FabSwingers.com forum: Warning when sending an extra

By *hilfi OP Man
over a year ago

Southampton

I got used to seeing the warning when attempting to send a message to some who had not replied to me.

However, I'm seeing cases where this warning doesn't happen with some profiles. Is there a reason for this? Or,is it just a bug?

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

only happens the 2nd time you send a message and no reply I believe, after that you don't get them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you see the message why message again!!!!!

Fuming

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"only happens the 2nd time you send a message and no reply I believe, after that you don't get them."

I've been told by a mod that they keep seeing them, however many times they message.

Not that the fuckers take any notice.

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"If you see the message why message again!!!!!

Fuming"

I think that's the point making seeing that means he's trying not to.

Non site supporters can't see remember who've they've messaged.

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Can't say I've ever noticed this.. Does it show on their profile home page that you messaged them previously (lists the last time you messaged each other, if they are on your hotlist, etc..) cos if not I would say you have never contacted them previously..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you see the message why message again!!!!!

Fuming"

Exactly they should be blocked....

Or could it be that the very popular lady just block deleted all her messages as many now seem to do and it many not have been that she wasn't interested?

See it actually does make sense to reply and say no thank you lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you see the message why message again!!!!!

Fuming

Exactly they should be blocked....

Or could it be that the very popular lady just block deleted all her messages as many now seem to do and it many not have been that she wasn't interested?

See it actually does make sense to reply and say no thank you lol."

I did reply... dunno what i said but i replied

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

If you replied then someone wouldn't get the warning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you see the message why message again!!!!!

Fuming

Exactly they should be blocked....

Or could it be that the very popular lady just block deleted all her messages as many now seem to do and it many not have been that she wasn't interested?

See it actually does make sense to reply and say no thank you lol.

I did reply... dunno what i said but i replied"

Did you delete then...

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By *orksCouple25Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"If you see the message why message again!!!!!

Fuming"

Perhaps it depends on the circumstances e.g. If someone never replied in the first place maybe they never saw the message ? Maybe the previous message was 2 years before just after joining the site and were very nervous and now they are more confident about meeting people etc etc .If someone doesn't want to meet somone ever in the future just block them and that's it.

As long as a message is polite it doesn't seem like the end of the world to us .Another thing many people in their vanilla lives have asked someone out on a date more than once and then ended up being very happily married to that person in the end !

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