If someone has written to you - surely you shouldn't receive that warning flag

Are you messaging back through the reply function or going off to look at their profile and messaging from there?

Just a thought..

S

Replying to a first message by them. I am not creating a new message via their profile to reply. "

Deffo a glitch then..

S

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It shouldn't work like you describe it should only show on first contacts. Could be bug. We'll check it out

Admin x"

I can email a screenshot of the situation if you would like?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem with straight guys mailing me and cannot see what the fuss is about....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *venturerMan
over a year ago

Bodmin

[Removed by poster at 27/03/17 22:50:17]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same thing when replying to someone except it was because I was out of their preferred age range-they had messaged me first though.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

trans woman should also not be put in with cds/tvs, dont think it is fair for this, as for str8 men msging u i think most men will fuck anything that looks like a woman not all tho lol at the end of the day you are trying your best to make yourself look like a woman and look very feminine and some look very convincing, how many of these guys would msg if u took away everything that makes u look like a woman, the fake hair,makeup,womans clothing hells etc but i think its another thing when they find out your cds/tvs and still want to meet up , then they may just curious and experimenting to see if they like this they may go with there first cds and not enjoy it and think that aint for me so no need to bash them for this, myself i wouldnt go with cds/tvs and when i see it says clearly on profile that person is a cds i never msg but i am open to trans woman as i see them as woman and should be treated as such

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Oh dear ....im not sure that will go down well .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A straight guy messages me. If I choose to reply to him, why does one get the "he's straight" warning announcement?

It should only flag up if I am messaging him in the first instance. If he messages me first, it would be great if he got a flag that says "dude aren't you straight?

Why are you messaging a CD/TV?" I should not have that flag.

#justsaying "

Hahaha this is actually a really good idea

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"trans woman should also not be put in with cds/tvs, dont think it is fair for this"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Still get the flag even now

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"trans woman should also not be put in with cds/tvs, dont think it is fair for this

"

Fully transitioned women should not .....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ntcovMan
over a year ago

Church Gresley / Swadlincote

I also think there is a lot of confusion on here of peoples understanding of the terms transexual and transvestite...they are not the smae thing, quite different!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I also think there is a lot of confusion on here of peoples understanding of the terms transexual and transvestite...they are not the smae thing, quite different!"

spot on mate

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is because the 'straight' man has not included tv ts in what he's looking for..

Many reasons for this but remember a lot of lying /secrecy/ denial is associated with sex..

"

usually because ts and tv are completly different. Put you want to meet tv/ts on your page, and you get bombarded by blokes in wigs and their missus' knickers.

When you have no intention of meeting a tv/cd at all because like i said, is a bloke dressed up.

A ts or tg however, may have a penis, may have once had one. But they are not a man. They are going through changes or have been through them. They may have once been a man. But now theyre a woman. hence transsexual or transgender. They have transistioned from one gender to another, for life! Not until their missus gets home and wants her underwear back.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *arroness NikkiWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


" usually because ts and tv are completly different. Put you want to meet tv/ts on your page, and you get bombarded by blokes in wigs and their missus' knickers.

When you have no intention of meeting a tv/cd at all because like i said, is a bloke dressed up.

A ts or tg however, may have a penis, may have once had one. But they are not a man. They are going through changes or have been through them. They may have once been a man. But now theyre a woman. hence transsexual or transgender. They have transistioned from one gender to another, for life! Not until their missus gets home and wants her underwear back."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s cause if women see they are after TV/TS as well, a lot don’t like it, they put it in there profiles!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us are just drawing to the feminine qualities that ts/tv shows

Oh yes and it's always fun

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well put this another way I get more gay and bi men message me than women and couples and I'm not gay or bi

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 19/03/18 23:58:40]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 19/03/18 23:58:45]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is because the 'straight' man has not included tv ts in what he's looking for..

Many reasons for this but remember a lot of lying /secrecy/ denial is associated with sex..

usually because ts and tv are completly different. Put you want to meet tv/ts on your page, and you get bombarded by blokes in wigs and their missus' knickers.

When you have no intention of meeting a tv/cd at all because like i said, is a bloke dressed up.

A ts or tg however, may have a penis, may have once had one. But they are not a man. They are going through changes or have been through them. They may have once been a man. But now theyre a woman. hence transsexual or transgender. They have transistioned from one gender to another, for life! Not until their missus gets home and wants her underwear back."

Way off the mark... you’re massively over simplifying the trans community

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well put this another way I get more gay and bi men message me than women and couples and I'm not gay or bi"

It will be the 6ft 4 height and muscular chest

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is because the 'straight' man has not included tv ts in what he's looking for..

Many reasons for this but remember a lot of lying /secrecy/ denial is associated with sex..

usually because ts and tv are completly different. Put you want to meet tv/ts on your page, and you get bombarded by blokes in wigs and their missus' knickers.

When you have no intention of meeting a tv/cd at all because like i said, is a bloke dressed up.

A ts or tg however, may have a penis, may have once had one. But they are not a man. They are going through changes or have been through them. They may have once been a man. But now theyre a woman. hence transsexual or transgender. They have transistioned from one gender to another, for life! Not until their missus gets home and wants her underwear back."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


" usually because ts and tv are completly different. Put you want to meet tv/ts on your page, and you get bombarded by blokes in wigs and their missus' knickers.

When you have no intention of meeting a tv/cd at all because like i said, is a bloke dressed up.

A ts or tg however, may have a penis, may have once had one. But they are not a man. They are going through changes or have been through them. They may have once been a man. But now theyre a woman. hence transsexual or transgender. They have transistioned from one gender to another, for life! Not until their missus gets home and wants her underwear back.

"
its time transwomen got off their high horse .they are no better than the likes of me.learn to deal with that fact .you are not superior to me .We are all human beings .live and let live .stop your moaning .we are,all here for the same thing ...fun .and if not then get yourself out into the real world

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *d59michelleTV/TS
over a year ago

walsall

I'd liken it to being in an adult cinema when a couple come in no one wants to play with the CD etc soon as the couple have gone they drift back

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top