FabSwingers.com forum: Verification summary

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We must ask what on earth is the point of a verification summary?

Ever since its inception its main use which is very evident to us is for fake couple/ female profiles to seem verified by the single male who set it up.

I cannot think many, if any genuine couples want or need a summary of verifications .We have discussed this many many times at clubs and social and everyone has said they like to read verifications of potential playmates and see who has written them .

Everyone could already choose which ones to display or not so what was the thinking behind it as an improvement ?

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I prefare to see the Summary over actual verifications.

People can easily hide some verifications to there advantage but they cannot hide what is on the summary. Yes, they can choose not to show it... where I would ask to see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to prefer the summary because to know who has played with whom is big gossip (and can sometimes cause drama).

How about this, if there was a choice of displaying the verification but obscuring the username of who left it?

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I show mine because it shows how many people have verified me without the lamp post pissing type messages that some people think it OK to send.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think the difference is that you three above actively seek males, where the majority of our friends and us included block them from contacting us for a reason.

A reason which they know only too well and try to circumvent by creating fake profiles .

When a new couple joins 2 hours ago and gets verified 2 hours ago by 1 male in one meet, take it as read its fake .verification summary stops us all proving it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the summary is excellent. For me.. it shows I've met people not too long ago without having a sleezy 'look at me' trail of where I have been and what I did.

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Im a massive fan of the summery, i never show veri's only my summery, but hey maybe thats because I'm fake?

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

The trouble with summary shows is that it doesn't tell you that the 90+ veris you got are actually over a 5year span or a good portion of those are social meets from people. Some people just see the number and nothing else, then you just get abuse or a block so you can't explain!

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

South London

We've experienced negative feedback for how many meets we had on our verification summary before our profile stated "Joined over a year" as some said we had been with too many people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've experienced negative feedback for how many meets we had on our verification summary before our profile stated "Joined over a year" as some said we had been with too many people."

Yep we get the same if we showed our summary it would say 370+ veris, we ran a club night for newbies so many have left the site or split up etc so we don't show the summary....

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I wòuldnt give a monkeys about what people say about the amount of people the summary says I've met.. I know exactly how many sexual meets and social meets I've had so it's nobody's business.

For me a summary is about how truthful a person is. I get a lot of guys messaging me trying to hide the fact they are bisexual because I'm not looking for that.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I wòuldnt give a monkeys about what people say about the amount of people the summary says I've met.. I know exactly how many sexual meets and social meets I've had so it's nobody's business.

For me a summary is about how truthful a person is. I get a lot of guys messaging me trying to hide the fact they are bisexual because I'm not looking for that."

How does a summary show if a man is bisexual, just because it says a man left a veri doesn't necessarily mean he's played with him, he could have met him in a club or social event and just spoken to him

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"I wòuldnt give a monkeys about what people say about the amount of people the summary says I've met.. I know exactly how many sexual meets and social meets I've had so it's nobody's business.

For me a summary is about how truthful a person is. I get a lot of guys messaging me trying to hide the fact they are bisexual because I'm not looking for that.

Because a lot also have verifications that say what a amazing time they had

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"I wòuldnt give a monkeys about what people say about the amount of people the summary says I've met.. I know exactly how many sexual meets and social meets I've had so it's nobody's business.

For me a summary is about how truthful a person is. I get a lot of guys messaging me trying to hide the fact they are bisexual because I'm not looking for that."

That's why some guys have 2 profiles to get round that a straight one and a bi one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd don't display the summaries & not often the verifications either frim past experience of dramas of who is playing with who.

I would prefer a delete a verification function.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The trouble with summary shows is that it doesn't tell you that the 90+ veris you got are actually over a 5year span or a good portion of those are social meets from people. Some people just see the number and nothing else, then you just get abuse or a block so you can't explain! "

I'm one who avoids those with many veris....

I understand the argument of that you can't see when they were after the first year...ect...blah blah blah. For me it's a bit irrelevant as I'm not looking those who go to socials and meet or play with loads. For me what stands out is how many veris and how many individual meets/ plays.

If someone had 50 veris by 20 people I'm more interested than someone with 15 veris from 15 people.

If someone hides the summary then I just skip and block....If they have single guys blocked I'll just skip and block....same with those who dont reply I just skip and block. It saves them and of course myself appearing in searches and wasting each others time.

I do think fab should not have it limited to just the one year, which appeats to be very silly too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I heard a rumour that some people have sex outside of Fab. So the 1,000 people they fucked that week don't even show up on the verification summary. WTF???!!!

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"I heard a rumour that some people have sex outside of Fab. So the 1,000 people they fucked that week don't even show up on the verification summary. WTF???!!!

How very dare they!

Shouldn't be allowed....

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By *rGirth777Man
over a year ago

shrewsbury/London/Any where anytime

I've been on here for 3 week and have tried to meet any lady and I just can't get someone to take a chance on me. I'm a paid up member gold I've been verified by the admin but not another fabber.

All I want to do is meet ladies, no blokes as I'm not that way. for good NSA sex. It so difficult I send face pics the lot. I'm not ugly because I pull every time i go out and have done for years.

So you are probably wondering if i can pull every weekend what I'm I doing on here. Well truth is i can't get enough.

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I've been on here for 3 week and have tried to meet any lady and I just can't get someone to take a chance on me. I'm a paid up member gold I've been verified by the admin but not another fabber.

All I want to do is meet ladies, no blokes as I'm not that way. for good NSA sex. It so difficult I send face pics the lot. I'm not ugly because I pull every time i go out and have done for years.

So you are probably wondering if i can pull every weekend what I'm I doing on here. Well truth is i can't get enough."

It would seem you cant get any

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